Wine table culture is almost as old as human history, and China people have mastered wine-making technology long before Chinese characters mature. There are records about wine and drinking culture in many ancient books. Wine culture is deeply rooted in the blood of China people and has a far-reaching influence. There are 55 poems about wine in The Book of Songs and more than 6,000 poems about wine in Tang poetry. Even in Song poetry, wine is an intention with the highest frequency. Biandou, drink (the rest). Brothers have both, happy and happy, and children have both. This is the description of wine in the Book of Songs, which is about the joy of feasting between brothers. In ancient times, sages were lonely. Only great drinkers can be immortalized, which is a famous sentence in Tang poetry that Li Bai will drink. What he says every time is only lofty sentiments and strong righteousness; Red crisp hands, yellow wine, spring willows all over the city, east wind evil, and a few years of sadness, no, no! This is the hairpin phoenix of Lu You in Song Ci, which makes people feel sad.
Speaking of this, I solemnly remind all my friends: travel thousands of times, safety first, drink without driving, and drive without drinking.
Common sense of wine table:
The meaning of drunkenness is great, and the sun and the moon grow in the pot. Chinese wine culture has a long history. There are essence and dross. There are places that we should inherit today and things that should be ended. Wine is like water in a bottle. Drinking it makes you haunted. Stumbling when talking, stumbling when walking, and drinking lightly is just right. Today, my friends,
Common sense (1)
Moderate persuasion, don't force; What feelings are deep and boring, and the feelings are shallow and licking? Don't talk about this situation. Drinking is the atmosphere. Many people have a wrong idea that if they don't drink, they will not drink well. If they drink liver and lungs, their feelings will be back to back.
Rule knowledge (2)
Aim at the subject and object and grasp the overall situation; Any banquet has a theme, and any drinking is a kind of communication. Be sure to pay attention to the host's expression and the guest's attitude. This is a kind of respect and a kind of cultivation. Hong Hushui is making waves. I'll prove it when I drink today. This kind of drinking can really drive the atmosphere, but it is very easy to get you into a passive situation. If you master the temperature well, others will think that you are very temperament, and if you don't master the sense of proportion, it will hurt your feelings.
Common sense of rules (3)
Toast is orderly and clear for the second time; Without rules, Fiona Fang cannot be established. Many people's age, position, guest-host status and manners are hard to blame, and rudeness is hard to recover.
Common sense of rules (4)
Everyone is happy, remember to whisper; There are often many people at banquets, so try to find topics that everyone has a common topic and everyone can participate in. The most taboo thing is to whisper to the people around you, giving people a sense of mystery, making people feel that you are very close and alienated from others.
Common sense of rules (5)
Appropriate language, humor; Language is the source of thinking and the medium of communication. A word can bring us closer, facilitate a business and reach an intention. A word can also hurt feelings, break business and even fight.
How to make a toast;
How to make a good toast, let's first look at several common forms of parties.
First, family gatherings: uncles, aunts, big brothers, big sisters, little brothers, little sisters, or nephews.
The second is acquaintance gathering: colleagues, classmates, fellow villagers, comrades-in-arms and partners.
Third, business gatherings: company dinners, team dinners, business receptions, and business negotiations.
Fourth, the ceremony party: opening ceremony, wedding banquet, baby banquet, birthday banquet and other forms.
Knowing the four types of parties, you can prepare four ideas and methods of toasting in advance, adapting to local conditions, being in harmony with people at the right time and place, changing things easily.
Speaking of ideas and methods, first of all, I will tell you an idea. In fact, the biggest taboo of our toast is to say cliches, what excited hearts and trembling hands, I propose a toast to the leader, and the leader doesn't think I am ugly if he doesn't drink it; What a big river, how wide the waves are. It's dry to pick up the glass, and one day it's shine on you, and one cup is handed down. This kind of toast is actually disgusting, but let's not forget: courtesy comes from vulgarity, and vulgarity turns into ritual; Proper rhetoric can activate feelings and add atmosphere, so it doesn't matter what you say. How to dilute the speech form as a routine requires a kind of wisdom, a method and a routine that is not a routine.
For example:
This party is a gathering of old and new friends. How to propose a toast when familiar and unfamiliar people are together?
At one end of the glass, nice to meet you today. I won't forget my old friends when I make new friends. This new friend has a new friendship, and this old friend has the feelings of an old friend. I feel that our future relationship will be like a bumper harvest of famous dishes in Northeast China, such as potatoes, melons, corn, beans, ribs and pork belly. We are not high or low, we have no intimate relationship, we are brothers and friends, helping each other and supporting each other.
Do you think this way of speaking is grounded and intimate, that is, deep and artistic?
Here are some formulas for you to use flexibly in different occasions and occasions:
How to propose a toast to the leader at a business dinner?
Give you a formula. Formula:
Position+gratitude+modesty+blessing+concern
First of all, the position represents a person's identity in the group, which must be addressed. He represents respect and embodies etiquette, such as Mr. Wang, Zhang Ju,.
Thank you, on behalf of your inner sincerity, on behalf of the leadership in your mind a kind of cognition.
Modesty represents your attitude and behavior.
Blessing represents the leader's favorite words, so remember, never be stingy with your praise and blessing to anyone.
Caring represents your understanding and your world wisdom.
For example:
Manager Zhang: I'd like to propose a toast to you. First of all, I want to thank you for your guidance and help in my work. I know there are still many shortcomings in my work, so please correct me. Today, I wish you a happy new year and all the best. I will do it first. Please drink less and everyone will propose a toast to you. Don't forget to say: thank you for your leadership!