I've seen an amateur transformation program before. Unlike other transformations, they don't take the initiative to change the image of the protagonist, but make people change from the inside through constant affirmation.

I still remember that the hero at that time was a college student. She once felt inferior because of her looks, never dared to walk with her head up, and there were obstacles in communicating with others. She was cautious in what she said and did for fear of being criticized.

At that time, the program group quietly arranged several guests to explore her advantages, often praised her and recorded her changes.

When the girl tried on clothes in the shop, she was praised: "You are so beautiful, this dress suits you so well!" "

When the girl learned to cook for the first time, she was praised, "Wow, you did a great job. You are so talented!"

At first, girls will still habitually deny themselves.

Later, she began to tidy herself up and learn makeup and collocation.

After being praised for two months in a row, the image of the girl has undergone earth-shaking changes, and people have become much more confident. Compared with before, it is like a different person.

Like this girl, many people lead a life of criticizing themselves.

No matter how good they are in others' eyes, they are still not good enough in their own eyes.

Because people can't see themselves completely because of their cognitive deviation, there is often such an emotion as "I don't deserve it" in the subconscious.

This has also caused many problems:

In life, you are versatile, but you are ashamed to show it and don't want to shine in front of others;

At work, you are fully capable of all kinds of challenges, but you always miss opportunities because of lack of confidence.

In an emotional relationship, it is clear that two people are evenly matched, but because of their own sense of unworthiness, they step back and shut out love.

Maybe you tried to change, but you always failed. In fact, what you have to do is to see who you really are.

You know, you are excellent, you are cute, and you will be a surprise that someone is looking forward to.

So, don't jump to conclusions,

I'm stupid,

I was born fat,

I can't do this,

I can't,

......

Don't set a limit for yourself yet, we don't know ourselves.

keep trying, trying and summing up, and you will know a brand-new yourself.

you will also find yourself worthy of everything!

reported by the small network. A man who had cancer came to Tik Tok to talk about his anti-cancer process, and many people donated money to him. Later, he bought a car with money and spent it in high-end places. After four years of chemotherapy, the cancer died. This is a typical use of other people's money, damaging their own blessings.

Maybe he didn't enjoy the blessings so much, and he probably didn't die so soon. But too many people don't understand this truth, that is, using other people's money to harm their own happiness. In the past, it was reported on the Internet that a little girl got sick with a name of one. At that time, it was reported that many people donated money and millions.

As a result, the little girl has a house under her father's name, and she is not that poor at all. But this girl didn't deserve to die. As a result, she died because she donated a lot of money, desperately treated and overtreated. Use other people's money to the detriment of your own happiness.

So I don't recommend that you go to crowdfunding because you are generally sick. Crowdfunding treatment, this kindness, really affordable, or really thought about it? Many people didn't expect to pay it back, which can only damage their own blessings. A man is poor without giving. But a person who accepts charity, but does not want to return, slowly becomes poor. This is debt.

someone who knows some people often borrows a little from this person and a little from that person. I borrowed it for two years, but it turned out to be totally unrewarded. Because when he borrowed money, he seldom thought of paying it back quickly. And the result? It's getting poorer and poorer.

So, you see, people who are not short of real wealth are not in debt, at least they have to pay back their debts quickly. Those who lack wealth and are easily embarrassed are all in debt.

how to get into debt is to take something from others and not know how to pay it back. I get the benefits of others, but I don't know how to repay them. If you have money, you are extravagant and wasteful, and you don't know how to pay off your past debts. Then go to work and pay little, but get high salary, which is all in debt.

Always ask others for help, but don't know how to help others, or don't know how to be grateful. This is simply making people poor. Heaven is balanced. If you use too much, you must always pay it back.

you have to pay off your debts as well. There is no free lunch in the world. The above is the problem of money and debt.

what about emotional debt and life debt?

feelings are also a kind of debt.

that is to say, you get feelings, but you don't pay them back. This debt is owed. It seems that your parents have feelings for you, but you are heartless. Or your husband and wife have feelings for you, but you are heartless.

this is a debt. Some people have everything but emotional pain. Because he was in emotional debt. Since ancient times in who, prizing money first, careless how he left her, separation has been an emotional debt. Some people desperately make money, fail to fulfill their responsibilities of family companionship, and are also in debt.

someone said that her colleague's husband gambles every day, uses her money, and she loves her husband very much, which is very bitter. I asked, was your colleague given away as a child and adopted by others? She was surprised and said, how do you know? When I say foster people, there are several characteristics.

first, why is a person raised by his parents? It can be seen that this person is lacking in the road. Her parents gave birth to her, but they gave her away to others, which means there is something missing.

