1. How to arrange wedding seats
The arrangement of wedding seats is very important, so I will introduce you to the next two kinds of wedding seats.
1. If the guests are colleagues, friends and business partners of the newcomers, they should be greeted first after their elders, and those who are familiar with each other should be placed at the same table as far as possible. Those who are unfamiliar should be placed at each table to take care of them in time, which will be more polite. Please arrange them in the middle of the whole banquet area. If the guests are relatives of parents, parents' friends and colleagues should have their own separate seats. Parents' elders, sisters and brothers can be arranged at the same table or adjacent tables in the same area, so it is convenient for parents A to take care of them, and parents can simply arrange their own seats.
Usually, the parents table of the bride and groom should be close to the main table and on both sides of the red carpet, so it is more convenient for guests from the same party to communicate in the same area. If the guests are the couple's classmates and friends, most of them are the couple's best friends, so you don't have to greet them deliberately. You will wait patiently for the couple to appear. You might as well arrange them at the last few tables in the banquet area, which will not only let them enjoy themselves, but also avoid the influence of drinking on the whole wedding process. This part also includes the staff who help.
when arranging seats, you can ask the catering department to provide a table map, and number or name each table, so that all aspects can be taken care of better. Prepare more copies of this table map and the guest list printed according to the table, so as to facilitate the guests to sit down and show the host's meticulous and thoughtful. Second, the arrangement of the main table There must be a wedding banquet after the wedding ceremony of the couple. No matter whether it is a Chinese banquet or a western buffet, there should be a plan to arrange the guests' seats.
This will not only help the guests find their seats, but also make people feel that the wedding in your is orderly. It is also necessary to write a table card after the seating plan is completed.
Don't write desk cards too formally, and don't carry titles like' madam' or' madam'. Be sure to compare the table with the guest seating plan to ensure that no guests are left out.
At the entrance of the wedding banquet, there should be a special person in sign-in desk to guide the guests to their seats or post a seat map with the names of the guests and the number of the dining table, so that the guests can find their seats quickly. Seat name tags should be placed on the main table of the wedding banquet, and other tables can be left alone.
At a very formal wedding, if you want to number a table so that guests can introduce each other, you can also put a name tag in front of his seat. The main table is the core of the wedding banquet, and it is essential in the wedding banquet.
At the main table were the parents of the couple, their elders, leaders and witnesses. The number of main tables depends on the number of people. It can be one or two.
The main table is more prominent than other tables, and its decoration should be elegant, but the decoration should not be too high to avoid blocking the sight of guests. There are many ways to arrange the seats at the main table. Here are some.
1. The bride sits in the center of the main table facing everyone, with the groom sitting on the bride's left, his father on the bride's left, his mother on the groom's father's left, her mother on the bride's father's left, her parents' elders sitting opposite the bride, and the witness sitting next to the elder and the VIP sitting next to the witness. Second, if the couple doesn't sit down, the groom's father sits in the middle of the main table, his left is the bride's father, and her left is the bride's mother. The elders sit down beside the bride's father, the witness sits down beside the bride's mother, and the distinguished guests sit next to the witness. Third, if the bride's family is too big to arrange a main table, two main tables can be arranged for both parents (both married brothers and sisters can be arranged at the main table)
Fourth, according to some customs, parents and elders of new couples can be divided into two tables according to their gender. Behind the main table is the dining table for the relatives of the couple's families, followed by the relatives, colleagues and friends of the groom on the left and the relatives, colleagues and friends of the bride-to-be on the right.
2. How to arrange wedding seats
The left row seats are arranged for the man's family, and the right row seats are arranged for the woman's family.
numbering problem: suppose there are 21 tables, then table 1 is the main table, tables 2-3, 5-12 are men, and tables 15-24 are women (of which tables 4, 13 and 14 are unlucky and skipped)
arrangement problem: table 1 is the main table, with parents and elders in the front row (convenient for speaking on stage and expressing gratitude) and both sides in the middle row.
attachment: remember to write a seat card (which lists the seating situation so as not to make mistakes in the wedding day).
