When it comes to drinking, almost everyone has experienced it personally, and "wine culture" is also an old and fresh topic. Modern people have found the function of wine more and more in the process of communication.
Indeed, wine, as a communication medium, plays a unique role in welcoming guests, seeing off guests, gathering friends, communicating with each other and passing on friendship. Therefore, exploring the "mystery" on the wine table will help you to seek the success of communication.
All people are happy together, so don't whisper
Classic toast
1. Excited heart and trembling hands, I gave my leader a glass of wine, but the leader didn't think I was ugly. -Ms. Li proposes a toast to the leader
2. The leader is in the top and I am in the bottom. Please say a few times. -the lady clinks glasses with the leader
3. My heart is shaking and my hands are shaking. I'll bring this man a drink, and he'll be happy to drink it. If he doesn't drink it, he won't go, that is, he won't go! -women propose a toast to men
5. Pour the wine into a white porcelain cup. Don't push the wine before you arrive. Although the wine is not good for human feelings, a friend from afar will have a drink. -A toast song of the grassland people in Inner Mongolia.
6, the feelings are deep and stuffy, and the feelings are shallow. -propose a toast to a friend
7. At sunrise, the river is full of flowers, and I wish you more prosperous business. -buy a drink for those who go into business
8. Make new friends and don't forget old ones. -Let's drink to old and new friends * * *
9. Say goodbye to the white emperor. -persuade people who can drink well
11. Show your skills in times of crisis, and my sister (brother) will drink a glass of wine for my brother.
11. Reach out when it's time to do it. Brother, I'll have a drink for her. -this classic drinkers' wager game is mostly used by heroes to save the United States.
12, the sky is blue, the sea is blue, and one cup is passed down
13, there is no cloud in the sky and there is drought in the ground, and that cup just now can't be counted
14, if you don't drink, who will drink? -make people who fight alcohol lawsuits have a drink
15. In the market economy, let's have a drink quickly. -used for business banquets
16. To make the guests drink well, they have to drink it at home first-for their own family to drink.
17. Women are beautiful and talented. Cup to cup. Come together-drink with women.
18, so bright a gleam on the foot of my bed, could there have been a frost already?, propose a toast, and have a drink. -drink with friends across the street
19, don't say anything, the closest relative is the eldest brother-drink with the elderly
21, are feelings iron or not? Iron! Then you are not afraid of stomach bleeding!
do you have deep feelings? Deep! Then you are not afraid of intravenous drip! -to friends
classic words to stop drinking
A: If you don't drink enough, you are afraid of losing face, and you are self-disciplined not to drink.
b: we are all bosom friends when we get together. Let's have a relaxing drink.
a: Qian Shan is always in love with thousands of waters. How about not drinking this cup?
b: a big river has wide waves, so you have to do whatever you say in this glass of wine!
a: when I came, my wife told me to drink less and eat more food.
b: wine makes a hero, and he refuses to obey his wife.
a friendship between gentlemen is as light as water-tea instead of wine
I'll sing a song for you, and then I'll drink it if it's not good.
Third, the wine table is in a fierce battle. Classic wine words
1. A big river has wide waves. Let's take this cup and do it.
2, a small amount is not a gentleman, and you can't drink without a husband!
3. The east wind is blowing and the drums are beating. Whoever drinks today is afraid of who!
Toast
Toast: A toast is a speech that expresses sincere congratulations before the banquet.
format:
1 title.
2 appellation.
3 text: under what circumstances, the speaker (or representative) expresses welcome, thanks and greetings to the attendees; Talk about achievements, functions and significance; Looking forward to the future, contact the tasks and missions.
4 "Allow me to drink to whom and why" is often used at the end.
Speech at the Banquet
Today, on the occasion of the 5th Border and Local Economic and Trade Fair in Harbin, China, on behalf of the organizing committee of the Fair, I would like to warmly welcome new and old friends from domestic and foreign business circles to the meeting to discuss trade and economic and technological cooperation projects, further strengthen mutual understanding, deepen friendship, promote the development of friendly cooperation between the two sides, and wish you fruitful results at this fair.
let's drink a toast together!
You two are happily married.
Don't forget to nurture the elderly.
Do a good job for the elderly in Gaotang.
Your children will give you three bows!
one bow: thank your parents for raising your children
two bows: you should honor your parents in the future
and then bow: you should be happy, and don't forget your parents when you have a good thing!
