Departure: The man carries six or twelve gifts, fires a gun to leave for the woman's house, and then fires a gun when she arrives at the woman's house, and the woman's house also fires a gun to show that it is ready.

Welcome: The matchmaker gets off first, and the others get off next. The groom is invited by the younger generation of the bride's family.

introduction: the man's relatives and friends enter the woman's house in sequence, and the matchmaker formally introduces the relatives and friends of both sides, first introducing the man to the woman's house.

levy: the man carries a gift into the woman's house, and the woman accepts it and gives it a red envelope; The gifts will be displayed in the hall, and the matchmaker will hand over the gifts, gold ornaments and gifts to the woman's parents. The woman's relatives and friends will collect the gifts and display the offerings on the table of the gods.

Serve sweet tea: the elder of the woman asks the relatives of the man to sit down according to the age, and the groom comes last. The bride-to-be is guided out of the hall by a lucky woman, holding sweet tea to offer tea to the man's guests.

Press the teacup: After a while, the bride leaves the hall to collect the teacup, and the husband's relatives and friends need to press the teacup with red envelopes.

wearing a ring: under the watchful eyes of parents and relatives of both parties, the bride-to-be sits in the high chair in the center of her main hall (facing inward if she is a daughter-in-law) facing the outside, and the low chair sticks up; Wear a ring on the middle finger (male left and female right). The groom-to-be gives the red envelope to the bride-to-be.

name change: the matchmaker guides both parties to change their names.

ancestor worship: uncle lights candles to burn incense, matchmaker reads auspicious words, and then the woman's parents worship the ancestors of the gods, telling them that the marriage is fixed and praying for blessing.

Reward: The woman accepts part of the gifts and betrothal money sent by the man, and gives him six or twelve gifts in return.

engagement party: after the engagement ceremony is completed, the woman prepares refreshments and holds a banquet to entertain the man (the seat is right for the man and left for the woman). The woman prepares chicken legs and gives a red envelope to the young man. In addition to the table pressing ceremony, the man gives a red envelope to all those who help.

seeing off guests: after the banquet, the male guests leave for home, and the younger generation of the woman washes their hands with a bucket of flour. If they are outside the restaurant, this gift is not required, and never say goodbye will see them off.