Words to inspire an inspirational life: when others don't believe you.
We can't deny that no matter what you do, there will be people in this world who don't like you; Similarly, no matter what your dream is, most people don't believe you. They don't believe that you can succeed. This phenomenon is normal, because successful people are always in the minority.
When others don't believe you, don't let others influence your five things!
1, when people say you can't.
When we think others can't do it, it's because we can't do it ourselves; Similarly, when others think you can't do something, it's because they can't. The bigger your dream is, the more others think you can't do it, but if you really think your dream is worth practicing and paying, you must believe in yourself and refuse to be influenced by others.
2. When others say you are not good enough.
"Don't let others attack your dreams, and don't listen to others say that you are not good enough, not tall enough, not talented enough, or not rich enough. 」
There is a saying: "Don't care what others think and say about you behind your back, because those words can't change the facts, but they may disturb your heart." The more you go forward, the more people will fall far behind you, with their mouths on other people's faces. We can't control what he wants to say, but we can control our hearts. Black and white are just around the corner, and people who love to talk can't avoid it wherever they go. As long as you love, people who love you understand you along the way.
You should believe that you are good enough and that you can cope with all kinds of difficulties in life, especially when others say that you are not good enough and have insufficient ability.
3. When others spit out your dreams.
When you tell others about your dreams, there are always some people who will spit on you. Even if you don't say it, you can feel that they don't believe you will succeed from the bottom of their hearts. If you really want to succeed, you must learn to ignore those who spit on you.
Most people who spit out other people's dreams are mostly because they don't have dreams, so they like to satisfy their vanity by spitting out others.
4. When you are unknown, no one cares about you.
All successful people have experienced long and hard work. When you haven't succeeded, no one will care about you, and no one will want to know how hard you have worked.
"Before you succeed, you will always be lonely, no one can help you, no one will worship you and look at you. Only one person can struggle. No matter how many people are around you, real success depends on yourself. 」
It is normal to be unknown until you succeed, but if you believe you can succeed, you must learn to endure a long process, during which no one will care what you are doing.
When others can't understand what you are doing.
Most people don't know what you are doing, especially when your dream is special. If you take a very unpopular road, even if it is generally defined as success in society, others will not understand why you do it.
When others can't understand what you are doing, they will look at you differently. You must learn to ignore them and stick to a path that you believe in.
Words to inspire an inspirational life: don't say difficult things in the face of difficulties.
Nothing is impossible, there is no knot that cannot be untied, and the most feared thing is to give up easily at the moment of success. To give up is to bow down and admit defeat in the face of failure and admit defeat in the face of difficulties. However, each of us is unwilling to admit defeat. Now that you have taken a step on the road that you think is right, there is no reason to retreat and give up. Since you have the courage to dare to challenge difficulties, you have the determination and willpower to persist.
Faith, determination, courage, persistence, perseverance and perfect attitude have shaped us into tough, strong and determined winners. Only these beautiful people are truly indestructible forces, and those so-called difficulties and obstacles are just a way of experience and test.
Winners never give up.
If a person can't control his willpower, it will be difficult to gain perseverance and lose the possibility of invention and creation. Many young people were enthusiastic about their careers at first, but due to lack of willpower and perseverance, they gave up their careers overnight and turned to other careers. They often doubt their status and talents. They don't know how their talents are most valuable. Faced with difficulties, they often feel discouraged and even depressed. When they hear that someone has achieved a certain career, they begin to blame themselves. Why don't they do the same career, and they can't see how many opportunities they have wasted to achieve their career because of their weak willpower.
Some people long for strength, but they can't stand the blow of failure. After a period of hard work, if they fail once or even several times, they will give up and quit. This is not an exercise of will, but a harbinger of the failure of the weak. ? Heroes have suffered a lot since ancient times and have never been too handsome. ? The truly outstanding people are mostly those who have gone through hardships and tempered their strong will in setbacks, and those who do not give up easily in adversity.
No matter what you do, as long as you give up, there is no chance of success. If you don't give up, you will always have the hope of success. If you have 99% desire to succeed, but 1% want to give up, then there is no way to succeed.
1. Don't abandon, don't give up.
Xu Sanduo in Soldier Assault has also become a famous figure. He explained a profound and simple philosophy of life to the Chinese people with his simple and tenacious mentality: if you persist in not giving up, you will succeed.
Xu Sanduo was neither a wise man nor a hero, but with his perseverance, he accomplished many things that even a wise man could not. From the initial dullness and cowardice? Three idiots? , to unqualified, no advantages and disadvantages? What about Xu? , until finally fully formed a good soldier? Xu Sanduo? He has always impressed countless audiences with a persistent heart and a belief in not giving up, creating an unprecedented myth of film and television miracles.
Xu Sanduo is neither handsome nor smart, nor smart nor natural and unrestrained. He has neither grandiose words nor brilliant deeds. He is a person with low education, low IQ and limited ability. The first hero of halo? Tradition has become a typical representative of ordinary people. However, it is this silly tenacity and hard-working spirit of ordinary people that gives us a secret of success? Never give up, never give up.
