Wedding rituals are very important.
Once upon a time I didn't think it was necessary, and completely cut out all the processes I felt were unnecessary just to cope with my parents.
The venue layout, camera photography, wedding car, everything from simple, to maximize the expenditure to the hotel, banquet, accompanied by gifts to go, only to live and eat good fun, the wedding ceremony process does not care, the ceremony is as simple as possible, the better, we hosted their own, there is no melodramatic link, the crosstalk is also a hilarious line, and strive to make everyone laugh and have a good time.
But when I stood on the opposite side of the stage, my husband stood on the stage, the night before his wedding in the Internet cafe stayed up late to do the music rang, I stayed up late to write the opening words from the microphone, we did not hold back more than three sentences, they can no longer control their own tears, infected by us, a lot of friends offstage also cried, applauding accompanied by everyone's tears, mixed with the blessing, and at that moment I only then I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good look at this, but I'm sure you can.
It took us together to relive the beauty of the past, the flutter of first acquaintance, the tension of the first date, the sweetness of the warming of feelings, at that moment, after five years of love, we seemed to return to the just together, green, ignorant, but full of expectations, more importantly, at that moment, family, friends, my favorite person, the person who loves me most are on the scene, we cry together, together, laugh, share my happiness, witness my wedding, I love you, and I love you the most. The happiness of sharing my happiness and witnessing the important moments of my life is far more than the hard work and financial pressure that comes with preparing for a wedding.
Before the wedding ceremony, we have been in my hometown to do a ceremony without the water banquet, the license has been half a year, know each other for seven years, the feelings of shrinking in the corner of the wall so that people ignored its existence, the pressure brought by the wedding so that the first time we broke out of the quarrel, no longer restrained emotions, but from the wedding ceremony, we returned to the love of the appearance, no longer have not restrained emotional outbreaks, there is no argument, there is no resentment, from the wedding ceremony, we returned to the appearance of love, no longer have no restrained emotional outbreak. No resentment, from the moment of the ceremony we really realized that we were going to start a family as two adults, in the form of a family, we were still separate individuals, but from that moment on we would all be forever imprinted in each other's lives.
After the wedding, my husband regretted not being able to properly prepare the venue for the wedding, and hired a sloppy wedding company that didn't care about anything, and the wedding setup was even sloppier, resulting in a not-so-great wedding setup, which we remedied in a timely manner, but still left us with regrets. Nevertheless, I still feel very happy, we ignored the importance of the ceremony, and even the process, the crosstalk is improvised, but when the moment came, the moment of happiness is enough to let a person ignore the scene of all the bad, I just remember Mr. tears in his eyes, mom and dad's embrace, my friends held up the phone to me waving and gently wipe the tears of the look.
If I were to do it again, I'd still spend the money on hotels, catering, gifts, friends, family, friends, come from afar, must be happy, still do not care what the wedding is like, can be as simple as possible, but this time, I must put the powder thicker, because I'm sure to cry again.
Wedding preparations are indeed very tired, to give up the wedding, I and my husband is also a week completely without rest, a long time in advance to start researching both sides of the rituals and customs, the wedding two days before the beginning of the basic did not have a good meal, the night before the wedding we did not have a rest, is not nervous, is no time to rest, too much is not ready for things, the economic pressures are also really large, especially what I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get the best out of your wedding, but I'm sure you're going to be able to get the best out of your wedding, and I'm sure you're going to be able to get the best out of your wedding.
I am grateful for the opportunity to bring together my closest and best friends, whom I love and appreciate for their company and enjoy their blessings.