From marriage, it is from the two people get along with, into the two families get along with. The first is that the woman has to accept the shortcomings of her husband, but also the shortcomings of her in-laws, and often, the one who needs to accept the most, is the mother-in-law.

A good mother-in-law-daughter-in-law relationship is a mother-in-law sympathetic daughter-in-law, daughter-in-law understanding of the mother-in-law, each other's lives have principles, such a mother-in-law-daughter-in-law relationship, in order to allow several families to maintain peace.

Good women are always willing to put some thought into their relationships with their mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law, to maintain their principles and to live in harmony. But very often, mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law can get along very well, in fact, can not daughter-in-law a person to say, the woman's attitude and then good, encountered a hubbub of mother-in-law, the family also back to the whole day chicken jumping. In particular, the family also favors the in-laws of the sister-in-law, married into such a family, the woman again, will always be the in-laws as outsiders.

When Xu Yue met Yang Bo, he was still a poor boy, no money, no car, no house, and his family's conditions were not too good, but Xu Yue thought he was a potential stock, plus Xu Yue really loved him, and the two dated for a year, and then got married.

When they got married, it's not like Xu Yue didn't mention buying a house, but her mother-in-law made it clear that her family couldn't get the money, up to 50,000, but gave them a house, and there was no bride price.

Xu Yue knows, Yang Bo also has a sister, their family very much love this sister, what good are thinking of leaving this sister.

It's possible that he can't get that much money to buy a house, but to say that he can only come up with 50,000 dollars must be a lie.

However, Xu Yue and Yang Bo's feelings are deep enough, so deep that she can forget about this neglect from her in-laws, and married Yang Bo without a house or a car.

Thankfully, the two were also competitive, taking the 50,000 given by her mother-in-law, making some small investments, and working hard, they finally managed to scrape together some money and were able to barely make the down payment.

The house is small, but it is also a home, Xu Yue and Yang Bo two people live enough, usually the elderly to squeeze a squeeze also enough to live.

Buying a house, the mother-in-law of Xu Yue all kinds of cynicism, saying that she does not know enough, only know how to spend money, to buy a house such a thing, but also do not discuss with them to discuss.

In contrast, Xu Yue's parents, fearing that the two couples to buy a house emptied all the savings day to day tight, three days to buy some things to send over.

Xu Yue is very grateful to her parents for their understanding, Yang Bo is also grateful to his parents-in-law for their efforts, vowing to live a good life and treat Xu Yue well.

The days are also getting better and better, Xu Yue feels that she does not have those conflicts that others have in their marriages, except that her mother-in-law is a little biased towards her sister-in-law, but the rest makes Xu Yue feel satisfied, after all, her mother-in-law's nagging and complaining is only occasional, and they do not live together.

Only recently, Xu Yue began to feel a little uneasy. The mother-in-law recently came particularly frequent, but also always chanting, the sister-in-law is going to give birth, after the birth of the back to live in the countryside of the old house, the conditions are too bad, for fear of falling what the month of illness.

Xu Yue thought, the sister-in-law is going to give birth to a child is a big deal, the mother-in-law's meaning she also understands, then took five thousand dollars to the mother-in-law, so that she will give her sister-in-law to bring back to buy some things.

The mother-in-law accepted the money, but she didn't seem to finish her sentence, but after taking the money, she couldn't say anything else and went back to her room.

Until that day, my mother-in-law came over and said straight to the point: "Daughter-in-law, your sister-in-law is going to come to sit in the moonlight, so let's give her the master bedroom".

Xu Yue was surprised and asked, "Why should I give her the master bedroom when she's having her first day of school?"

Mother-in-law returned with a straight face: "Your sister-in-law has to be well nourished, or else she will fall sick in the month, and it's all your sister-in-law's fault."

The mother-in-law's irrationality was too much for Xu Yue to bear, and she was reluctant to talk to her, thinking about her mother-in-law's favoritism for so many years, she coldly replied: "The kitchen is empty, let her sleep in the kitchen," she said.

Yang Bo came back to notice that the atmosphere is not right, both sides asked clearly, they first came to comfort Xu Yue, sister is the family spoiled grown up, parents are holding her in the heart of the spoiled, temperament is not well.

Later and a character is not very good, or rural men in love, parents and then opposed to useless, insisted on marrying over. After the marriage of the sister-in-law, the days really not very good, three days back to the mother's home to take things. Xu Yue aggrieved, why their whole family are spoiled sister-in-law, they have to rely on her to follow her.

When I bought the house, my mother-in-law didn't give me a penny, and now because my sister-in-law wants to do the month, she's going to take over her master bedroom, and she's not going to give it up.

Xu Yue's attitude is very clear, the sister-in-law to do the month, back to her mother's home can, to come to her home is never can. She is not stupid, this master bedroom once let out, the back can not take back is a problem. This time, Yang Bo stood on Xu Yue's side, although he had long been accustomed to his parents' favoritism, he was still occasionally exasperated by their oddball ways.

As the saying goes, "A bowl of water can't be leveled," and in married life, women sometimes encounter "eccentric" mothers-in-law.

If you meet a really "eccentric", unprincipled "eccentric" mother-in-law, the woman must be bright eyes, set up a good principle, not weak, not wavering, can not damage the interests of their own families, this is the most basic.

It is true that with the mother-in-law should respect each other, but at the same time respect your mother-in-law, you also need to respect their own marriage, to protect their own happiness. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in a marriage is always inextricably linked, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law before to maintain good communication, **** with the progress for the happiness of the family.

If you can't communicate, then the woman must not be able to give in, must keep their own bottom line, in respect of the mother-in-law on the basis of maintaining their own interests .