Ten years ago, I graduated from technical secondary school and was assigned to work in a foreign company of a state-owned enterprise. I was in my early twenties. Although he was closed to the factory, he was engaged in machine tool technology. Wearing overalls, hats and masks every day, muddling along in the pungent smell of engine oil. Oral: My sad mother-in-law said that I would always be an outsider.
I hate all this and dream of moving back to Wuhan, but this is just a dream. Parents are ordinary workers, and a family of four lives in a house of 30 square meters all the year round. My brother and I have been sleeping in the attic since childhood. In my mother's story, there was a long-term war at home. I have no mind to study, and I have no special skills, except to inherit my mother's beauty. Because of this, I became my mother's hope. She told me not to work as a model worker in a dirty workshop, because girls are the easiest to get old. If you want to get out of this poor alley, you might as well work hard and get married.
I stayed in other places for seven years, but all my suitors quit, while most of my female colleagues who entered the factory in the same year got married and had children. Once, the director's son chased me, and everyone thought I would climb to the top like this, but they were all wrong. As usual, I refused because I was going back to Wuhan.
At the age of 27, I became an old maid, and people around me looked at me worried. I went back to Wuhan that holiday and had classes with my cousin who was studying at the university every day, so I met Yingdong, who was in the same class as my cousin.
A few days later, Yingdong treated us generously and exchanged contact information with me. To tell the truth, he looks ordinary, his height is only 1.70 meters, and his temperament is average. I pay attention to him because he dresses appropriately. I think Yingdong's family environment must be unusual.
After returning to Yichang, we sometimes lose touch. I learned that although Yingdong is doing an idle job, his family is very rich and his parents are very famous in Wu Hanyou. Although Yingdong himself has no characteristics, he has no shortcomings. Talked to him for two months. On one occasion, Yingdong suddenly said, "I asked my parents to find some relationship to transfer you back to Wuhan." From then on, I had a strange feeling about him.
On the second holiday, Yingdong took me to his house. When we first met, my mother specially prepared good cigarettes and wine for me to take with me. When I arrived at their home, I realized that it was a single-family house, with two floors upstairs and downstairs. I blush at the thought of my dovecote.
Just entering the door, before sitting down, his mother glanced at the tobacco and alcohol in my hand and said to herself, "Yingdong's father gave up smoking and drinking long ago." The atmosphere was neither too hot nor too cold, so he ate carefully and restrained himself from going out. When I left, I saw the gift that my mother spent a month's salary to buy and put it in the corner of the living room floor. I'm a little sad, too. When I pat the dust, I can bounce.
Soon after, Yingdong really did my job. A few months later, I returned to Wuhan, and all my female colleagues who had already entered the factory lamented that I had seen far.
2. Be a daughter-in-law or a nanny?
Under the arrangement of his family, I entered a kindergarten. The salary is not high, but it is also leisure. At that time, Yingdong and I were almost 30 years old, and our family began to urge us to get married. But their family didn't propose, let alone give a bride price, and even held a wedding reception. Yingdong shrugged, and the news reached my house. My mother was so angry that she cried and scolded, and I cried, too. Perhaps, our family frightened Yingdong like this. That night, he really dragged the box to my house. He threatened his parents that he would never go home if there was no wedding. My mother called him in high spirits.
Finally, his parents threw in the towel, came to the door with gifts, and held 50 banquets according to my family's requirements. I got married successfully, and my mother is happy for me, because I can finally live a different life from her.
After we got married, we lived with our in-laws. Outsiders think I'm doing well, but in fact, the pain is creeping in.
My mother-in-law dismissed the nanny and said that she would leave her home to me. After listening to it, I realized that being a master is nothing more than being a big momma. Every morning, they get up at six and go out to do morning exercises. At this time, I will get up and cook porridge for them, and go to the canteen to buy hot steamed bread, hot steamed bread. At noon, as soon as I get off work, I will hurry home to cook. The nutritious meals of the two old people are unchanged every day, and the appetite should be light; I can rest only when there is no noise during their lunch break. Another round of housework in the evening.
I couldn't stand eating light food with them for a long time, so I cooked braised pork at home. As soon as the oil was in the pot, her mother-in-law shouted, "The oil smoke is too big, turn it off! Turn it off! " At dinner, Yingdong and I were munching on meat. My mother-in-law put down her chopsticks and suddenly said, "How did Yingdong become like a lout and like to eat here?" Yingdong smiled, my chopsticks shook, and my mother-in-law's dislike of her brow was clearly aimed at me.
Since then, my mother-in-law and I seem to hate each other tacitly. I complain to Yingdong every day. I know my mother-in-law is also educating Yingdong. Yingdong was probably bored and ignored my complaints. This life lasted until my son was born, and I finally had a reason not to be a nanny.
3. What is missing when you have a house?
My son is growing up, watching colleagues around him buy commercial housing. I want to own my own house and live alone. Yingdong, who lives in the cracks every day, is also tempted to hear the news of buying a house. But Yingdong and I only earn a few wages every month, so it is unrealistic to buy a house by ourselves. The only way is to let his parents support us.
