When my husband and I got married, there was no shortage of food, but there was a shortage of money. I'm not sure how much I'm going to be able to afford it. When I took the exam, I borrowed 200 dollars from a friend to pay for the trip.
My husband and I are both from the medical field, because we just graduated soon, there is no prescription right in the hospital, the salary is low even can't support themselves, how can we talk about the balance? And this time I was unexpectedly pregnant, due to malnutrition during pregnancy, my child was born only 5 pounds, just a full month I came out to work, the child did not eat a day of breastfeeding.
I resigned from the iron rice bowl recognized by everyone, from the hospital out, this time I have only one belief in my heart: to change the status quo, what other children have, I can also give the child to buy. So I found a teaching job, this kind of work salary is considerable, but the pressure is great, you speak the lesson if not recognized by the students, at any time may be driven off the podium, the industry will spread you teach not in, it is difficult to engage in this industry again. I get up at 6:00 every day, prepare lessons, check the information, others are off work, I am still working. I can only succeed, I want to make my class lively and interesting, people who do not study medicine can understand. During this period of time, the pressure is really great, and I sleep at night dreaming of practicing my lectures. Sometimes I would dream that the trainees kicked me off the stage and then I woke up in a cold sweat. My first class, the students commented to me: "Teacher made Chinese medicine so interesting, I have never studied Chinese medicine, and I can understand it. At this time, I understand: how can I realize my potential without putting a little pressure on myself?
The house leakage is a rainy day, at this time, my father-in-law was hospitalized for cerebral hemorrhage, we took out all the money, only enough to last two days, as the saying goes, "the gentleman in the snow is less, the brocade on the flowers of the villain more" I and my husband borrowed all of the friends and relatives, only borrowed 5000 fast, at this time, I know for the first time! What is a credit card. At this time, my husband and I understand: it is difficult to seek rice liter and poor. So, we work harder, no matter how much pressure, we encourage each other: work hard, your efforts will one day return to you, you are young when you work hard to earn money, there will always be a day to use.
With a young body, full of energy, what reason do we have to fear the pressure, choose to be comfortable? A moment of pressure is better than, one day your children want what you can not afford to buy; better than parents lying in the hospital bed, their own shy.
Of course, there is a rich old man, married a rich husband, married a rich daughter-in-law, except.
For young people, such as myself, this year, I'm a senior, there are still a few months to graduate, for me, I prefer their own work environment can have a certain pressure and upward space. Because for me, there is a long, long way to go, just to the end of the student career, for the upcoming into the community for me, but also need a lot of pressure to stimulate their own potential, because I feel in the university of these years, they live too comfortable, more and more laziness, no high school when the kind of passion and state, because the university has no pressure, so I now hope that they can have pressure!
These are the first time I've ever seen a person with a high school diploma, so I'm not sure if I'll be able to do it.
For middle-aged people, such as my father, they are now hoping to be a bit more stable, not necessarily to work happily, but at least very stable, and then hope that I can live well in the future. As a son of me, is also very much the same they can live in the future a little more stable and happy, whether it is life or work, I hope they do not have too much pressure, after all, the son grew up, do not need them too much for me to worry about.
But then, most of the parents may not let themselves live a particularly comfortable, because they have been worrying about their children, no matter how old their children, in their eyes are still children, or worry about them, worry about their results, worry about their children, worry about their family and life, worry about them, although in the eyes of the children, the parents of those worrying about, may have a large part of the are redundant, however, please sons and daughters can think differently, we should be more along with the parents.
Personal opinion, do not like do not spray, thank you!
Personally, if the work environment is both promising and stressful, but also enjoyable work, both are the best, I think the two are not contradictory.
A job with a future and pressure means that there is a lot of room for advancement and salary increase, which is what hardworking people dream of. A stressful job does not mean that the working environment is unpleasant, if there is a group of colleagues and leaders who are very good to get along with, the working environment is just as pleasant.
The worst thing to fear is a job that has neither of these things. I used to work in a group of companies, that is, belonging to no future, the work environment is not pleasant, and still think that I think I was in such an environment can support endure so long, think about it all feel heartbroken, but also by the life at that time forced, but think about it from another angle, although all aspects are not good, but at least in those years, the company provided me with the employment environment, can provide me with the few years of the All the unpleasantness is also considered a kind of experience and experience in life. In the end, because there was neither a future nor a pleasant working environment, I quit the job after my life improved a little.
So if you have a future and pressure, but also have a pleasant working environment is the best, young is the time to struggle, can not just focus on the comfort. If they are in the work environment does not have a future and pressure, but the work environment is very pleasant, such a job is also a lot of money, no matter how much money, every day work life is happy, is also good, many people will also have such a work environment even if the salary is not high, but also do not want to leave. After all, people have feelings, can work happily, that means you work to make a group of good relations with the leadership of colleagues, which is another resource, is money can not be measured.