Tough heart, never give up. Maybe what we need is not more wisdom, more shortcuts, but a little tenacity and perseverance.
2. People who don't give up seize opportunities and give up missed opportunities lightly.
For a professional manager, taking over a company on the verge of bankruptcy needs to take great risks. Facing the test, Patricia? Russo likes to encourage himself with Churchill's words: Never, never, never give up!
Tough negotiation style and firm management style, including team building and cultivating employees' loyalty to the company. Russo's series of reforms injected a shot in the arm into the terminally ill Lucent. In the first fiscal quarter after taking over Lucent, Lucent's loss decreased from $3.7 billion a year ago to $400 million, its gross profit margin increased greatly, its cash flow turned from negative to positive, and its income increased slightly. The news from the stock market at the end of August 2003 was even more exciting: Lucent shares closed at 1.72 USD, with an increase of 14%. The management and board of directors of Lucent bought a large number of Lucent shares from the market, and securities investors began to readjust the evaluation of Lucent shares. All these changes have directly inspired investors' confidence. Some analysts even predict that Lucent will make a profit in 2004 after a difficult restructuring, although the telecom market is still in a downturn. The first telecommunications company to recover? .
Give up halfway and fall short, all because of the result of giving up easily. Those who work hard for the goal in their hearts will seize the opportunity in firm persistence.
Don't give up at the critical moment
An ironing worker lives in a trailer, and his weekly salary is only 60 yuan. His wife works at night, but even if both husband and wife work, they can only make ends meet. Their baby, ear inflammation, they had to dismantle their mobile phones and save money for antibiotic treatment.
The worker wants to be a writer, writing at night and on weekends, and the crackling of typewriters is endless. The rest of his money is used to pay postage and send manuscripts to publishers and brokers.
All his works were returned. The rejection letter is so short and formulaic that he is not even sure whether publishers and brokers have actually read his works.
One day, he read a novel, which reminded him of one of his works. He sent the manuscript of this work to the publisher of the novel, and they gave it to Pierre? Thomson.
A few weeks later, he received a warm and cordial reply from Thomson, saying that there were too many defects in the manuscript. But Thomson did believe that he had the hope of becoming a writer and encouraged him to try again.
In the following 18 months, he sent two more manuscripts to the editor, but both of them were returned. He began to try to write the fourth novel, but he began to give up hope because of the urgency of life and financial constraints.
One night, he threw the manuscript into the trash can. My wife picked it up the next day. ? You should not give up halfway. She told him, especially when you are about to succeed. ?
He stared at the manuscripts. Maybe he no longer believes in himself, but his wife believes that he will succeed. A new york editor who has never met before also believes that he will succeed. So he writes 1500 words every day.
After writing, he sent the novel to Thomson, but he thought it would fail again this time.
But he was wrong. Thomson's publishing company paid him $2,500 in advance. Steven? King's classic horror novel Carrie was born. This novel later sold 5 million copies and was made into a movie, which became one of the most popular movies of 1976.
The main reason why many people get nothing is that they stop trying when they need to make great efforts, spend great efforts and persevere. And successful people who can harvest achievements know that the more critical it is, the more they can't give up.
What are you doing at the age of 24?
Author: Uncle Tilami
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The author is 26 years old, with a high school education and two jobs. I do sales during the day and cook in the restaurant at night. My monthly income is 9000- 13000. Get married next month, have a house and no car.
What was I doing when I was twenty-four years old? At that time, I was still muddling along, taking more than 2,000 easy jobs for a month and working the night shift with my colleagues, classmates and friends every day. Although I haven't used my family's money since 65,438+08, my parents don't need me to take care of it. Life was easy at that time.
Just over 24 years old, less than a week later, my mother had a stroke and my father had a relapse. My girlfriend resigned to take care of my mother, and I was the only one in the family who could make money. My parents have always been self-employed. Living in a high-rise building after demolition is tantamount to unemployment, and neither of them has a pension. I went out to find a job part-time. As a person without dreams, I have no motivation to move forward, but life at home makes me have to rack my brains to make money. I changed several sales jobs a day. From the confusion and helplessness at the beginning to the account manager who independently worked on three properties, there are actually not many inspirational stories. My idea is simple. I just need to make more food, transportation, daily necessities, clothes, household appliances and so on at home. It is common to get sunburned when riding a bicycle at 40 degrees in summer.
I didn't lose my job as a cook at night because of the stability of five insurances and one gold. As long as I reach the age of 33, my pension insurance will be paid for 15 years, so that the pressure on my children will be less in the future. Moreover, because I am cheerful and get along well with my colleagues' leaders, although my master and colleagues think it is a pity that I just do it, I don't care about it myself, and I am extremely lacking in self-motivation, because no matter which company will give you a promotion, there will be a period of inspection without increasing the price, and I will often refuse. From the age of 24, I didn't want to do any work, and I wouldn't work overtime to learn any work. Now I am responsible for the regular cleaning and maintenance of any equipment in the hotel, factory maintenance and acceptance, food safety, pest control, staff dormitory management and kitchen staff scheduling. The two years from chef to chef are actually like a dream. Special thanks to the colleagues and leaders of these two companies. Knowing that I have to work in the hotel at night, my boss specially allows me to get off work at 4 pm every day and come at 9: 30 in the morning. Moreover, the hotel considers that I have to work during the day, so the chef in the afternoon class has to help me make a lot of preparations before work.
