Returning to school for the first time: the secondary school was punished for fighting, so I quit school by myself, and worked in the society for two years at the bottom. Let me talk about what I have done: 1. Factory workers work nonstop every day, with only a 1-hour lunch break at noon. Every day after work, my hands are clenched, and I am glad that my fingers are still sound (if I am not careful about operating machinery, my palms will be involved, and accidents in which workers have their fingers cut off will happen from time to time). 2, the hotel waiter, the first month's salary was deducted by the boss as a deposit, and he won't get his salary until the second month. Don't laugh, the manpower was not so tight then. This is the unspoken rule of the catering industry in our city. Of course, when you quit, the deposit of this month's salary will never be given to you. 3, clothing store clerk, in order to compete for the commission of selling clothes, two people will fight and I will talk nonsense? 4, distributing leaflets, I do a wide range of business, not only in the street, but also to the gas company to the homes of various communities, from the first floor to the top floor, door to door to plug the gas station leaflets, an average of dozens of buildings a day to climb, every day my legs are sore. 5, delivering newspapers, when my hometown in Northeast China was coldest in winter, it was -41 degrees, and my ears were often frostbitten. 6, computer city salesman, this job was my satisfactory job at that time, because it was relatively easy and there was no danger of work-related injuries. After working in the society for two years, I learned the hardships of making money (at that time, I was 16,17 years old). Because the work I did was humble and often looked down upon by others, I had a strong desire to live a better life. At that time, I thought that it would never be possible to turn over by working around like this. A slightly better job requires a college degree. I realized the importance of a college degree, so I took my savings from working and started working in. Compared with my classmates, I will cherish my time very much, and I will seize every opportunity to ask my teacher questions, because in my heart, I am a consumer, and I have paid my tuition, so I won't waste any time at school. Unlike some classmates, I will skip classes and go out to play. Another is that my dependence on home will be much weaker, because all tuition and miscellaneous fees were paid out of my savings at that time, so spending money will be very economical. I won't spend money by comparison with my classmates (buying famous brands for comparison is very popular in the private high school where I attended), and then I was admitted to an ordinary university as I wished (which was already very good for my foundation at that time). Returning to school for the second time: that is, now, the procedure of studying in Japan will pass next year, and the whole process will be DIY. At present, I have entered the local group of international students. In contrast, there are the following differences: 1. I have a careful plan for the future, and my goals are more clear. I know what I want to live, what I can give up and what I want, and I rarely seek advice on the Internet. I will list my priorities in my mind when things happen. 2, because the age will be much older than the people around you, compared with the people around you, you will cherish this opportunity to study more, be stronger and have less unrealistic troubles (refer to the first world problem, many people around you have troubles, which, in my opinion, are nothing at all, just moaning without illness, and may be compared with me, they have experienced too little, for example, some young international students who are lovelorn are a big thing and depressed, but for me. It's normal to be on and off in love. Breaking up is to give each other a chance to choose happiness again, which won't cause me much blow at all. On the contrary, I sincerely hope that the other party will find a better man than me and a man who is more suitable for her. For me, the problem of survival can really worry me. 3, more realistic views, more able to withstand loneliness, rather than doing whatever you want, will not waste any time to do meaningless things. 4, when looking at the problem, I will consider two sides, not blindly optimistic, but will consider the worst result in advance. If I can bear the worst result myself, I will not hesitate to do it, and I will not be indecisive, my mother-in-law will think and think. 5, have their own principles of doing things. Beyond the principle, you won't do it. 6. I have many years of business experience in China, and I have seen too many kinds of tricks and scams. Some overseas Chinese and locals want to cheat me, which is more difficult. 7, interpersonal communication can better grasp the degree of goodness, will not be annoying, but will not let others bother themselves, who should pay, and who should stay away from it. 8. When you are in business, you can usually earn millions of dollars a year, know what it is like to be rich, and experience the life of the rich. Personally, I feel that this is all. In contrast, I feel that family and family life are the most important, so I will not blindly pursue money and give up other things. I will find a degree that I think is suitable in my work and life, and I will pursue my own life in the future, not secular values. 9, the psychological endurance is very strong. It is estimated that even if I encounter difficult things in the future, I will face them calmly, because, believe me, I have already experienced more difficult, wonderful and absurd things in China. -Netizen from Zhihu.