I. Choice
A farmer saved his wife from the flood, but his child was drowned.
Afterwards, people talked about it. Some people say that he did the right thing, because children can have another child, but wives can't come back from the dead. Some people say that he did something wrong, because his wife can marry someone else, but the child can't come back from the dead.
After listening to people's comments, I am also puzzled:
If you can only save one person, should you save your wife or children? So I visited the farmer and asked him what he thought at that time.
He replied, "I didn't think of anything. My wife passed me when the flood hit. I grabbed her and swam to the nearby hillside.
When I came back, the child had been washed away by the flood. "
On the way home, I thought about the farmer's words and said to myself:
There are many choices in life.
Second, the way of employing people.
Anyone who has been to the temple knows that as soon as he enters the temple gate, the first one is Amitabha, welcoming guests with a smiling face, and in the north of him, it is Darkmouth's black-faced Wei Tuo.
But according to legend, a long time ago, they were not in the same temple, but in charge of different temples.
Buddha Miller is enthusiastic and happy, so many people come, but he doesn't care about anything, and his accounts are improperly managed, so he still can't make ends meet.
Although Wei Tuo was a cook in charge of accounts, he was unhappy all day, which was too serious. He made fewer and fewer friends and finally died.
Buddha found this problem when he was looking for incense, so he put them in the same temple. Maitreya was in charge of public relations and greeted all the guests with smiles, so the incense was flourishing.
And Wei Tuo is impartial, he will be better than others, so let him be in charge of finance and strictly control it.
In the division of labor and cooperation between the two people, the temple flourished.
In fact, in the eyes of the master of employing people, people without waste, like martial arts masters, can hurt people by picking flowers and flying leaves without expensive swords. The key is how to use them.
Third, parrots
A man went to buy a parrot and saw a sign in front of it: This parrot can speak two languages, 200 yuan.
In front of another parrot, it was written: This parrot can speak four languages, and the price is 400 yuan.
Which one should I buy? Both are shiny, very flexible and lovely. The man turned and couldn't make up his mind.
Suddenly I found a parrot with a tooth missing. Its coat color is dim and messy, and its price is 800 yuan.
The man quickly called the boss: Can this parrot speak eight languages?
The shopkeeper said, no.
This person is strange: then why is it so old, so ugly and so incompetent that it is worth this number?
The shopkeeper replied: because the other two parrots call this parrot boss.
This story tells us that a real leader is not necessarily strong in his own ability. As long as he knows how to trust, how to delegate and how to cherish, he can unite forces stronger than himself and thus enhance his value.
On the contrary, many people with very strong abilities are too perfectionist and hands-on, and no one can match them. In the end, I can only be the best researcher and sales representative, but I can't be an excellent leader.
Four, kangaroo and cage
One day, the city zoo found that the kangaroo escaped from the cage, so it held a meeting to discuss and agreed that the height of the cage was too low.
So they decided to raise the height of the cage from 10 meter to 20 meters.
As a result, the next day they found that kangaroos were still running outside, so they decided to raise the height to 30 meters again.
I didn't expect to see all the kangaroos running outside the next day. The keeper was very nervous and decided to raise the height of the cage to 100 meters.
One day a giraffe was chatting with some kangaroos. "Do you think these people will continue to keep your cage?" Asked the giraffe.
"It's hard to say." Kangaroo said, "If they continue to forget to close the door!" " "
Management experience:
There are "beginning and end", "weight" and "weight". Closing the door is the origin, and heightening the cage is the end. Of course, it doesn't matter to give up the origin and pursue the end. What is management?
B. A three-minute philosophical story
The 3-minute philosophical story is:
1, old monk and young monk
The old monk asked the young monk, "What if you step forward and die?" ? The young monk said without hesitation, "I'll go to the side." God won't close one door, but he will open another. When you encounter difficulties on the road of life, you may understand from another angle that the road is beside the road.
5. Shadow is a paper dragon.
In life, there are often countless blows from the outside world, but the final decision is in your hands.
Grandpa made me a long dragon out of paper. The gap in the dragon's abdominal cavity can only accommodate a few locusts, and all of them die in it, and no one is spared! Grandfather said, "locusts are too impatient." In addition to struggling, they never thought about biting the dragon with their mouths, nor did they know that they could climb out from the other side as long as they continued to move forward. " So, although it has an iron pliers-like mouth shell and serrated thighs, it doesn't help. "
When my grandfather put several green worms of the same size into the faucet, and then turned off the faucet, a miracle appeared: in just a few minutes, the young green worms climbed out of Barry one by one.
