Because I studied abroad since I was a child, I also lived in the dormitory and ate in the canteen after work, so I didn't have the opportunity to cook by myself. I finally took a few days off and came home, and my mother was even more reluctant to let me do it. Before getting married, my husband told her mother-in-law that I couldn't cook, and her mother-in-law said to her husband, "How can that be done?" You call her home and I'll teach her! "
Later, after getting married, I always naively thought that if I was as filial to my in-laws as I was to my parents, I believe they would treat me as their daughter. Once, my mother-in-law went to our house to pack jiaozi for us. I am very happy. Show off to colleagues at work. My mother-in-law is so good that she treats me like a daughter. She also personally came to pack jiaozi for us. I thought my colleagues would praise my mother-in-law, but I didn't expect her to immediately give me a sentence: "Don't be silly, be happy! Do you think people are giving you jiaozi? " I'm afraid my son can't eat jiaozi! "
I thought to myself, why is this colleague so mean? Why don't you look on the bright side? But my mother-in-law went to my house, and my husband and I went to the kitchen to cook. She wouldn't let her husband go, but she went with me. But as far as I am concerned, I think she is an elder and comes to my house, so she is also a guest. I can't let her work, but my husband is different. I support my family like him, and my salary is several times that of him. Why do I have to do housework alone?
Later, every time my mother-in-law went, I still took my husband to do it together, and gradually my mother-in-law got used to it and stopped interfering with us.
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