no complaints? On your own

Wen/Chao Gege

If there is darkness in a person's heart, then his eyes will never "see" the light.

what kind of mentality, what kind of life. In this case, it is very profound.

I once saw a passage: "If a person has more negative energy, the magnetic field around him will change. Angry emotions are easy to produce, complaints will appear one after another, life will be chaotic, and life will be a mess. "

All these are the trials that every one of us who lives in the real world has to go through.

mood is your own, and happiness is also your own. Being happy is also a day, and so is being pessimistic and complaining. Why can't we relax and spend the day happily in our limited life time? ?

recently, I'm reading a book called "Don't complain? Depend on yourself, which is neither too thick nor too thin, with a total of 197 pages, was written by Mr. Cui Wanzhi, the founder of Que Zhi Lian Qipao. Before, I knew nothing about Mr. Cui. I want to read his book, but I found it when I visited the website by chance one day. Mr. Cui is very sunny and has a very good attitude. He always believes in the concept of "don't complain, rely on yourself" to succeed in life, which perfectly explains the attitude of an optimistic person towards career, life and destiny. He is disabled and inconvenient to move, but he has been drawing warm positive energy from optimism. In his early years, Mr. Cui set up a stall on the pedestrian overpass, opened a bookstore, a canteen, a video store, an Internet cafe and sold various products, and strove forward in difficulties.

Nevertheless, he never complained and never gave up. Instead, he turned his miserable days into poems with a grateful heart, blossomed the flowers of youth, weaved colorful dreams, and strived to create a bright future of his own with joy.

In 2111, Mr. Cui used the money he saved to open an Internet cafe, which has only 11 computers and ranks among the first Internet cafes in Hefei. He came into contact with "e-commerce" while surfing the Internet. After Taobao went online, he immediately registered an online shop.

In early 2115, his online shop "Yixin Home" opened. The first product that Cui Wanzhi sold online was not the one he bought, but a 6-digit QQ number that was in short supply at that time. In 2117, he registered three clothing brands: Die Lian, Er Pu Shu and Yi Xin Jia Yuan. In May 2117, Mr. Cui's online shop "Er Pu Shu" was launched in a residential building. However, in the first year, his online shop operation lost 211 thousand savings earned by opening bookstores, department stores, bars and even internet cafes in previous years. In 2118, Mr. Cui registered his own Butterfly Love Company and successfully settled in the newly opened "Taobao Mall" to concentrate on managing his own Butterfly Love brand. He once created the miracle of selling 4111 pieces of cheongsam online in one minute.

in August, 2115, Mr. Cui raised 6 million yuan to open the world's first cheongsam-themed restaurant. In October, 2116, he participated in CCTV's "Entrepreneurial Heroes" program, and he raised 31 million yuan for the Cheongsam project on the Internet.

Don't lose heart when you fail, don't feel depressed when you are frustrated, and don't complain when you are lost. It is with this optimistic attitude that Mr. Cui has achieved such brilliant achievements today.

and Mr. ma Huateng, who encountered many difficulties in his pioneering work that year, almost sold QQ when he was at the end of his tether. If it weren't for his firm belief of "don't complain, rely on yourself", we might see an extremely powerful Tencent company serving the whole world today.

We can't choose our fate, but we can change it. There should be more sunshine in life and more positive energy in life. Gratitude is a state of mind, and gratitude is a manifestation of a dynamic life. Only those who are grateful know the value of optimism. "Don't complain, rely on yourself". Let's start from you and me now to meet a bright world. Each of us should rethink our own thinking and cherish the good times of our youth!