Nine Extended Chat Topics Say goodbye to the cold field
①Recent Events
1. Core Ideas:
Based on the latest developments in his circle of friends to find the topic
2. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to do that.
He sent the movie screenshot: I have recently watched the movie, you feel that so-and-so in it is not very interesting?
②Old Memories
1. Core Ideas
If he doesn't like to send friends, you can use old events to start, but it's best if they're things you've had interactions with in the past.
2. High-end words
For example, if you are old classmates, you can send a group photo of classmates, or a souvenir of the event: I do not know that we graduated five years ago, you see how tender we were.
3 Hobbies
1. Core Ideas
What are hobbies? Who are the idols? What do you love to eat?
2. High-end discourse
For example, he loves spicy food: recently found a new store, the taste is good I remember that you like to eat spicy food, you can not miss it Oh, there is a chance to go together to try.
④Industry-related
1. Core Ideas
Combined with the hotspot combined with his work, or the study of the profession to open the topic, as a way to express your concern about him.
2. High-end words
For example, he is a teacher: the news said that teachers work overtime is very serious, pay attention to the body ah, even if you are busy, you must remember to eat.
⑤Hometown-related
1.Core Ideas
Everyone is homesick, so talking to him about his hometown will be a big plus.
2. High-end words
For example, his hometown is rich in apples: remember you said your hometown is rich in apples, recently it is the season of apples, did your family send you apples?
6Family Relationships
1. Core Ideas
Watch for the right moment to steer the conversation towards growth and outlook, sometimes emotions come up to tell a lot of secrets, remember to guide him and give him enough response to his **** feelings.
2. Higher-end tactics
You're so polite, you must be very well educated. Do your parents worry about you when you are fighting alone here.
7 Character Related
1. Core Ideas
If his family is happy, then keep digging deeper inside him.
2. High-end words
such as his dream/biggest regret/most intolerable thing...
⑧ Emotional experience
1. Core ideas
These tend to open his heart and let you understand his emotional outlook, and remember to **** feelings to give emotional soothing.
2. High-end words
If it's convenient can you talk to me about your first love? It feels like you haven't been in a relationship for a long time, are you having any concerns?
9 Praise the merits
1. Core ideas
Factual and well-founded appropriate content specific.
2. High-end words
For example, he was found to be dressed very handsome: you are very comfortable with the color of today's clothes with great aesthetics.