If the two can only choose one, it depends on how you think. Everyone thinks differently, some people want to work hard to break into a career, not afraid of the wind and rain, the courage to go forward not to reach the goal more than; and some people are more easily satisfied, do not care too much about the money, fame and fortune, and feel that the current plain life is what he wants. How to choose, there is nothing wrong, the key to look at their own heart how to think, life is the most important happy.
In terms of their own work
The first year after graduation, in Beijing, directly back to the internship company as assistant store manager (food and beverage stores), the first month's salary of 5,000, from the first month to be motivated to do the district manager, with eight months to do the store manager, the salary rose to 6500 or so. Very tired, mall store, holidays do not have any rest at all. Then the ninth month began to come out to help the company to open a new store, everything is from scratch, tired to lie down. Because and the company director is familiar with, basically the district director on the board. I've been working pretty hard myself. Their future looks particularly bright, the future will go the way of catering operations. As a result, the company was acquired and reformed, withholding the store manager overtime pay more than two thousand a month. (I position is the store manager, the title did not reach the store manager) disheartened resignation.
Last March, I began to do teachers, private colleges and universities, all the dust has settled. The salary is not half of Beijing, the school every day is seniority. There is no passion for meetings and managing students. Titles are in the hands of the principal, not he knows will not give you, the school more than three hundred teachers a year a few indicators, queuing are not share. Processing of wages, the requirements of graduate school, the examination of technicians, basically no processing of wages possible. The only good thing is that there are many vacations, monthly vacations, national holidays, summer and winter vacations. (Hey, the more vacation expenses the greater) secretly broke the news, our school has a large part of the old teachers add up to more than two thousand a month. The people who are greedy for comfort, without any future, plan to get married and resign. If this goes on can starve to death.
I don't think there is any conflict between the two, everyone wants their job to have a future, the working atmosphere is relaxed and pleasant, the pressure is not particularly big.
It's a good thing that I've been working on this for a while now, but I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do this for a long time, because I've been working on this for a long time now.
The future shows that there is more room for advancement and salary increases, and that everyone wants to have a higher salary. At the same time, the future also indicates that the future road will be broader, and there will be more choices. At the same time there is pressure, there will be power, this time their progress will be a lot more than the usual block, which is very favorable to the future life and work.
If you can't have it both ways, and you choose to work in a relaxed and enjoyable environment, I think you'll regret it later. The atmosphere of the working environment is determined by your state of mind and the people you work with, as well as the place where you work, and all of this changes over time, so a relaxed and pleasant working environment now may change in a few months or years.
In the end, people are under pressure to grow, there is pressure and motivation, life is more interesting, if the work is not at all pressure or especially small, time will certainly feel no fun, no passion.
It's true that working happily is a very important factor in the work, but if the work is only to be happy without pressure, then it's definitely a waste of time. In fact, this problem is just the problem I am currently facing, into the sales industry for more than six years, I am also more like a happy working atmosphere, do not like the pressure, absolutely mix their own life on the side of the people's work and treatment are similar to the opportunity to promote also give up, absolutely no need to be too tired and too much, can be a big old found that it is not the case ah, look at their own nothing, and began to worry about the future of the road that the How to go? Started the middle-aged anxiety ...... pressure to have power, pressure to let themselves look for opportunities, see opportunities, grasp the opportunity. Young people should never be afraid of pressure, the young road is difficult to go shows that you are walking uphill, give yourself a chance to walk uphill, to the flat Avenue when you will thank so hard once. Fortunately, I think I realized that it is not too late, life needs to always try to learn, constantly enrich themselves, in order to make their future road more and more easy to go hmm.
Honorable answer! Darwin said well, the survival of the fittest, with the development of the economy, the population increases, the pressure of competition for jobs is increasing! Many people are racking their brains to find an ideal job! But in the face of their own hobbies and have the pressure to have a job with money, how do you choose! I think I'd rather choose a combination of hobbies and work, and not choose the stressful and perhaps promising!
First, interest is the basis for success!
Everyone has their own hobbies and interests, some people like to play basketball, some people like shopping, some people like to play games! But hobbies can also accomplish you! Shopping people have unique dress with, game people have wonderful gaming commentary! A lot of people's eyes are not work, have become the hands of other people's golden rice bowl! So, the best job is to combine your interests with your work, then you are more likely to succeed!
Secondly, hobbies call for you to live a more valuable life!
There is a popular saying on the internet that life is short and you should be happy when you are happy! But as an ordinary person, we do not covet the life of the drunkenness, only to be happy every day, the value of living! Many people do heavy work every day, overtime every day, money may earn a lot, career may have a rich future! But the true meaning of life is wasted, there is not much time to do what they like, not too much time to accompany their wives and children, not too much time to filial piety to their parents, maybe one day you have achieved success, but you will suddenly epiphany, my success to share with whom it!
