Grandma: The teacher retired, because her husband is very good, and he usually doesn't do housework.
Contradiction: Because she doesn't listen to other people's opinions.
Cause: My wife doesn't go into the kitchen at ordinary times, and our family basically cooks. I did it a few years ago, but I didn't do it like her these years. Actually, the food cooked by my family tastes terrible. For eight years, I have been eating with my eyes closed or cooking on weekends. I was pregnant a month ago and showed signs of miscarriage. I have been on vacation at home for a month. Since I got pregnant, I can't eat my food with my eyes closed. For example, my family has a habit of cooking without waiting for the oil to boil, and the dishes are basically oily. I made it myself at first, but I was bleeding badly. The doctor told me to stay in bed. At this moment, my wife walked into the kitchen.
Eat carrots and stir-fried meat no less than eight times and wonton no less than ten times in the first two weeks. I couldn't eat carrot fried meat in the last two weeks, so I changed this fried meat, which is fried meat anyway. I have her cookbooks at home, and I downloaded cookbook-related software from her mobile phone. I made a chicken as suggested and failed. I made a soda and made it into meat, but I failed without adding water. Anyway, I won't. In the last two weeks, I basically asked my husband to bring back the food from his company canteen for me to eat. Because my grandmother basically doesn't cook, she occasionally cooks some meat. My mistake is that I still have hope for her at this time.
I was worried about what to do with three meals a day this month, so I advised her whether to learn from experienced people, such as the mother-in-law of my neighbor's aunt. She said no, cooking is very simple, just try it a few times. The question is, can I still let her try when I'm confined?
What happened: I was basically infertile and vomited, but I vomited after drinking her porridge the day before yesterday and didn't eat dinner. I ate her meal at noon yesterday and threw up again. I suspect that she took the initiative to add glutinous rice to porridge and rice. I don't even want to talk about family conflicts. My husband felt sick when he saw me throw up, because her mother said it might be related to adding glutinous rice. She immediately retorted that it was impossible! I didn't speak. After a few minutes, she said hypocritically, being a woman is really painful. Look, it's drawn like this. I was stupid again, thinking that she could understand me. Open your mouth and say, mom, let me give you an opinion. Why do you always refute every suggestion we make about your cooking? How can you communicate like this? She immediately blew up: pointing at my nose and scolding me if I am used to being a leader in the company and always giving advice? He said, don't think you are pregnant. I regard you as a treasure. What else do you want? Pat the sofa and say how grateful you are to meet my mother-in-law like this. ......
Husband stood up and told us not to quarrel, and then said, wife, I am a strong person, and her mother is also strong. She quit at once and retorted that she was not strong in three or four sentences! Hey hey hey! ! My husband can't hold on any longer. She kept shouting and was finally pulled out by my husband.
From this moment on, I am really disheartened. I really don't think I can't give food advice at home. At home, I also give it. My parents usually listen, especially when I am pregnant with Dabao. My mother told me to eat whatever I wanted and do whatever I wanted! Sometimes when I quarrel with my mother, my mother will never point at my nose and scold me. I didn't expect you to be pregnant, haha, very angry! !
Later, I even had the idea of abortion. I think as long as I want to have this second child, I don't know how to live in the future. But in the end, I was calm. Now it's decided to hire a part-time job to cook for the whole family during pregnancy. I don't expect her, and I can't expect her. I don't expect her to tell me the problems that I can solve with money.
The question is coming: what if I have a second child? I have to go to work. I bought a second suite years ago. If I hire a nanny, the economy will not allow it in the next two or three years! My mother brought three nephews and nieces, so she can't help me. Dabao was brought by grandparents, but in fact it was all brought by grandparents. It is no exaggeration for my grandmother to sleep all day.
Where's everybody? Ask for good advice! !