What does a 35-year-old single mother do to support her family?

I am also a 35-year-old single mother, living with two sons.

35 years old is really a bottleneck. If you find a job in the factory floor, you can. If ordinary office workers feel older, they have no time to work in the workshop and can't take care of their children normally. So now I'm also very anxious. But I suggest getting a job first, and then making some part-time income by myself. After your part-time job is stable, you can devote yourself to your career.

Single mothers have no ability to resist risks, and they are anxious and panicked. Only enough money can support their inner security. I think so, too. So, I wear several hats and work hard.

I firmly believe that the harder you work, the luckier you are.

It is not difficult for a 35-year-old single mother to find a job if she has a skill. If you don't have a skill, it's easy to find an ordinary job.

Single mother, the pressure is relatively high, because she has to raise children, so she is more practical at work.

According to the current age group, you can learn housekeeping. After all, the salary for domestic work is relatively high now. You can take your children to your parents' home first, and then bring them yourself when you have the strength.

Another problem is that ex-husbands also have certain responsibilities for raising children. We should find a way to get the ex-husband to pay alimony, rather than bear it alone, so as to reduce the pressure.

I have a distant cousin who takes care of her children after divorce. But she was smart enough to let her ex-husband pay alimony once, and then opened a small shop to take care of the children, killing two birds with one stone.

After earning some money, she went on to rent several facades and sublet them at a high price, which can be said to be a single mother with a relatively high IQ.

Later, according to this method, she rented some apartments and subletted them to white-collar workers, easily achieving a monthly income of over 10,000. Later, she could live a well-off life by monthly rent, and she no longer worked hard to run a small shop.

But it is also very hard, getting up early and getting greedy, and educating children. It is said that being a mother is strong, and a single mother must be stronger to take care of her children.

Also, the divorce rate is relatively high now. After marriage, when the conditions are ripe, consider whether to have children.

In short, single mothers are under great pressure, and it is not easy for fathers and mothers to worry about their children.

When looking for a job, I also want to find someone with a good salary to maintain my living expenses.

Therefore, single mothers in the workplace should strive to improve themselves, learn a skill, and find a job at any age.

Dai Xiao tells you that the subject must first know his own situation, so as to have a definite aim. Because I'm not sure about your specific situation, I can only share my experience with you for your reference.

I'm just like you. Others say that I have been poor for three years, and I suddenly encountered such a dilemma when I changed careers. You can do this problem like this:

First of all, what do you do now? How far is it from your goal?

We must survive before we can develop. Let's see what you can do first, such as what you are doing now. How far are you from the goal of bringing home the bacon? 5000 yuan is 5000 yuan, 10000 yuan is 10000 yuan.

If you don't have a job, you need to act quickly to find a job. First, during the epidemic, many factories have resumed work and started to recruit people. Can we start from this step?

What will your children do if you work? Can someone help? If there is no one to help, then choose a job that can take care of the children, flexible work, such as the courier of the US Mission, and so on.

Secondly, what are you good at? What do you want in the future?

Are there any jobs that you are interested in or have accumulated before? For example, you used to be an advertising designer. You can work part-time as an advertising designer and draw at home to make money. If you are good at taking care of your baby, you can also open a small nursery and make a living at home while taking care of your children.

These two steps are expedient measures. We should temporarily deal with the current short-term situation. When everything is stable, we need to make a long-term plan and find a job with accumulated experience, high complexity and a certain professional foundation, such as beauty therapy, Chinese massage, nanny, advertising UI design and so on.

It is not difficult to support a family. As long as you think clearly about your goals and make rational use of the resources around you, there will always be a time when the rain clears behind the dark clouds.

I feel a lot of pressure, and a single parent has a child, so now I dare not get married without any skills and abilities, for fear of unstable marriage relationship. As long as I divorce myself personally, I can be at home all over the world, and I am afraid that my children will suffer. . . But it is impossible not to bear and face it. .

I am also a single mother, with two children and several jobs. At present, there are two hourly jobs and two manual jobs at home, just enough for daily life! Every day is very practical! I don't have time to think about what I shouldn't, just how to survive first. How to make children happy!

Women must have jobs. If you have a job, you have status, and you have the capital to eat. You can tell me what to do. Making money is very important.

First of all, look at your own conditions! Of course, I can ask this question, and I'm sure all the diplomas are average.

In this case, the best way is to ask relatives for help! Let the family arrange a job.

Orphans and widows, helpless? I can only do service industry.

If the situation is better, you can learn to do beauty, manicure and hairdressing, and your income is high.

Then you can learn massage and pedicure, which should make a lot of money.

You can also be the wife of the Lunar New Year and do housework and so on.

Or work as a waiter or cleaner in a hotel restaurant.

Of course, even cleaners have to learn first! If you don't learn, you won't know anything!

When choosing a job, a 35-year-old single mother should consider the age of two problem children and her professional experience.

If the child is too young, there are many things to take care of every day, such as transportation to and from school every day, illness, school activities and so on. Therefore, you can choose civilian work, such as administrative back office, without considering the work that requires business trip. This kind of work is stable and regular, but the income is relatively small;

If the child is relatively independent or someone can help take care of it, consider sales or business. This kind of work pays better, but the working hours are more flexible. Business trips and entertainment receptions often take up private time, so taking care of children will not be timely.

Without skills, since the media is so developed, there are many things that can be done at home, but these benefits will take time to accumulate and will not be effective immediately.

No matter what happened in the past, choose bravely and face the challenge now. Although everything is difficult at the beginning, I believe that the future will only get better every day.

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