C. The high reward for a small creative script takes about 1 minute to 3 minutes.
I am waiting for Zhou You at the station. He went to the opposite newsstand to buy cigarettes, saying that he had no change to take the bus. I said I could swipe my card, but he argued irrationally and declined politely. As far as I can remember, this is the seventh time he has used this excuse.
Zhou You always thought that he was by no means a heavy smoker. Smoking is just a harmless pastime. He even thinks that the word "quitting smoking" means nothing to him because he is not addicted at all. Why talk about "abstinence"?
However, when waiting for the bus, he will light a cigarette every time after dinner, when listening to music, when sending messages to people, and even when I go to the toilet. He said that he gave me a feeling of heavy smoking addiction, mainly because he always had to face a lot of waiting in his life, waiting for the next day, the next minute, the next second, waiting for the helpless boredom to end quickly, waiting for the thrilling arrival that others expected, whether it was extremely happy or extremely sad. However, this endless waiting ran through his whole dull life, which made him quite disappointed and had to pass the time with strong choking cigarettes. Excuse me.
But actually, I'm waiting, too It's just that I chose a slightly less toxic coffee. At first, I stubbornly thought it was dispensable until it became a bad habit. I don't want to admit that I can't quit. In fact, it has penetrated into the bone marrow and is not easy to detect. If not, it will appear from time to time to treat anxiety in a long wait, which is super effective.
After thinking about this, Zhou Xiao ran across the road, and another cigarette was burning at his fingertips. Bus No.52 has already arrived slowly, which is another perfect wait.
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When it was completely separated from her,
Fall into cold and pale,
It,
No breathing or heartbeat,
Not a child anymore.
This is the twelfth time that I caught Zhou Yuduo smoking in the bathroom. I stood at the door waiting for him to come out and admit his mistake. However, the door opened and he saw me and didn't stick out his tongue as usual. He looked guilty. He didn't chew gum to cover up the smell of the broken glass. This time, I only saw him with his head down and his eyes a little red.
I passed him by and went straight into the bathroom to open the skylight. A misty cloud of smoke rushed out and made me want to cry, too. There are two words carved on the wall with nails, son.
Zhou You has lost weight recently. Often in a daze, life becomes blank. Holding a guitar, but not playing a note. The ring on the finger disappeared, leaving a blank. I know he's upset. But I really don't know how to comfort.
So I have to make him a cup of coffee.
This is the twelfth time that I caught Zhou You smoking in the bathroom, and I suddenly can bear it.
One day ago, the girl he loved aborted their children and left with a rich man.
One day ago, he accidentally knocked the ash on his beloved guitar.
One year ago today, he arrogantly declared: Nothing in this world can't be quit, except her.
So, from now on, quit.
D. A fascinating three-minute story
The Farmer and the Snake
When a farmer finished his farm work and saw a snake frozen stiff, he picked it up, held it carefully in his arms and answered it enthusiastically with his warm body. The snake gradually recovered, and after it fully woke up, it bit the benefactor with sharp fangs at lightning speed, causing fatal trauma to him. When the farmer died, he said regretfully, "I pity the wicked and don't distinguish good from evil." This story tells us that one must distinguish between good and evil, and he can only lend a helping hand to kind people. Even if the wicked forbear again, their nature will not change. Fishermen and snakes satirize the wicked who bite the hand that feeds them and the hypocritical people who help them. They warned us to learn to distinguish right from wrong and not to be blinded by beautiful things, because foxes can bark and snakes sometimes get into trouble, so this fable warned us to distinguish right from wrong.
E. Three-minute philosophical story
The Indian chief said to his subjects, "God gave everyone a glass of water, so you drank it and entered life." Life is really a glass of water. Whether the cup is gorgeous or not shows a person's poverty and wealth. But the water in the cup, clear and transparent, colorless and tasteless, is the same to anyone. Next, you have the right to add salt and sugar as long as you like. This is your right to exist, and no one can take it away. You have a desire to keep adding water or sugar to the cup, but enough is enough, because the capacity of the cup is limited. When sipping, you should taste slowly. Because you only have a glass of water, when the water is finished, the glass is empty.