3. How to arrange wedding seats
The best thing is to prepare spare chairs before the wedding reception, and at least arrange two or three more tables at the wedding reception site
. In addition, if the wedding banquet is provided with seat cards, some of the seat cards are printed with the names of the guests in advance, and some empty seat cards are also stored. Once the guests who have not prepared the seat cards arrive, the names of the guests will be temporarily written on the empty cards. If the number of people exceeds too much, you can consider renting a lounge temporarily, so that the rest of the guests can go to the lounge first and then invite them after the wedding banquet is arranged on the spot.
new people should know. The classic round table is arranged in such a way that the bride and groom must be in front of the table and face all the guests.
3. It is very important for the parents of the couple to sit with whom, especially when you choose a square table, which is more western. Square tables are suitable for small intimate weddings, and the relatives and friends of the couple may all gather together. In this case, it is very important to insert friends who are familiar with each other.
Actually, the simplest way is to set up two wedding tables, so that the couple will have more friends. It is better to arrange two wedding tables. One wedding table is the parents and elders of the couple, and the other table can arrange some friends who are close to the couple, so as to coordinate the guests well.
5. It's better for the newlyweds to arrange the same person to attend the wedding at the same table, so that there will be a topic connection between them. What
should be avoided is that a person who comes to the wedding is arranged with a group of familiar people, which is prone to the exclusion effect of non-circle.
6. The seating arrangement should be divided into three groups: the bride, the groom's parents and the bride's parents. Each group will know their friends or relatives, so as to avoid strangers. It is also a good opportunity to make friends by arranging some unknown single young people together in a romantic wedding
banquet environment.
In fact, it is easy to think of this principle. If a person is invited to attend the wedding of a new couple in a different place, it can be arranged at the main wedding table. If it is a university student, it can be arranged at the classmate table. Guests can be arranged at the classmate table on the "new
students" so that they can have some communication with each other on the topic of "new students". < p
8. When a couple's parents are divorced; In fact, in this case, it's best to ask their opinions before the wedding. If parents have formed a new family separately, should they consider arranging seats according to the existing family order, which can not only arrange them properly, but also add happiness. It's best to let parents sit at different tables, and the newlyweds can take care of both sides when toasting during the wedding reception, so as to avoid embarrassment. If only divorced parents take care of both sides when toasting, it can avoid embarrassing < P >. If only one of the divorced parents gets married, you can arrange for the other parent to sit with the new couple, or arrange for the other < P > party and elders to sit together and have a topic to avoid being too lonely.
4. Is there anything particular about arranging seats at the wedding banquet?
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In the traditional etiquette of China, seats are closely related to the identity and status of the person.
The seating arrangement of the guests at the wedding is a headache for many prospective couples. In the traditional etiquette of China, the seating is closely related to the identity and status of the person. How to accurately grasp the needs of each guest at the wedding? How to make proper arrangements ...
1. What if there is no way to estimate how many people?
solution: write down the names of all the people to be invited one by one, and everyone will do the work separately. For example, the groom will write down the people to be invited by the groom, the bride will write down the people to be invited by the bride, and then the in-laws and parents will write down the relatives to be invited. We do these things in the computer. Here, it is suggested to use excel tables, which is also convenient for statistics. Generally, people use ordinary fonts, people with uncertain factors are marked in blue fonts, and then those with family members are marked in red fonts. This is clear at a glance. Then roughly estimate the total number of people.
2. what if there are too many people who are not sure?
In my case, because the wedding reception is at the peak of the wedding ceremony, there is a problem. Guests may receive N invitations on the same day, so the uncertainty is a little bigger. Moreover, several students from other places may or may not come, and if they come, they will basically bring their families. For one thing, there will be two. How can I reserve this seat? Let's count two people. In case they don't come that day, wouldn't that be a lot of room? No, if everyone comes and brings their families, the seats will definitely be a little crowded. What should we do then?
solution: these mobile guests, even if they are one person, are really counted, because we won't have a table full of ten people, and there is some room in the middle. Besides, there is a table to be prepared. With such a mentality, it is impossible to come all or none that day.
