Recently, a very hot variety show "yearning for life", He Gui and Huang Lei two people, in a small village in Hunan Province, a free place, living in a mushroom house, each invited a few friends, together with the things to do farming, plowing, planting rice, touching the fish, picking fruits, digging bamboo shoots, are hands-on, self-sufficiency. After the work is done, then the results will be put into the dining room between meals, games between meals to make fun of, after dinner, blowing the evening breeze cozy gossip. The day was full but leisurely. It seems to be busy, but in fact it gives those who are tired and busy in the fast life of the city farmers a little chance to stop and catch their breath. With less pressure, the heart is naturally lighter. This is the life that He Gui and Huang Lei aspire to.
The idea is that the world's most important people will be able to make a difference in the way they live their lives. I don't need to meet the public, I don't need to have a lot of friends, I have one or two friends who know me well. The first thing I'd like to say is that I don't think I'm going to be able to do it without the help of my friends. Nearby, you can take advantage of the clear sky and clear air string door; far away, if you want to see, it is a long way to go, will also be servants to go. Idle time, the knot of two friends, whether in the cafe, teahouse, pavilion lake, stone table, or find a side of the grass to sit on the ground, only to take advantage of the sky blue clouds, accompanied by the birds and insects singing, bathed in the warmth of the sun, listening to the rustling sound of the leaves, look at the book to talk about the sky, is not it wonderful? If you can find a like-minded partner, *** old water and clouds, that would be even better.
Drink wine that does not seek to quench the thirst, eat snacks that do not seek satiety. Enjoy the process, do not ask for results, do things a little less utilitarian. Like things, do not need to deliberately pursue elegance, more need I put out a fine sniffing roses pretend elegant posture, natural good; fruit trees, wildflowers, roadside grass, like good. After all, born in the world, this is a common people, like some common things common things and why not?
However, life can be lived as a cup of tea, light and sweet incense, a different flavor; can also be like a cup of wine, into the throat that is to see the spicy, and own feelings. The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal on a new product or service.
It is just that the pace of development of the city is too fast, the pedestrian's footsteps are too hasty, everyone seems to be chased by the time, it is very difficult to be quiet and think about their own life is what they aspire to, or simply do not have the time to operate their own life. So you can only uniformly go after material enjoyment, but ignored their spiritual needs. White-collar workers in urban areas die suddenly due to long-term overtime work, or commit suicide due to excessive pressure in their lives; ignorant teenagers take drugs for the sake of seeking excitement, and female college students take out nude loans to buy expensive cosmetics. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.
And so the buzzwords of slow life and Buddha system quickly came into our vision. In an instant, everyone seems to be in pursuit of a slow life. But it is clear that the former life, car, horse, mail are slow ah, where the need to deliberately to squeeze out time to pursue a slow life? Once upon a time, the usual thing now can only become a fashionable attitude to enjoy life, can only become our "yearning for life" rather than "our own life", is not it sad?
It can be seen that the economic development at the same time, but also some of the spiritual aspects of our strangled away. It is somewhat sad, but what we have lost is not irretrievable. In the end, the distance between the "desired life" and "my life" is just the word "pursuit". It is indeed difficult to find everything pleasing to the heart, but if we can add a little bit of our heart's true pursuit in every bit of life, whether it is a lovely ornament, a fine collection of books, or a few small stones with strange patterns or shapes picked up by chance, as long as it is something that you truly like, it will be fine. At that time, the life we really want will be closer and closer to us, because we have been in the pursuit of the road.