The Jew told a joke. A fox saw a vine in the fence, which was covered with attractive fruits. The fox is salivating. It looks around for imported goods. Finally found a small hole, but the hole is too small for its body to get in. So, it was hungry outside the fence for six days, lost weight, and finally passed through the small hole and ate grapes happily. But later, it found that its plump body prevented it from walking out of the fence, so it fasted for six days and lost weight again. As a result, the fox who returned to the fence was still the original fox. For life, a drop of water is sometimes a sea. Many truths in life don't need the sea to interpret. A drop of water is enough.
A daughter complained to her father about her life and everything was difficult. She doesn't know how to deal with life and wants to give up on herself. She is tired of fighting and struggling, as if a problem had just been solved and a new one appeared. Her father is a cook. He took her into the kitchen. He first poured some water into three pots, and then put them on the fire. Soon the water in the pot boiled. He put some carrots in one pot, an egg in the second pot and ground coffee beans in the last pot. Without saying a word, he boiled them in boiling water. The daughter smacked her lips and waited impatiently, wondering what her father was doing. After about 20 minutes, he turned off the fire, fished out the carrots and put them in a bowl, fished out the eggs and put them in another bowl, and then scooped the coffee into a cup. After doing this, he turned to his daughter and asked, "Honey, what do you see?" "Carrots, eggs, coffee," she answered.
He asked her to come closer and let her touch the carrot with her hand. She touched them and found that they had softened. Father asked his daughter to take an egg and break it. After peeling the shell, he saw a hard-boiled egg. Finally, he let her drink coffee. My daughter smiled when she tasted the fragrant coffee. She asked timidly, "Dad, what does this mean?"
He explained that these three things face the same adversity-boiling water, but their reactions are different. Carrots are strong and sturdy before being put into the pot, showing no weakness; But after entering the boiling water, it becomes soft and soft. The egg turned out to be fragile, and its thin shell protected its liquid internal organs. But after boiling water, its internal organs hardened. On the other hand, powdered coffee beans are unique. After entering the boiling water, they change the water. "Which one is you?" He asked his daughter. "When adversity comes, how should you deal with it? Are you a carrot, egg or coffee bean? " What about you, my friend? Are you a carrot that looks tough, but retreats after suffering and adversity, becoming weak and losing strength? Are you an egg with a plastic heart? You were an uncertain person at first, but after death, breakup, divorce or unemployment, did you become strong and stubborn? Your shell looks the same as before, but have you become tough because of your strong personality and heart? Or are you like a coffee bean? The beans changed the boiling water that brought it pain, and made it emit the best fragrance when it reached the high temperature of 2 12 degrees. Water tastes better when it is hottest. If you are like a coffee bean, you will become promising at the worst time and make the surrounding situation better. Ask yourself how to deal with adversity. Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?
F What are the three-minute philosophical stories?
1, the value of life
At a seminar, a famous speaker held a $20 bill in his hand and didn't make an opening speech.
Facing the 200 people in the meeting room, he asked, "Who wants this $20?" Put one hand up. He went on to say, "I want to give this $20 to one of you, but before that, please allow me to do one thing." As he spoke, he crumpled up the money and asked, "Who wants more?" There are people holding hands.
He added, "Well, what if I do this?" He threw the money on the ground, stepped on it and ran it over with his foot. Then he picked up the dirty and wrinkled bill.
"Who wants it now?" Someone still raised their hands.
"My friends, you had a very meaningful lesson. No matter how I treat that bill, you still want it, because it hasn't depreciated, and it's still worth 20 dollars. On the road of life, we will be knocked down, bullied or even crushed by our own decisions or adversity countless times. We feel as if we are worthless. But no matter what happens, or what will happen, you will never lose value in the eyes of God. In his view, dirty or clean, dressed neatly or sloppy, you are still priceless. "
Tips: The value of life lies not in what we do, nor in who we make friends with, but in ourselves! We are unique-never forget this!
It's beautiful to hold your head up and chest out.
Although it is a black cow, the milk is white.
Jenny is a little girl who always lowers her head. She always feels that she is not beautiful enough. One day, she went to the jewelry store and bought a green bow. The shopkeeper kept praising her for wearing a beautiful bow. Although Jenny doesn't believe it, she is very happy. She couldn't help raising her head, eager to show it to everyone. It doesn't matter if she accidentally bumped into someone when she went out.
Jenny walked into the classroom and met her teacher head-on. "Jenny, how beautiful you look with your head held high!" "The teacher lovingly patted her on the shoulder and said.
