First, loss and loneliness. Although it will be a little lost. But there are not many expectations and surprises when you think about it. No one around me can really remember his birthday so clearly, and no one will care about me so much except himself.
Actually, it's easy to say, and I won't spend too much time preparing other people's birthday presents. Many times, everyone is very polite. No one gives it to anyone blindly, and no one asks others blindly. As I have many brothers and friends, I have always been used to the lively environment. When I was a child, I was always accompanied by my family, so I could have a rich birthday dinner. After I went to high school, I began to spend my birthday with my friends and received many birthday gifts and blessings. So I will be very unaccustomed to spending my birthday alone, and I will feel a little lonely and forgotten. Anyway, celebrating a person's birthday is a bit lonely and lost.
Second, the forgotten loss. When I was a child, I wanted the whole world to know that today was my birthday. What I look forward to most are greetings and gifts from my parents, friends and lovers. As I get older, especially when I am also a great parent, I don't seem to be very keen on birthdays. More enthusiastic about giving children birthdays. If you are not enthusiastic, gradually, people around you may forget your birthday. I don't know if you have something you've been waiting for for for a long time, but I do. Even if it is a small thing, I have never had a chance to do it, and I can finish it on my birthday. If it's a holiday, you just have time to do it. If it is a working day, you can take a day off to finish it, so that you can remember such a special birthday. I hope I can do something meaningful with the people I love on my birthday.
Third, the pain of not having a birthday present. You don't have to get a birthday present from people around you, you can also customize one for yourself. It can be the clothes you love for a long time in the window, a small luxury, a bunch of flowers, an expensive snack and so on. It's something you want to buy, but can't bear to buy. There must be something. The world is familiar with changes, but we repeat yesterday's events day after day. You can cook some new dishes that you don't usually cook on your birthday. Even if it is to taste a piece of food that you don't eat very much, do something that you dare not do. Challenging the new feeling of new food will definitely give you an unforgettable birthday. No matter whether there is a company or not, we should take every birthday seriously.