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Going out to buy breakfast in the morning, at the pancake stall, I met a mother and son who sent their children to school.
The child is carrying a schoolbag, wearing a red scarf, holding soy milk in his hand, waiting for pancakes. I don't know why, the child lowered his head and twitched and cried.
The mother shouted impatiently at the child, Why are you crying? No shame! What it's like for a boy to cry easily!
Then I looked up at the mother, less than forty years old, with a frown, greasy hair on her forehead and spots on her cheekbones.
In our education, crying is not a good behavior.
Crying = not strong, crying represents weakness, cowardice, meanness and emotionality ... especially for boys.
I often cry, especially after I am thirty. When there is anger, sadness and injustice in my life, I will hide and cry, and sometimes I will go to the park to cry.
Using a particularly inappropriate metaphor is also my truest feeling.
When my heart was full of anger, sadness and grievances, just like constipation, I cried when I couldn't excrete it. It's through. Decompression is especially refreshing.
I don't need comfort either. The more I comfort, the angrier I get.
Just cry. When you cry, your brain will return to rationality and you can think normally.
Some psychologists have found that there is a high content of protein in people's tears when they are sad. This protein is a harmful substance caused by mental depression.
Through the chemical analysis of tears, they found that tears contain two important chemicals: one is enkephalin complex and the other is prolactin. These two substances only exist in tears affected by emotions. It cannot be detected in the tears stimulated by onions and cold air.
Tears can remove the chemicals accumulated in the body that cause depression, thus reducing psychological pressure and relieving people's sense of depression.
Women live longer than men. Besides occupational, psychological, hormonal and physiological reasons, crying may also be a key factor.
When you encounter an emotion, whether it's grievance, sadness, sadness or joy, it's great to cry, release the emotion and detoxify your body.
Last year, a consulting client received a task assigned by his boss. She said she was not sure what the boss wanted, and asked me if I had any experience in this field. I said you can't ask me, you should ask your boss!
The customer said that she had just come to this company and was afraid to ask the boss, for fear that if she asked too much, the boss would think that she knew nothing and had a bad impression.
On "Problem Consciousness"
When I was in my twenties, my boss told me: I will take some colleagues to your city for a meeting next Wednesday, so you can arrange the hotel.
At that time, I had a lot of things at hand, so I simply asked a few men and women and booked an express hotel directly according to my business trip standards.
After they came, my boss was obviously dissatisfied.
People who come to the meeting for the first time have different levels and different accommodation standards; Secondly, the hotel conference room I booked can't meet their meeting needs. So on the day of check-in, a group of people moved to the opposite star hotel.
If I arrange it now, I may ask a few more questions when I receive the task:
1, what meeting? Do you need to prepare promotional videos such as hand gifts or poster stands?
Do you need to use the conference room for the meeting? How big is the conference room? Do you need a projection and a whiteboard?
3. The number of people staying, men and women, and whether there is a need to arrange people living alone;
4. Are their grades the same as the accommodation standard? What is the difference?
5. Do you have any dining needs? What are the requirements for catering? What is the food label? Is it recommended or reserved?
6. Are there any other arrangements besides the meeting? Do you visit branches?
7. Are there any other matters needing attention?
Then I will select 2-3 hotels and restaurants that meet the requirements, introduce their advantages and disadvantages, and send them to my boss for him to make up his mind.
Therefore, when you receive a task or perform a task at work, if you don't understand anything, you must ask questions.
No matter what the scene is, it is important to stay on the same channel with the leader, confirm your thoughts and ensure that your understanding is consistent with his.
Prevent him from saying A, which you understand as B, causing information deviation and finally becoming "I don't want you to think, I want me to think".
Later experience told me that in fact, most bosses (bosses) especially like to express their thoughts and ideas. Sometimes asking a few more questions and simply discussing them will not only make it clearer and more efficient for us to start implementing them (without trying to figure out the imperial edict), but also leave a good impression on thoughtful bosses and reliable employees.
It rained from 3: 30 to 6: 00 yesterday, and the wind was very strong. The Metasequoia is blowing back and forth, and I envy it a little. I have such a good waist. I can't help swinging with Metasequoia.
There is no consultation arrangement in the afternoon. I read a book for a while, picked some fresh mint leaves to make tea, and sat on the small bench at the door watching the rain.
The rain in the gale, like a long-sleeved woman, sometimes flies, sometimes floats, sometimes gentle, sometimes powerful.
Maybe it's because it hasn't rained for a long time. When it rains, the smell of soil mixed with rain in the air is stronger than usual. Take a deep breath and let the lungs feel a little fresh.
It feels good to be integrated with nature.
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