How long can the "freshness" between men and women last?
Xiaoru is 27 years old and a physics teacher in a middle school. I just got married for half a year this year. I fell into a period of confusion. Cheng Liang, a high school husband, is very handsome, but it happened! I graduated with poor grades and haven't had a formal job yet. Xiaoru loves Cheng Liang very much and thinks that he has fine features and good looks. It's very decent to bring it to your best friend. After the marriage, Cheng Liang and his friends partnered to open a restaurant in the city, and the business was booming. Xiaoru teaches in the town and can't accompany her husband, so she calls Cheng Liang every day to invite him to video.
At first, Cheng Liang was very enthusiastic, and Xiaoru could talk for a few words. Later, he simply stopped answering Xiaoru's phone calls. Micro | letter video is always busy. Xiaoru felt very uncomfortable. Less than half a year after they met Cheng Liang, they got married in a flash. Xiaoru is not tall, she is still a little fat, her skin helps blacken, and she is not beautiful. Cheng Liang is a posh person, and he is very popular. Coupled with the restaurant hired several beautiful waiters, Xiaoru became uneasy in her heart.
It is said that men and women are together for half a year, and when the fresh period is over, their relationship should stop. Xiaoru was emotionally neglected, and she couldn't contact her husband. She felt that she was ugly and unworthy of her husband, and degraded herself to nothing. In fact, men are not fresh to you, not how ugly you are, but how boring you are.
what is the novelty? It is a kind of dopamine secreted by the body, which can make people extremely excited. Mobilize the body's vigorous hormones. Let men and women fall in love at first sight and scratch their hearts. The wedding honeymoon is inseparable, and the two can't wait to stick together every day. It is said that parting is like being newly married. When they are not together, they try their best to be together. However, Xiaoru and Cheng Liang are no longer fresh, and they love to ignore each other and become strangers.
how long can the novelty between men and women last? If you just make do for marriage, the novelty may be one night, or even none at all. Men and women are both visual animals. Only when they look pleasing to the eye and feel comfortable with each other can they have a good impression. A marriage, if you want to look at a good match, it must be two people who are evenly matched and far apart. They just rely on a piece of marriage and are kidnapped together. For both men and women, it is a kind of shackles.
Maybe, when men and women have close contact, they will feel a little fresh. But the key for two people to be together is communication, and they have nothing to talk about. Marriage is like a stagnant pool. How can it be sweet? If a man doesn't love you, he must be tired of you, but you always review yourself and can't live a wonderful life.
It's like you've fallen into a bottomless abyss, and you've become more and more inferior. You think you've had a happy experience for a few days, and men like the new and hate the old, and they're not fresh to you. In fact, everything in the world has a shelf life, but some time is longer and some is a flash. Losing freshness is just a refusal, and not loving is the reality.
if you want to be fresh, you must brush the sense of existence. Only when two people get along with each other constantly can passion erupt. If there is love at first sight in the world, it must be a tacit understanding of the soul, and a smile is beautiful and moving. But they only have this side, and they will never meet again. Even if they skip over ten thousand kinds of customs, they will have been blown away by the wind.
if you want to be noticed by the other party, you have to brush your sense of existence! Instead of trying to please him, pander to him, or even avoid him and dare not see him. Men want novelty, while women want permanence. If you want to get men's attention, you have to try your best to make yourself beautiful. The sense of ceremony is a kind of emotional appeal, surprise and compulsion! Can't wait is a state of mind.
you should be willing to spend your time, and you should spend it on yourself to make yourself attractive. To be smart, a woman has to do a lot of things in perfect harmony, so that the other party can't see the flaws and can understand your good intentions. Instead of following men, it is better to "indulge" men, which greatly enhances your freshness. I don't know if you noticed, but many people just don't understand. It's not business to get on the pole. And the more casual you are to him, the more you keep his appetite, and he can't stop wanting you.
But once a woman falls in love with a man, she can't wait to take out her heart and let him see it clearly. However, only a certain sense of mystery will be the most exciting thing. Still hiding half her face from us behind her guitar, a woman, can best capture a man's heart. Liu Che and Li Furen are a love myth in history. However, the beauty was unlucky, and Li Furen soon became seriously ill and his appearance was damaged.
this is to please by appearance, how can it last forever? In the end, it will make the country beautiful, and there will be a time when the flowers will fail. Li Furen knew that she described it as dry, so she vowed never to meet Liu Che again. Don't make him feel disgusted, but let him feel as a souvenir. This is a woman's cleverness. Cut the lifeblood of a man and let him be affectionate to you.
always make yourself happy, make yourself colorful, and keep gaining. Many people say that two people stay for a long time, that is, their left hands hold their right hands, and they feel nothing. An unhappy woman will never be caressed by a man. How can a man be attracted to you with a bitter gourd face, the same clothes, the same hairstyle and the same meals and seasons?
The sun is new every day. Young men and women need fancy marriage. This is romantic love, and this is a surprise and touch to look forward to. Love should be updated and created in real time. Life should also be full of endless freshness and excitement. Marriage is really terrible without novelty. However, the novelty will always be lost, and women should not turn themselves into vulgar women too early. But to build colorful marriages with exquisite hearts. Let study, grow, make money, become your own armor, make your heart strong enough, and let love bloom.