In fact, whenever my colleagues about my parents' age complain to me about how disappointing their children are, I will say to them: You don't want to give up, how do they know they can walk? Remember Jiro Ono, the god of sushi, said in the documentary that his parents told him when he was in primary school for one year? Are you homeless? . Now parents will tell their children to come back if they can't! Parents say such stupid things, and children will accomplish nothing, probably because they care too much about their daughters. My colleague's son is 27 years old and still eats at home. He always told me that his husband and wife would starve to death if they left his son. I suggested to her that her son should come to a restaurant to learn cooking. Anyway, he will have food, shelter and salary, and he will never starve to death. Or you old couple take their savings to travel for a few months and go out to play when you are tired all your life. Your son is 27 years old and really starved to death. The people's government will never punish you for your crimes.
About half a year later, my mother began to try to take care of herself slowly, and my girlfriend found a new job as an accountant. Nine to five, no pressure, about 3000. Because she is good at managing money, she keeps all my salary cards and divides the money at home. My salary is about 5000 yuan for my family, and I can save about 4000 yuan every month. Girlfriend's salary buys her clothes, bags and cosmetics. I didn't know what a deposit was until I was 24. I really appreciate her. Other women have already broken up with me. I haven't had a red face with her since I was 24. As a woman, sometimes it is normal to be unreasonable, and the past is the past. Every time she gets angry, I yell and apologize, and it's over. It doesn't matter who is right or wrong. Never reason with a woman. First of all, you can't talk to her. Winning is not far from breaking up.
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I am lucky to find a job I like. I am luckier than the average person. I found two jobs. What do people work for? They must get more money materially, but they gain a sense of accomplishment spiritually. The former enables them to live and the latter enables them to live happily. The pursuit of the latter is often greater than that of the former. It is often seen that many people enjoy doing jobs that the public thinks have no future, but they are not fish. How can they know the happiness of fish? If you still feel that you can't make money from a job for more than a year, you are particularly tired and have no sense of accomplishment. I think it's time to change jobs. As for how to choose between spirit and matter, it depends on your actual situation.
My basic salary for sales during the day is a bit low, but fortunately, the company only evaluates our performance, and nothing else is important. In the words of my leader, I don't know if you sleep at home every day as long as you accomplish your scheduled goals every month. Many people think that sales are endless entertainment, but in fact, the core of sales is how much benefit you can bring to customers. Third-rate salesmen sell products, second-rate salesmen sell services and first-rate salesmen sell values. I think I already am.
As a chef, I think this industry has the highest learning cost and employment return value. First of all, the threshold is low. I graduated from high school with a high degree in kitchen. My master is only in the first grade. As long as he is healthy and sane, strictly speaking, he can basically open his own fast food restaurant in five years. In the first year, I killed chickens, ducks, fish, snakes and other miscellaneous things. In the second year, I began to learn to cut vegetables and side dishes. In the fourth year, I began to stir-fry staff meals until Master thought you could be alone. )
Many of my colleagues are uneducated, have poor family background, and are not motivated. Finally, they are forced to learn to cook at home. Doing this business is very tiring. In summer, underwear is basically sweaty, then dry and then sweat. It's even harder to open your own shop. A brother opened a fast food restaurant for migrant workers. He goes to buy food, cook Chinese food and cook dinner at six o'clock every morning, and his business is good until evening 10. His wife's parents gave him odd jobs, and the family kept going all the year round. He told me that he has been in Nanjing for almost four years, and Sun Yat-sen Mausoleum has never been there once, but his income is not bad. He bought a three-bedroom apartment in Nanjing. The salary of a chef should be similar to that of a senior white-collar worker. Even a newly qualified chef will not be less than 3500 yuan here. It is especially suitable for young people from rural areas to work hard in cities. This craft can find jobs anytime and anywhere.
We can always find that many friends don't like their present jobs. Everyone's hobbies are different, but your hobbies may not all make money. Therefore, people in their twenties must force themselves to find the most suitable ability in industries that can make money, and this is used to make money. Then put the money you earn into your hobbies. The boss of a real estate developer is a Beijing opera fan. Last time, the front desk of their company sent me two tickets to invite me to the theatre. I think such elegant art must disappear. He used to go to the theater alone, and all the people who came to the theater were employees of his company or relatives and friends. Anyway, my wife and I don't know how we got through those two hours in the end. Later, I learned that my boss loved singing opera, and he would give a presentation every two months, inviting supporting roles, make-up, bands and renting venues. There will be a celebration dinner after the break. Each performance costs more than 200,000 yuan. It is said that many Beijing opera fans play like this. What is a fan? Rich friends.
So if your job is your hobby, that's good, you can make money and be happy. If you don't do a profitable business, use it to play your hobby, and like those fans, you can live a happy life. Just like I love reading and writing reviews, but I can't make money at this level, so I won't have this dream.