We started looking around for a house and took a fancy to a villa and a luxury duplex in the city center. We have planned two plans to let his parents buy a villa first, or buy a duplex building if they don't agree.
Yingdong and I have a bad life and have a lot to say. Finally, my mother-in-law let go and finally agreed to buy us that duplex building. We set a date for the family to pay together. Unexpectedly, my father-in-law signed his name on the contract with a stroke of the pen. I was shocked, and then I saw my mother-in-law slowly take out a thick stack of RMB from her bag with confidence. I kept my mouth shut and said nothing.
When I got home, my mother-in-law said that although they were the owners, the house was for us. Yingdong also advised me to say, "Forget it, I am the only child in my family, and my parents will be ours sooner or later." Think of these, I also forget it.
Before long, Yingdong's unit will move. It takes him two hours to go to work by bus, and it is hard to come back every day. Yingdong had long wanted to buy a car, but his family always felt it was unnecessary. This time, perhaps they were too worried about their son and gave Yingdong 70,000 yuan to post some money to buy a car.
We have a house and people around us envy us. But during that time, my mother-in-law often woke us up suddenly in the middle of the night and said that her heart was beating in a panic. Let's take a quick look around. We often yawn in the middle of the night and run up and down for her.
The house has finally been delivered, and I am happily decorating my new home. Unexpectedly, my father-in-law had an accident. He went out for a walk and had a sudden cerebral hemorrhage. When he came back, he lay still. It's over. My mother-in-law is a person who can't even cook. Where can I take care of her? Naturally, she won't leave us alone. But how can I give up my cherished life? I said to my mother-in-law, "We'll take care of it at the weekend. We can usually hire a part-time worker. We have to go to work and take care of our son. How can we have so much energy? " Mother-in-law was annoyed: "We two old people saved money all our lives, bought you a house and a car, and finally raised a baiwenhang!" " "We have to stay. Only every weekend can my husband and I take our son and enjoy the life of a family of three.
But the volcano will erupt one day. I had a quarrel with my mother-in-law because of a trivial matter. On the same day, I took my son to my new home and vowed never to return to my husband's house. At first, every week, Yingdong took his son to visit them. I insist on not going back. I've had enough of anger over the years.
Soon, life was calm. On the eve of the mortgage repayment this month, Yingdong brought back a message: "The mortgage should be solved by yourself!" I'm stupid. We can't get more than 4000 yuan a month. Throwing caution to the wind, I pieced together and finally borrowed money to cope with it for a month.
4. Ask for money or yourself?
Soon, the second month came again, and we were very sad. Yingdong said that we can only go back and ask our mother-in-law. All that day, I was on tenterhooks and finally got a call from Yingdong: "Mom said that she wouldn't pay a penny unless we went back to apologize and kowtowed at the door." I was angry and hung up the phone. But the repayment period is getting closer and closer. What should I do? What should I do? There is no way out.
That day was my most humiliating day. We drove and stopped at the gate of the yard. Mother-in-law didn't open the door, and Yingdong's eyes were red and she carried me to her knees. I looked up and saw my mother-in-law standing in front of the upstairs window. Looking at the neighbors passing by, I gritted my teeth and knelt down.
At that time, I felt very quiet around, and people behind me could clearly hear the boos. Mother-in-law's refusal to open the door is a provocation in her eyes. I know, she won't give in. Thinking of my big house, I closed my eyes and knocked once, twice and three times. Finally, the door opened, but my mother-in-law stood in the way. I felt someone pointing behind me and apologizing awkwardly: "Mom, I was wrong! I was wrong! " Then, like running away, he entered the house.
Embrace your grandson and enjoy family happiness as a winner. I hid in the bathroom, crying and spitting, spitting and crying. Finally, I rubbed my red eyes and carried my bag back to my husband's house. The loan for that month finally arrived on time.
The story soon spread among neighbors and colleagues. Everyone thinks that we have committed heinous crimes and enjoyed the love of our predecessors, but we are not filial. Some people began to be sarcastic and said that I was so rich and prosperous. I'm not a person inside and outside, so I can only swallow it at my husband's house. My mother-in-law threatened not to repay the loan when she saw it.
I went home to cook a few days ago and found that my mother-in-law forgot to buy the fungus she ate every day. I was so tired that I thought we would talk tomorrow. When eating, my mother-in-law saw that there was no dish designated by her, and immediately threw chopsticks to see her. Yingdong tentatively asked, "Why don't I buy it now?" My mother-in-law was even more angry and pointed at my nose and said, "She was angry with me on purpose." I was just about to explain when my son, who was leaning against her mother-in-law's arms, jumped up and said to me, "Mom is wrong, mom is wrong, kneel down to grandma." We all froze when our son spoke. Yingdong, ready to slap him hard, was stopped by her mother-in-law. I can't help crying anymore.
I have been living in my mother's house these days, still in the attic, but my mother is too old to worry about me anymore. In her eyes, I married a rich family. Now I have a house and a car, and my son is as strong as a tiger. Yes, I live the life that many people want. However, my youth, my dignity, like a gift left in the corner, was abandoned in the dust and never saw the light of day again.