3. Can colleagues and classmates arrange a table?
Generally speaking, colleagues basically don't bring family members. If classmates and friends have family members, they must bring them, so the number of colleagues can be counted. It doesn't matter if there are nine or ten people at a table, so the activities of classmates and friends will be greater. At that time, there will definitely be more people at colleagues' table. Can we put them at classmates' table? Everyone was a stranger before. Would it be awkward to sit at a table? Or will one or two colleagues prefer to add chairs to sit alone?
solution: I don't think this is a big problem, and the age levels are basically the same. Even strangers are friends when they sit down. I met this situation when I had a wedding reception with my husband before. I didn't know anyone at the whole table, but I also had a good time. The key is to know everyone when I talked.
4. shall we arrange one or two leaders to sit at the main table?
Because there are basically one or two seats left for the parents of the main table staff plus the best man and maid of honor, in this case, two leaders are arranged to come and sit down. Which one should be arranged if the leaders are arranged? Many leaders, it is not easy to ask anyone to sit at the main table, or are they just sitting there? Or arrange for another relative to come and sit down? This is also a problem.
solution: basically, on that day, we will deliberately find someone to act as a witness, whether it is the leader of both parties or the elder or something, so we can add another witness to the main table, and don't arrange any other leaders. Just arrange the one who is the witness, so as not to entangle.
5. How to arrange the guests' seats on the wedding day
The arrangement of wedding seats 1.
The seating arrangements of the relatives of the man and the woman at the wedding banquet are very important. Usually, the man and the woman are separated. Perhaps for their families, they can arrange their seats in any way, but for the wedding banquet, this must not be sloppy, especially the seats of mom and dad, which are closest to the ceremony area.
Wedding Seating Collection II.
The elders' seats should be properly arranged. The elders in the family are the relatives of grandparents except their parents. They must be located near the stage and convenient to travel. Of course, they should not be arranged in the position of serving food to avoid collisions during serving.
The arrangement of wedding seats
The leaders of the guests pay attention to the arrangement of seats. No matter when the bride and groom get married, the leaders of the company will be present at the wedding, and their position suggestions will be placed around the main table to reflect their status and convey the respect of the newcomers.
the arrangement of wedding seats
the seats of good friends are the easiest to arrange at the wedding. Most of these friends are very close and don't pay too much attention. Of course, it is better to arrange a table for mutual understanding, or separate men and women, so that boys have a space to release. Children's seating arrangement, children are uncontrollable factors in the wedding scene, especially children aged 4-7, who are more curious, so adults must be more naughty. In addition to placing them with their parents, they should also avoid unsafe factors around them.
The arrangement of wedding seats. 5.
Newcomers can also consider arranging their classmates or young friends together when arranging seats, which will play a very good role in mobilizing the wedding atmosphere when the newlyweds propose a toast.
6. How to arrange the seats in the wedding banquet
Although the seating arrangement of the wedding is not the most important issue in the wedding preparation, it is easy to make the wedding that should have won applause have the opposite effect: the wedding atmosphere is awkward, the guests are not fully enjoyed, and even unnecessary misunderstandings and contradictions will be brought. Therefore, during the wedding preparation, we must carefully determine the number of guests, study the types of guests, and arrange the seats for each guest, so as to ensure the smooth progress of our wedding.
the first step is to estimate the number of guests
The initial number of guests is usually determined when booking the venue. Newcomers generally have to consider two factors: one is their ideal wedding atmosphere, and the other is the size of the venue. According to the former, plan whether the guests you invite are mainly relatives or classmates and colleagues of the same age, and according to the latter, determine the number of people who need to be invited. When determining the number of people you want to invite at first, it is best to reserve 11% space to deal with the situation that guests can't come.
Step 2: Make a list and send invitations
According to the initial number of guests determined in step 1, make a detailed list of relatives, friends, classmates and colleagues of both men and women to be invited by category, and send invitations 1~2 months before the wedding reception. Although the network communication is very developed now, it is more polite and sincere to use the written form of invitations. To remind you, don't forget to remind the guests of the time to reply to you in a gentle tone in the wedding invitation. The popular "blessing card" reply method is very good.
Step 3 Determine the approximate number of people
After sending out the invitations for 1-2 weeks, you can start the confirmation of the number of people. Distinguish the guests according to three types: exclude those who can't come for some reason, put a tick in front of the names who are sure to attend, put a question mark in front of some names whose answers are ambiguous, and indicate next to them that the other party may be sure.