1, trust each other
The basis of two people together is mutual understanding, they will not give up each other easily, they can trust each other in the process of getting along, and they will not doubt each other's feelings too much. Therefore, both lovers and couples need the trust of both sides in their lives, and will not easily doubt each other and believe in their feelings.
Step 2 be tolerant of each other
Life together is bound to be rough, and it takes two people to adjust the relationship. At first, we all valued each other more than anything else. However, after a long time, everything will be exposed. Therefore, we must learn to be tolerant and considerate in our feelings, and learn to look at each other more patiently. Only in this way can we have good feelings, otherwise it is easy to destroy the relationship between two people if we care about everything.
Love itself is staged, and the passionate period will be more intimate than the ambiguous period and the quiet period. We can't use the same standard to judge the intimate state of two people in each period, but learn to accept the possible changes in attractiveness in different periods.
Of course, acceptance is not inaction, but we need to know our state, on the one hand, to increase our stability and sense of rhythm, on the other hand, we can make corresponding adjustments according to different States and periods.
For example, in the love period, we may need to be sensible to avoid the gap between the dull period and the short-term love period caused by excessive enthusiasm.
For example, in the dull period, we may need to adjust our state, because in the dull period, our mentality and state will be affected, and it is easy to have the idea that the other party does not love us. We might as well turn the desire to create trouble and attract each other's attention into the desire to increase each other's common experience with ourselves through some interaction, which will make each other love you more!