In daily life, Japanese people are modest, courteous and courteous, and there are few quarrels between colleagues and pedestrians. Don't tell the Japanese what to do while talking, and don't interrupt others when they are talking. When many people are talking, be careful not to neglect most people. During the conversation, don't ask about Japanese people's age, marital status, salary and income. Don't use the words "old" and "old man" for older men and women. The older people are, the more taboo they are. It is better to talk less in public. When you take the subway or bus in Japan, you can rarely see the phenomenon of talking loudly when no one is watching. Don't visit Japanese families rashly unless you make an appointment in advance.
According to the Japanese custom, drinking is an important etiquette. After the host pours wine for him, the guests should immediately take the wine bottle and pour wine for the host. Only by pouring wine for each other can they show the equality and friendship between the host and the guest. When pouring tea, the Japanese polite habit is to pour it to 81% full as the most respectful guest.
Basic etiquette at work
Greetings when meeting for the first time in a day
It is customary to say "Good morning" to colleagues and bosses when meeting for the first time in a day. It is very polite to say this in the morning, noon and afternoon.
When going out,
When going out on business, say to the people around you, "I'm going out." This is to inform colleagues that if a customer calls and other matters, they can inform their colleagues to go out. This is also to make people in the company know each other where they are going.
When you come back from going out,
When you come back from going out, say, "I'm back (ただぃまもどりました)."
. When coming home from work,
the boss said to his subordinates, "It's hard." Subordinates should also say "hard work" to their superiors or colleagues. (ぉれ🁸でした). "
when the guest leaves
when the customer leaves, say to the guest, "Thank you (ぁりがとぅござぃました)." Thank the important customers for standing up and bowing lightly.
Basic etiquette of visiting and receiving guests
Before guests come, clean and wipe the room a little, and open the window to change the indoor air. In addition, tea snacks should be prepared. Pay attention to the points when eating. When traveling in a hotel, women usually have to sit in the front seat when dining in a harmonious room. If they feel tired, they can put their legs on the side, but they should not put their legs in front. Men are more free, they can sit in the front seat and put their legs in front.
clothes at work
clothes are also an aspect of etiquette, and different occasions need different clothes. Working in a company, dressing is not only a personal matter, but also represents the mental outlook of the company. When receiving customers, it also represents the attitude towards customers. This is why clothing is an aspect of etiquette.
Of course, dressing should be consistent with the personal appearance. Appearance refers to hair style, and women also include makeup. In principle, the appearance should give people a neat feeling.
here are the points for men to pay attention to. Did you use too much hair conditioner to make it look very shiny?
. Does the hair leave traces after sleeping?
. Is there no dandruff left on your head?
. Did you shave clean?
. Is the tie fastened?
. Has the shirt been ironed?
. whether the cuffs and neckline of the shirt are clean.
. Have your nails been cut?
. Are you wearing very expensive leather shoes?
if you wear very expensive clothes, including leather shoes, or wear very expensive watches, these will cause resentment around you, and will also put pressure on customers and arouse their resentment.
the following are the points that women should pay attention to. Whether make-up is natural.
. Is the perfume too strong?
. Have your nails been cut?
. Whether the nails are painted too brightly.
. Are there too many decorations?
. Whether the stockings match the color of the clothes.
. whether the heel is too high.
. Has the coat been ironed?
. whether the cuffs and neckline of the coat are clean.
. Do you have a clean handkerchief?
Notes during the visit
There are some notes during the official visit, which can be said to be the etiquette of the visit.
Before the visit,
prepare local local products as gifts. If you don't know which local products to choose, you can buy some snacks or fruits. Such gifts are acceptable to anyone. If the people you visit want to express their gratitude, you can go to a famous store to buy gifts, and the merchants will package them as gifts. The name of the merchant is attached to the package of the gift, so that the recipient knows from which store the gift was purchased. Japanese people pay attention to gift merchants, and famous merchants have increased the content of gift etiquette.
On the way to visit
When you are about to arrive at the place of visit, if necessary, make a phone call to tell the other party that it will arrive in 5 or 11 minutes. Although the time of the visit has been agreed before the visit, it is also a sign of good manners to inform the other party temporarily.
Deliver gifts
Gifts are packed in paper bags. Take the gifts out of the paper bags, deliver them to the visiting families with both hands, and take the paper tape with you when you leave.
Clothing for the interview
If the occasion is more formal, men should wear suits and women should wear dresses. In addition, we should also pay attention to hairstyles, and women should pay attention to makeup.
Gift
The Harmony Room should be sitting at the entrance, waiting for the host. You can sit on the cloth mat if it is allowed. When saluting the host, you should retreat to the side of the cloth pad. Foreign-style rooms should stand at the entrance and wait for their owners. If you give up your seat, sit in the chair and wait. When saluting the host, you should stand up and stand to the side of the chair. When entering other
style rooms, you should take off your shoes with your face facing indoors. After taking off, you should arrange your shoes, put them outward and put them in the corner. Other points for attention are, don't smoke and walk around under any circumstances.