People are very contradictory species, and this contradiction will also be reflected in their own positioning and evaluation. Sometimes, we are too confident to care about anyone and think that we are the only capable person in the world; Sometimes, we feel inferior and decadent, thinking that we are poor and can't do a little thing well.
In fact, you have always been you, and you have not changed. The reason why there will be such emotional changes is because we often evaluate ourselves in comparison, and when we encounter something worse than ourselves, we will be complacent; When you meet someone better than yourself, you will be very depressed. The object of comparison is not only people, but also the problems we deal with. We are happy to solve simple problems. An unsolvable problem is like a frosted eggplant.
In addition to what psychology says, it is necessary to establish a self-evaluation mechanism, which also reminds us to associate with excellent people and skillfully use contrast to stimulate ourselves.
When you are content with the status quo and don't seek progress;
When we choose comfort and don't want to move forward;
When we give up easily and admit cowardice easily,
Compare the gap between yourself and capable people, and remind yourself not to fall behind on the way forward.
But sometimes limited by the living and working environment, there are only a handful of capable people around us. Moreover, talented people are busy with self-improvement. As kings, they naturally don't want to bring us bronze, so they let us chew the incomparable pain alone. So we need to find an organization where everyone encourages each other and moves forward hand in hand.
Laobai writing training exchange group is such an organization. As the name implies, this is a group about writing, and it is a platform specially provided by teacher Lao Bai with a small slash to make students who study writing progress faster. The content of Mr. Lao Bai's writing course has been introduced in the previous article (/p/b3 13 19be9472), and this time I mainly want to introduce Amway's after-sales service to you.
We know that writing is a very helpful activity for self-improvement, which can not only improve the language expression ability and logical thinking ability, but also give us an opportunity to sum up and reflect on ourselves, so that we can constantly choose to move forward. However, writing is different from others. Writing is a job that can hardly be improved by our own efforts, because it is difficult for us to find our own logical loopholes under the influence of stereotyped thinking. It's like practicing peerless martial arts. You only know the moves, but you don't know the methods. You can only stand still. And the works are all commented by teachers, just like the martial arts predecessors taught us the mind method.
Not much to say, continue the after-sales of Amway Laobai writing class. After attending Lao Bai's writing course, the writing communication group began to play a role.
First, there are professional review teachers in the group. According to the writing direction you chose in the early stage, there will be special reviewers in each direction, from media, novels and soft articles. The marking teacher has profound theoretical knowledge, rich practical experience and is serious and responsible. The article reviews mainly encourage and point out the shortcomings, so that you can accurately find your own crux.
Second, there are strict rules for punching in the group, and a small monitor is responsible for supervision. After the writing class, the exchange group began to punch in for 30 days. In order to prevent everyone from being lazy, the head of the delegation formulated strict punching rules to urge everyone to put theory into practice, and arranged a small monitor to urge everyone to punch in actively and record their punching information.
Third, there are inspirational friends in the group. On the way to growth, you are a mentor. Good friends are indispensable. In order to improve their writing ability, everyone in the writing group is actively punching in. Whenever I feel slack, I see the small partners who are constantly working in the group. Somehow, there is a kind of power that makes me stop playing mobile phones and switch to code words.
When we buy physical goods, it is always inevitable to consider after-sales. And I decided to buy her other courses later because of the after-sales of Laobai's writing training camp. Strong after-sales, capable of carrying goods. The opportunity to make yourself better is at hand. Buy an old white writing class, join a writing exchange group, and work hard with like-minded friends to make yourself better.