Everyone has their own life. They are busy all day making a living, perhaps delivering takeout in the wind and rain, perhaps working overtime to make money, or working hard in married with children ...

Life is not easy, and we will never give up. We are all ordinary people. In order to make our families and children live better, to have enough food and clothing, and to avoid being in a daze when encountering something, we have to work hard to make money.

Middle-aged people live to be grandchildren and tired to be dogs. It is precisely because of this kind of helplessness and helplessness that we should have fun in our spare time, even if it is only to relax the fast pace, slow down appropriately and reduce the pressure on weekdays.

cultivate one's sentiment, cultivate one's mind and cultivate one's nature. I don't want to be a celebrity, but I want to live calmly.

It is neither materialistic nor fatalistic to know the destiny over the age of 51. It's just that at the age of 51, the roads, events and people we have met have become a thing of the past.

Habit and hard-to-change nature have become qualitative, so ordinary days are getting lighter and lighter, but they are also lively and fragrant, and everything is just right.

I didn't get up in the morning, and there was a constant message in the family group. I opened my eyes in a daze, picked up my mobile phone and looked at it carefully. I was still half asleep and half awake, and I was still sleepy. Happy birthday greetings popped up with naughty smiles.

The boss of the family always belongs to the kind of person who can't use and play with mobile phones. She is a "laggard" in the fast and fashionable network era, and she is basically "machine-blind" in the use and operation of various functions. On weekdays, even if there is occasional contact, it is mostly voice, but this morning there are two neat lines: "* * * Today is your 51th birthday, happy birthday to you!"

"Happy birthday, Sister, Sister and Aunt!" Red envelopes, red envelopes smashed up a lot, sent smiley expressions, and finally corrected the bad habit of opening red envelopes, and collected the blessings one by one.

On weekdays, the quiet family group has an active atmosphere ..............................................................................................................................................................

When I was washing and grooming, I heard someone knocking at the door. It turned out that in the early morning, the little beauty in the community went to the house to conduct a census. It was a big list of items, and there were many details on both sides. When she asked for information one by one, she left her aunt and called her sister, which made me stunned.

In a good mood, I secretly admire the serious and responsible working attitude of Little Beauty. She probably didn't realize her slip of the tongue, and I slowly lost my embarrassment when I first heard it.

When the water is boiling, let the child make a cup of tea for her sister. The little girl repeatedly said, "No need, no need, I still have a lot of homes to visit. Your community belongs to the" grid "that I am responsible for. I will call if anything happens later."

"Then bring the water and drink as you go. It's very tiring to run."

"It's really unnecessary, Sister. Thank you for cooperating with us and disturbing you."

...

"Mm-hmm, that's all right."

Smiling, I sent her out and watched the little girl go down the stairs. The corners of my mouth could not help but rise, as if I had been able to switch roles automatically.

The child said, "Mom, I prepared a gift for you two days ago. Jingdong Express will arrive today. Guess what it is?"

"what? Say good in advance this year's birthday, but what are you doing shopping? "

"Life needs a sense of ceremony, but you should also give gifts on your birthday. Do what you like, it is what you like. "

"flowers, cosmetics, clothes? Tell me what it is. Don't be so mysterious. "

"No, you'll know when we get there."

Take back the courier: "Why don't you open it and give it to me yourself?"

"I'll be surprised if I open it myself."

well, this sense of ritual also needs a process, which opens up the experience of perspective senses, and the result is second.

there was no surprise, because it was beyond my expectation.

The things in the carton are the dye tray, dip tray and a beautifully packaged box of 36-color solid watercolor pigments.

"It's a waste for you to buy these. I just found out the pigments you used before and felt it was a pity to throw them away, so I didn't have anything to daub them around. It's unnecessary to buy this seriously."

"I only buy it because you like painting. If you don't like it, throw it away."

After all, I heard the unhappiness and grievances in my tone. After all, it was the child's heart. I suddenly realized that I had said something wrong and quickly changed my mouth: "Thank you, thank you for your son's gift! I am afraid that there is no time to practice later, which is quite good. "

when I went home in the afternoon, there was a voice call on wechat: "* *, you didn't respond to the previous voice, are you busy?" Do you have a font size? "

I suddenly got caught in the loop again, and I didn't understand it directly. I'm afraid I'm slow to respond and feel slow for more than three or four beats.

"uh-huh, font size, what font size? What do you mean? "

"Oh, it's just another name like Li Qingzhao's Yi 'an Jushi and Bai Juyi's Xiangshan Jushi. Did you take the word or number except your own name? I've been free for a while and I'll carve you a formal chapter and a leisure chapter. "

"It sounds very lofty, but I have never thought about it or called it Xiao Xiao, ok?"

"That's fine, or you can think about it again. Send it to me on WeChat when it's good. I don't have good accessories at hand for the time being. You can carve a general one first, and then use it again when you meet good materials."

If I had known that this colleague was a famous teacher, he had both talents and feelings. When a retired person left the unit, he became two worlds with the outside world, but his kindness made me feel disrespectful and ashamed.

I have little contact with her, and suddenly I don't turn around. He said that he had written about himself before to express his gratitude.

In fact, it's all a matter of years, and it's useless and useless. It's not worth mentioning at all. I was surprised that super brain was really useful.

There's no excuse to refuse, so please accept it.

"All right, all right, thank you for being so thoughtful!"

is this a mistake? I have another birthday present invisibly. It's beautiful.

Time is a knife to kill a pig, and China has given birth to it. I know the age of destiny, and I have been tossing and turning for decades, and I have experienced numerous ups and downs. I should live for myself once.

In my spare time, I fell in love with graffiti for no reason and suspense. Occasionally, I would enjoy splashing ink and wander among flowers, birds, landscapes and still life. Although I no longer go to online classes to skip school, I painted a gourd ladle and a tiger according to the paintings found on the Internet.

Without teachers' guidance and professors, it seems that there is no point, especially in color matching and birds and birds. Most of the shapes drawn out are out of shape, and there is a big difference in appearance and shape. Occasionally, you can't help but want to make a circle. Remember to shield the beautiful teacher from your friends, for fear that she will be laughed at, just like being a thief.

Today, I'm 51 years old. I meet my better self in the unknown life journey, and I know my destiny at 51. At this age, I don't have to please and look up to others. I am also a landscape, and I live a favorite life in ordinary days.

Be a just-right old woman, healthy and happy, and follow her heart.

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