Third, the future is changeable, sometimes you simply can not grasp!
Now the competition in the workplace is too great, the leadership in order to call you a good job, maybe you will draw a big pie, called you more hard work, but maybe your future is just a luxury. The work will find that the ability is not as good as the rich, the rich is not as good as the right! Most of the promotion and reuse of the relationship, really capable of just hard work and then be abandoned! Thousands of years of secular concepts can not be changed, there is no way but to resign yourself to fate! But in the face of their own life, you have the right to choose, why they do not cherish their own hobbies and interests, do not enjoy the family together quickly, a good taste of life!
4. Their physical health!
These days, live long enough to have more time to accompany the family, take care of children is a luxury! But the heavy work is bound to your body is not good, socializing overtime is to empty your body! Some people say, for the sake of the future career I am willing, I succeeded everything will be fine! But will you be successful? What is real success? Even if you have a successful career, but the body collapsed without the blessing to enjoy, the problem is not very serious!
So, the work and their hobbies is the most perfect state, do not believe in what the leader of the bullshit, and do not be too much pursuit of career success, there are times when the mindlessness of the willows into the shade, live in the moment the best!
The working environment can be characterized by a physical environment and a social environment, and the working environment is very important for a person. A pleasant working atmosphere is a very important factor in efficient work, if every day in a depressing atmosphere in the environment, how will employees work actively?
A good working environment gives a sense of vitality and motivation. Get along with colleagues, get the recognition of superiors, their own ability to play, their own value to be realized, a good working environment will allow employees to have a sense of belonging, will be more actively involved in the work.
I've worked as a customer specialist in an insurance company before, and every day is about how to get through the day as quickly as possible. Every morning, noon, and night there are meetings, shouting slogans, reporting on today's performance, and summarizing the shortcomings. You can't get off work on time every day, even if you don't have any interested customers, you still have to stay in the company for two more hours before you can get off work. Hundreds of thousands of people on one floor, everyone hangs a headset to make a phone call, the environment is noisy, speak louder to be heard. I remember when I went there, our team was only established, there are more than 20 people, half a year later, when I left, together with only five colleagues. The leaders were only concerned about whether there were any customers and whether there were any orders every day. This is a very important part of the process, and it is a very important part of the process, and it is a very important part of the process, and it is a very important part of the process.
A person who has been in a depressing work environment for a long time, his work motivation, will question their ability to work, will doubt their own personal charisma, over time, it is very easy to suffer from depression, become fearful, worried, negative, serious will have aggressive behavior. If it is suppressed for too long and endured for too long, different ways will be taken to escape from it all. If the mind is distorted and feels that it's all brought about by the work environment, it will look at everything and take retaliatory behavior. So, work is important, but the most important thing is to be happy yourself.
Of course, I say this is to stand in the male position to say, but even women need to have a their own income, I personally think that today's society has no women must be weaker than men, the income of the argument that less. There are strong women in all walks of life and they all have great lives. In short, your years are still very long, live a life of comfort is not a kind of pain.
A lot of happiness in life comes from the release of chronic stress. If you've been busy at work, you'll suddenly feel comfortable being idle. If you have been comfortable, even if you are idle you will only feel bored. You are still young, far from the point of looking for a retirement job.
In the above case I am talking about an average family.
If your family is so well off that it can feed and clothe you and your family for the rest of your life, then you can choose that comfortable job. You can then shift your focus to other things, like your hobbies. Going to work at this time has become a pastime, you can spend a lot of time on their favorite things, and do these things you can not think about the gains and losses, just because they like it, such a life is exactly let countless people envy.
The premise is that your family has to be rich enough, because life is still realistic, what are inseparable from the money.
The above is purely a personal opinion, the most important thing is to see how you want to live. After all, life is just a few decades, choose how to spend is the power of each person, just a word, do not let yourself regret.
I think this should be based on the worker's living environment and quality of life.
1. If there is no pressure on the worker, then certainly will choose to work in a happy environment, after all, he has no pressure, as long as there is work to maintain a good life on the line. Moreover, a pleasant working environment can also make people's minds clearer, with more free time to learn and reflect on their own problems encountered in the work, and more able to get along with colleagues, learning their strengths.
2. If a person has a stressful life, then he will definitely prioritize the work with high stress. Because in the eyes of that kind of people, as long as you can carry the pressure at this time, then in the future to better relieve their own family pressure and responsibility. But such I think in a period of time, he may have been in a state of struggle with the pressure, it is difficult to enrich themselves, but only in the pressure to continue to accumulate their own practical experience. Perhaps the post got a future, but finally can go to which step, it is not very good to say.