The 12th birthday is an important celebration moment in Chinese culture, which represents that a person has grown up and begun to move towards a more mature and independent stage. It has special significance in Chinese culture and is regarded as an important birthday, also known as "round lock" or "unlocking". This custom is mainly popular in northern regions, such as Hebei, Henan, Shanxi, Shandong and Shaanxi provinces.
Some particulars and customs about the 12th birthday:
Birthday date: In Chinese culture, 12 years old is the first animal year in life, which means that childhood is over and one enters adolescence. . Therefore, the 12th birthday is an important turning point.
Birthday ceremony: The round lock ceremony is an important ceremony for the 12th birthday, usually held at noon. During the ceremony, all the sheep and gifts sent should be placed on the big table in the center of the courtyard. At the same time, the lock on the head rope should be tied around the child's neck, and the two ends of the iron chain should be locked together with an iron lock. First burn incense and kowtow to the Lord of Heaven and Earth, and then kowtow to the parents. Mothers should kowtow with their children. Have lunch.
The scale of the birthday: The scale of the round lock ceremony depends on the family's economic strength and social interaction, but the basic form is similar.
The importance of birthdays: In the circle lock ceremony, there are specific auspicious words and objects. For example, if you open the circle once, you will be smart; if you open the circle second, you will be successful in your studies; if you open the circle three, the house will be full of wealth! and other words. In addition, you should also prepare some auspicious items, such as gourds, wishful thinking, Buddha's hands, etc.
Blessings from relatives and friends: On the 12th birthday, relatives and friends will bring gifts to wish the child healthy growth, academic success, career success, etc.
How to celebrate your 12th birthday
The 12th birthday is a special day, and you can choose a way to celebrate it that suits you. No matter which way you choose to celebrate, the most important thing is to let your children feel the love and support of their family and friends, while also letting them experience the joy and joy of growing up.
Hold a party: You can invite relatives and friends to a party to celebrate your child's birthday together. The party can be held at home, or you can choose to host it at a restaurant or outdoor venue.
Make a birthday cake: You can make a birthday cake with special meaning, such as a cake with a pattern or color that your child likes. You can also choose to DIY cake making to let your children experience the fun of making it.
Send gifts: You can give your children some meaningful gifts, such as books, toys, electronic products, etc. You can also give some special gifts, such as customized bracelets, necklaces, etc., to express your blessings and care for your children.
Outing: You can arrange an outing, such as going to a park, amusement park, zoo, etc. This not only allows children to experience different fun, but also enhances the parent-child relationship.
Participate in community activities: You can participate in some community-organized activities, such as talent competitions, sports meets, etc. This allows children to experience the fun of teamwork and competition, while also making new friends.
Family dinner: You can arrange a family dinner to celebrate the child's birthday with the whole family. You can choose a restaurant your child likes or make your own food to enjoy delicious food and happy time together.
My 12th Birthday
My 12th birthday is an unforgettable day because something happened that surprised and touched me very much.
That morning, I received a mysterious gift, which was a beautiful music box with a song I liked in it. After I opened the gift, I found another card that read: "Happy birthday to you! This is a special gift we prepared for you. We hope you will like it."
It turned out to be my friends A birthday surprise secretly prepared for me. They knew I loved music, so they gave me a music box. This gift made me very happy and touched because it is one of the most special birthday gifts I have ever received.
That night, my family and friends celebrated my birthday together. We had a delicious dinner, sang happy birthday and cut the birthday cake. I feel so blessed and grateful that I have so many people who care about me and love me.
This 12th birthday makes me feel very unforgettable and happy because I have so many people who love and care about me by my side. I hope that I can always have these beautiful memories and touches in the days to come.
For you who are celebrating your 12th birthday, I want to say to you:
Congratulations on celebrating an important moment in your life - your 12th birthday! The age of 12 is a new beginning, marking that you will start to be more independent and face future challenges with more confidence.
On this special day, I want to say to you: Cherish every moment and be grateful to everyone who accompanies you. Family, friends, and relatives will always be with you and support your growth.
I hope you can remain innocent and kind in the days to come, and face difficulties and challenges bravely. At the same time, you must also learn to express your thoughts and emotions more confidently and bravely.
Finally, I wish you a happy birthday! May every wish of yours come true, may you go further and further on the road of growth and become more and more wonderful!