That day, she was praised by many people. She thought it must be a bow, but when she looked in front of the mirror, there was no bow on her head. She must have lost it when she came out of the jewelry store.
Self-confidence is a kind of beauty, but many people lose a lot of happiness because they care too much about appearance.
Tips: Whether you are poor or rich, whether you look like a fairy or plain, as long as you hold your head high, happiness will make you cute-the kind that everyone likes.
3. Draw a leaf for life
As long as you believe, there will always be miracles. Although the hope is slim, it will last forever.
American writer Ou; Henry told a story in his novel The Last Leaf: In the ward, a dying patient saw a tree outside the window from his room and fell down one by one in the autumn wind. The patient looked at the rustling leaves in front of him and his health went from bad to worse. She said, "When all the leaves are gone, I will die." When an old painter learned about it, he drew a leaf with green veins with a colored pen and hung it on a branch.
The last leaf never fell. Because of the green color in life, the patient miraculously survived.
Tip: Life can be without many things, but only without hope. Hope is an important value of human life. Where there is hope, life is endless!
4.flying spiders
Faith is a never-ending force. When you believe that you can succeed, you will succeed.
One day, I found a black spider making a big net between two eaves in the backyard. Can spiders fly? Otherwise, from this cornice to that cornice, there are more than ten feet wide in the middle. How is the first line pulled? Later, I found that the spider took a lot of detours, starting from a cornice, knotting, walking along the wall, climbing forward step by step, being careful, raising its tail to prevent the silk from touching the sand or other objects on the ground, walking through the clearing, and then climbing the cornice opposite, the height is almost the same, and then tightening the silk, so it will be the same in the future.
Tip: Spiders can't fly, but they can make webs in mid-air. It is a diligent, sensitive, silent and tenacious insect, and its net is exquisite and regular, with Zhang Kaicheng gossip shape, as if with the help of God. Such an achievement reminds people of those who are taciturn and some hidden wise men. Then, I remembered that a spider can't fly, but it still weaves a web in the air. Miracles are caused by persistent people.
5. Shadow is a paper dragon.
In life, there are often countless blows from the outside world, but the final decision is in your hands.
Grandpa made me a long dragon out of paper. The gap in the dragon's abdominal cavity can only accommodate a few locusts, and all of them die in it, and no one is spared! Grandfather said, "locusts are too impatient." In addition to struggling, they never thought about biting the dragon with their mouths, nor did they know that they could climb out from the other side as long as they continued to move forward. " So, although it has an iron pliers-like mouth shell and serrated thighs, it doesn't help. "
When my grandfather put several green worms of the same size into the faucet, and then turned off the faucet, a miracle appeared: in just a few minutes, the young green worms climbed out of Barry one by one.
Tip: Destiny is always hidden in our minds. Many people can't walk out of the shadow at different stages of life, big or small, not because their natural personal conditions are much worse than others, but because they have no thought to bite through the shadow paper dragon and have no patience to find a direction slowly and move forward step by step until a new hole appears in front of them.
6. Success is not as difficult as you think.
We dare not do it not because it is difficult, but because we dare not do it.
1965, a Korean student went to Cambridge University to study psychology. During afternoon tea, he often goes to the school cafe or teahouse to listen to some successful people chatting. These successful people include Nobel Prize winners, academic authorities in certain fields and some people who have created economic myths. These people are humorous and easy to lift weights. They all regard their success as natural and logical. After a long time, he found himself cheated by some successful people when he was in China. Those people generally exaggerate the hardships of starting a business in order to let those who are starting a business retreat, that is to say, they are scaring those who have not succeeded with their own successful experience.
As a student of psychology department, he thinks it is necessary to study the mentality of successful people in Korea. 1970, he took "Success is not as difficult as you think" as his graduation thesis and submitted it to Will, the founder of modern economic psychology. Professor Braden. After reading it, Professor Braden was greatly surprised. He thinks this is a new discovery. Although this phenomenon is very common in the East and even the whole world, no one has boldly proposed to study it before. Surprised, he wrote to his Cambridge alumnus park chung-hee, who was sitting at the top of Korean politics. He said in the letter: "I can't say how much this book has helped you, but I'm sure it can shock you more than any of your laws."
