Islam forbids drinking and alcohol-related things, such as buying, selling, transporting and attending banquets, in order to keep Muslims away from alcohol and its harm.
There is a rule in the teaching method that you are not allowed to sit and eat with people who drink. Some laws stipulate that tea is not allowed to replace alcohol, not because drinking tea is to avoid drinking. I seem to want to drink, but there is no wine.
Non-Muslims don't understand that Muslim prohibition of alcohol is so strict, but real Muslims are really very strict with themselves, that is, to avoid contact with alcohol and its harm, and non-Muslims should respect Muslim beliefs and behaviors.
It's like northerners going to the south, some southerners eat mouse cubs, and northerners don't. Southerners say that if you eat mutton, you eat mouse meat, and we are good friends. I think northerners will hate it, too
There is no intention to belittle southerners here. Different habits.
In real life, Muslims will never bow their heads in the face of things that hurt their beliefs. Muslims know how to respect others, but they just want others to understand them, not force them.