Most banquets have more guests, so we should try to talk about some topics that most people can participate in and get the approval of most people. Because one's hobbies and knowledge are different, the topic should not be too partial as far as possible, so as to avoid being the only one, being far apart and talking endlessly, which leads to digression and ignores everyone.
especially, try not to whisper to others, giving others a sense of mystery, which will often lead to jealousy of "just the two of you" and affect the effect of drinking.
2. aim at the host and guest and grasp the overall situation
most banquets have a theme, which is the purpose of drinking. When you go to dinner, you should first look around at your expressions and prioritize. Don't drink just for the sake of drinking, and lose a good chance to make friends, let alone let some grandstanding drinkers disturb the host's meaning.
3, the language is appropriate, humorous
A person's talent, common sense, cultivation and communication manners can be displayed on the table. Sometimes a humorous language will leave a deep impression on the guests and make people feel good about you invisibly. Therefore, we should know when to say something, and it is crucial to use proper language and be humorous.
4. Don't try to persuade others to drink moderately.
There is always a phenomenon of persuading others to drink more at the wine table. Some people always like to use the wine field as a battlefield and try their best to persuade others to drink more, thinking that it is unrealistic not to drink enough.
"Talk about heroes with wine" is ok for people who drink a lot, but it is difficult for those who drink a little. Sometimes, if you persuade them too much, it will completely destroy the original friends' feelings.
5. Toast in an orderly way, with clear priorities
Toast is also a science. Generally speaking, toasting should be in the order of age, position and the identity of the guest and the host. Before toasting, we must fully consider the order of toasting and distinguish between primary and secondary. In order to drink with people you don't know, you should first inquire about your identity or pay attention to what others call you, so as to avoid embarrassing or hurting feelings.
when toasting, you must grasp the order of toasting. If you want a guest at the table, you should be more respectful to him, but it should be noted that if there are people with higher status or older people present, you should not only be respectful to those who can help you, but also toast the venerable elders first, otherwise everyone will be embarrassed.
6. Look at words and deeds, understand people's hearts
If you want to get everyone's appreciation on the wine table, you must learn to look at words and deeds. Because of communication with people, it is necessary to understand people's hearts, so as to play a good role on the wine table.
7, edgy gradually, sit firmly on Mount Tai
At the banquet, you should see clearly the occasion, correctly evaluate your own strength, don't be too impulsive, try to keep some sense of alcohol and talk, don't let others underestimate yourself and don't show yourself too much, choose the right opportunity, and gradually radiate your edgy, so as to sit firmly on Mount Tai, so as not to give others the idea of "this ability", so that everyone can't underestimate your strength. Nizi, I make a toast, and please add it!
"I advise you to have another glass of wine and make friends all over the world."
"The mountains are high and the water is flowing, and I am in touch with my eldest brother's wine"
"If you want the guests to drink well, you have to drink it at home first"-used for drinking by your own family in this unit.
"I'll stay with my eldest sister when I'm young."
"Xiao Hecai has a sharp nose, and today he drinks a lot."
"Excited heart, shaking hands, I propose a toast to the leader."
"so bright a gleam on the foot of my bed, could there have been a frost already?, propose a toast to each other and have a drink." -Drink
"Don't say anything, the closest relative is the eldest brother"-Drink
"I awake light-hearted this morning of spring, everywhere round me the singing of birds, raise your glasses and ask the young lady how much I should drink?" -The woman has the final say
"It's fate to meet thousands of miles away, so it's not wrong to drink or not."
Wine-blocking words:
"A friendship between gentlemen is as light as water"-"I'll sing a song for you, and I'll drink it when it's not good"
Toast:
In response to the call of the party, you should drink more.
Kong Old Master Q taught us that it's not rude to come, so you should drink more.
The eyes of the masses are discerning. You haven't drunk enough. Come again.
deep feelings, one mouthful stuffy, good feelings, one mouthful,
shallow feelings, lick it. Emotional iron, drinking blood
I'd rather let my stomach drink a hole than let my feelings leave a seam
A small amount is not a gentleman, and I don't drink my husband
The east wind blows and the drums thunder, so whoever drinks today is afraid of who!
wine and meat pass through the intestines, but friends keep them!
men can't make good friends if they don't drink.
men don't drink, and they walk in the world in vain.
As long as they have it in their hearts, tea is also regarded as wine.
Wine is the essence of grain, and the more they drink, the younger they get.