For example, if you were born in the past, you gave your child away, or you didn't fulfill your parental responsibilities, and then you were given away as someone else's child for the rest of your life. This is the causal cycle. There was a rich man who got married and gave birth to a child after divorce. As a result, he was not happy to raise that child at all.

and she herself was given away by her parents since she was a child. It can be seen that being given away is also the cause and effect of giving away, that is, not doing your duty. But some people are poor and sell their children, which is even worse. When a person sells his child, his voice is very hoarse, which is a typical poor blessing in his later years.

So if you have a child, you should raise it well and do your emotional duty. When you get married, you must be single-minded and loyal to your husband and wife, so you won't owe emotional debts.

at the same time, don't think that more members of the opposite sex are good. Anyone who has more members of the opposite sex can be faithful, but unfaithful. If there are more members of the opposite sex, marriage and children will be found.

Some people give up after giving birth to their children, looking for happiness. In the next life, that child will come to be a husband's wife, which will be miserable, and the cause and effect are true. This is emotional debt. Again, emotional debt and money debt are different. Not equal. Some people suffer from feelings. Therefore, those who write emotional novels circulating on the Internet have bad personalities.

including Jin Yong, who divorced many times; Qiong Yao, destroy people's families and be a mistress. And Gu Long, who died in his forties. And Xu Zhimo, who forced his wife to divorce and fell in love with a married woman, died in a plane crash at the age of 36, a typical violent death. And Zhang Ailing, writing about feelings. Finally, he died in an American apartment, and he was found dead for more than ten days.

Some people value money over affection, but they can't have affection when they get money in the next life. This is the law of cause and effect.

if you abandon your wife and children in this life, you will be abandoned in the next life. So be a man with awe. The pain that people bring to others will eventually return to themselves.

those who bring emotional pain to others will suffer emotional torture in the next life. Those who have children but don't raise them will be abandoned by their parents in the next life.

about life debt!

life debt, including animal life and human life. There was a man whose son graduated from college and didn't go to work. Sleep during the day and play games at night. I asked her what she did. She said that her family was fishing. Fishing built a house. I said that fishing depends on animal life to make money. On average, a fish earns ten dollars.

in the past few decades, hundreds of thousands have led to tens of thousands of lives. Tens of thousands of lives, you think about it, this money can have no karma? Therefore, it is very bitter to rely on the sea, and fishing is also very poor.

The income is very small. People at the seaside fish, and the wind blows very dark. The main obstacle of fishing is relatively heavy. There was a woman, a few years ago, who had uremia. She makes cowhide wallets. After three or four years, I got uremia. This cowhide is real cowhide. You want to see how painful it is for a cow to be skinned.

how much cowhide was used to make cowhide bags? Generally, cowhide can only be used to make drums and knock in temples to eliminate karma for cattle. But it is cruel to make leather bags. The money he earns is in debt. Now catering, what beef restaurant, this has a life debt. Dog meat is a heavy debt.

these two animals are full of spirituality. People are reincarnated. Pork and mutton are better. This animal is in debt.

some people's debt of love turns into debt of life. It is love killing. Internet reports that some men kill women, all of which are love killings. This is the debt from love to life. Therefore, when men and women fall in love, they must not take each other's money, especially the money of the rich. The second generation of rich officials are very angry. Only when you are angry can you have money.

at the same time, it is also very important to have money. Even more important than ordinary people, it is called wealth and risk. Therefore, when you are in love, don't be greedy for the money of the rich, otherwise you will lose your virginity, and even your life will be lost. There are too many reports on the internet.

In reality, there are also many people. Women, in particular, get a little benefit from the rich because they are not sensible, and as a result, they lose their virginity and get pregnant, resulting in many single mothers or abortion.

so don't be fooled by rich people's money. Both men and women should bear hardships, and their hard-earned money is the best. Some people just want to find a rich man. Often, such people have more disasters, and there is no such thing as a free lunch.

thank you for giving me the opportunity to serve. Thank you for your charity! Thank you and I * * * enjoy a good quality of life, good luck!

reward the gratitude with joy!