Later, this book really took off with the Korean economy. This book has inspired many people, because it tells people from a new angle that success is not necessarily related to "stretching bones, starving the body and starving the skin", "burning the midnight oil" and "hanging the beam on the head and stabbing the leg". As long as you are interested in a certain cause, you will succeed if you persist for a long time, because God has given you enough time and wisdom to successfully complete a thing. Later, the young man also achieved success. He became the president of Pan Ye Automobile Company.
Tips: Many things in the world can be done as long as you want, and the difficulties you should overcome can also be overcome. You don't need any iron will, let alone any skill or strategy. As long as a person is living a simple and interesting life, he will eventually find that the creator's arrangement for the world is natural.
7. always hold this ticket
Life is really interesting: if you only accept the best, you will often get the best.
There is a person who travels a lot and often can't buy the right ticket. But no matter the distance, no matter how crowded the bus is, he can always find a seat.
His method is actually very simple, that is, patiently looking for one car after another. This method doesn't sound brilliant, but it does work. Every time he is going to walk from the first car to the last car, but he doesn't have to walk to the end every time. He will find an empty seat. He said that this is because not many passengers are so persistent in finding seats. Often there are some seats left in the carriage where he sits, but at the junction of the aisles and carriages of other carriages, it is actually very crowded.
He said that most passengers are easily confused by the superficial phenomenon of one or two cars being crowded and will not think about it. In dozens of stations, there are many opportunities to provide seats in the flow of people from more than a dozen doors of the train. Even if I thought about it, I didn't have the patience to find it Most people are easily satisfied with a small foothold in front of them, and some people think it is not cost-effective to squeeze one or two seats with their bags on their backs. They are also worried that if they can't find a seat, they won't even have a place to stand back. Just like some people who are content with the status quo and afraid of failure, they can only stay at the starting point without success. Most of these passengers who are unwilling to take the initiative to find seats can only stand in the initial position when they get on the bus until they get off.
Tips: Self-confidence, persistence, foresight, and diligence in practice will make you hold a ticket for the journey of life forever.
8. The stone in my heart
What hinders us from discovering and creating is only our psychological obstacles and stubborn stones in our minds.
Once upon a time, there was a big stone in a family's garden, about 40 cm wide and 10 cm high. People who go to the vegetable garden will accidentally kick the big stone, either falling or scratching.
The son asked, "Dad, why don't you dig up that disgusting stone?"
Dad replied, "You mean that stone? It has been put into the present since your grandfather's time. It is so big that I don't know when it will be dug. It is better to walk carefully and exercise your reaction ability. "
After a few years, this big stone was left to the next generation. At that time, my son married a daughter-in-law and became a father.
One day, my daughter-in-law said angrily, "Dad, the big stones in the vegetable garden are making me uncomfortable more and more. Please ask someone to move another day. "
Dad replied, "Forget it! That big stone is heavy. If I could move, I moved when I was a child. How can I stay until now? "
Daughter-in-law's heart is very bad I don't know how many times that big stone made her fall.
One morning, the daughter-in-law took a hoe and a bucket of water and poured the whole bucket of water around the big stone.
10 minutes later, the daughter-in-law used a hoe to loosen the soil around the big stone.
Daughter-in-law has been psychologically prepared and may have to dig for a day. No one expected that the stone would be dug up in a few minutes. Look at the size. This stone is not as big as expected, and it was deceived by its huge appearance.
Tips: You can't climb the mountain with the idea of going down. If your world is dull and hopeless, it is because you are dull and hopeless. To change your world, you must first change your mentality.
9, the pursuit of ecstasy
Don't think of yourself as a mouse, or you will be eaten by a cat.
1858, a rich family in Sweden gave birth to a daughter. However, soon, the child contracted an unexplained paralysis and lost the ability to walk.
Once, the girl and her family traveled by boat. The captain's wife told the child that the captain had a bird of paradise. She was fascinated by the bird's description and wanted to see it for herself. So the nanny left the child on the deck and went to the captain herself. The child couldn't bear to wait, so he asked the waiter on board to take her to see the bird of paradise at once. The waiter didn't know that her legs couldn't walk, just took her to see the beautiful birds. Miracle happened, the child, because of excessive desire, forgot to hold the waiter's hand and walked slowly. Since then, the child's illness has recovered. The girl devoted herself to literary creation when she grew up, and finally became the first woman to win the Nobel Prize in Literature, namely Sheila Grove.
Tip: Forgetting yourself is the shortcut to success. Only in this environment can people transcend their own constraints and release the greatest energy.