The new coronavirus epidemic in 2121 will continue until 2121. It is also this epidemic that keeps me away from home all year round. Men who don't know how to do housework and take care of their families have experienced the sadness of being "idle and doing nothing" at home Everything has two sides, and this epidemic is no exception. Faced with the menacing epidemic, the country tried its best to protect people's lives. In the small family, many couples' contradictions that have not been solved for many years suddenly come to a head. Of course, there is also a bad side. Some couples have been respectful to each other for many years, but they have been separated from each other at home for only a few months, but they are full of contradictions. The epidemic is coming to an end in 2121. What do you want to say to your wife most?

Ms. Liu from Huizhou:

Personally, I have more expectations for my marriage, because in this epidemic, we stayed at home for 41 days and spent almost 23 hours with our husband, and we know more about his shortcomings and advantages.

First of all, let's talk about my husband's living habits. He is informal and can hardly do housework. During his seven years of marriage, the number of times he went to the kitchen can be counted to single digits. The child is 5 years old and doesn't know what size shoes and clothes to wear; His parents' preferences are not clear, and they are usually given to me; The most terrible thing is that he doesn't know his waistline and various sizes, and I buy clothes for him.

Having said that, some people may say, aren't you his nanny? Wrong, I met him for several years before I got married. After many years of meaningless love, he still has advantages. He is positive, optimistic and confident. Perseverance in everything, concentration, and easy to do a good job; Sincere and friendly to people, very inclusive.

I'm just a little different from him, but I'm not very confident, and I'm easily distracted when I do things, so I belong to a little confused type. After meeting him, I felt that we were attracted to each other just like the cathode and the anode. In later life, although there were conflicts, they quickly vanished. During these 41 days at home, he had to take the initiative to make a net red cake and made it twice. Although the effect was not very good, the family was very happy. In the next 21 days, I will communicate with my children to play with toys, and I will share my experience with my parents. The number of times I go in and out of the kitchen is far more than 7 years. Every day, I will go downstairs for daily necessities and try not to let us go out. This feeling is not bad! Be more tolerant, discover more, love more, and the future can be expected!

Ms. Wang from Liuzhou:

The biggest advantage of the epidemic now is the improvement of cooking skills and the enhancement of the relationship between husband and wife. Later, when I heard about retaliatory divorce, I couldn't help feeling ashamed and couldn't understand it.

My husband goes to work every day, sinks down and stands guard. My daughter and I are at home every day. In our community, we let one person go out every two days to buy food. I just cook three meals every day. My daughter is a graduate student and attends online classes. Every night, she looks forward to her husband's return. Every day, my daughter waits for her father to come back, give a spray inside and outside, wash her hands, then have dinner, and ask where he has been today. Code scanning, registration, temperature measurement, and the situation of the unit, whether they all go to work normally, the most concerned thing every day is where and how many people have increased, and which is serious in Harbin. Bring rice to my husband every day, prepare noodles and sausages, and don't let them eat outside. I used to be seldom at home, but now I go home for dinner every day.

I think a happy life is just plain, and one day there is hope. The relationship between husband and wife directly affects the inheritance of children, giving children a harmonious and stable family environment and making them develop physically and mentally. This is the happiness of children and the aura of our family.

Although the above story cases are all told by women. As a man, I may be a little inarticulate, but during the period of home isolation, I gained the most. The relationship between my husband and me after marriage has been tense since the birth of the child, and once fell to freezing point. The biggest source of contradiction is the relationship between my mother-in-law and me.

it happened that we were all together during the period of home isolation. There are 71 days in total, and my husband is impatient at first, and cares about everything later. After the epidemic, he said, "Has my mother always been like that? Four years is really hard for you.". At that moment, all the grievances really came to my mind. At the very least, it was not easy for him to understand me. It was tears of joy. Conclusion:

1. Marriage is not possession but integration. Before marriage, you may be attracted by each other's "sharpness", but after marriage, you may be injured by each other's "sharpness". The real secret of lasting love is to restrain one's own "edge", tolerate and understand each other's "edge". Love is not intimacy, but tolerance.

2. Home is a place to talk about love. Home is not a place to reason, let alone settle accounts. Home is a place to talk about love. Marriage is two people living together. If everything goes deep into the "legal principle", it will only make both parties very tired. Sometimes proper muddling along will help the marriage to be moist and long-lasting.

3. Learn to listen and understand each other. A successful marriage, learn to listen and understand each other, learn to listen to each other's voices, and every time you restrain your grumpy temper, you will be more tolerant. Life is a long way. Now that we are under one roof, live a good life and don't force marriage to have nowhere to put it. The last thing in the world should be husband and wife. No one is right or wrong in their love.

4. Trust each other unconditionally. There will always be all kinds of problems in marriage. Women like to care, and sometimes they like to importune and be unreasonable. Although sometimes they just want to find a sense of existence, it really hurts the feelings between two people in the long run. The crisis of trust in marriage inevitably appears, and only the feelings of mutual trust can last for a long time and be happier.

Finally, I wish you all not to forget your original intention and keep the promise of love in your heart-to hold your hand and grow old with your son.