How do girls take the initiative to chat with boys? Girls are always shy about the boys they like, but many boys always travel across the ocean to talk to girls and show their talents. Everyone has his own way. Let's share how girls take the initiative to chat with boys.

How do girls take the initiative to chat with boys 1 find topics that boys like to talk about?

Since you take the initiative to talk to boys, you naturally need to find topics they like to talk about, so as to attract each other's attention and your topic can continue.

Learn to make excuses to start a topic.

For girls, if they want to chat with boys in a less straightforward way, they can first find suitable excuses and start a topic discussion, which will make the whole topic more harmonious.

Make full use of Yan characters

If you encounter an embarrassing topic, you can perfunctory it through expression packs, which is impolite and can better continue the topic.

Make full use of humorous tone to communicate.

When girls take the initiative to chat with boys, if they don't appear too active, they can cover it up with humorous language, which can also better expand the topic.

Find the same topic for two people.

If you really don't know what reason to tell each other, you can find a topic that both sides care about and pretend to ask each other, so that you can communicate better.

For girls, in front of their beloved boys, they still lack some courage, but occasionally they will take the initiative to attract the attention of the boys they like and find suitable topics to warm your's feelings.

How do girls take the initiative to chat with boys 2 1? Humor attracts attention.

Sometimes I will take the initiative to talk to you, no matter what the purpose is. After all, I am interested in you, so at this time, you should firmly attract her attention through your humor, and be willing to chat with you to make sure that she has not made a wrong choice.

Step 2 reduce the distance

Ambiguity and humor will affect girls' mood, but girls have a better memory of ambiguity than humor. Girls are always duplicitous. If you ask her if she likes a man who is having an affair with her, she will always deny it. But the truest idea in their hearts is that they want to have the only thing that is ambiguous to them.

Don't get carried away, such ambiguous language can't be used casually, because girls are more reserved. If you try not to use this method at the beginning, you can only say that in order to confirm the relationship, using ambiguous language will be more intimate.

3. Really enhance understanding

Routines are like condiments, which make dishes more delicious, but if they are overdone, they will be hard to swallow, especially during conversation. Try to show your true self. After all, the ultimate goal of chatting is to meet. If there is a certain gap between your online performance and your real self, your score will be deducted by the woman soon after meeting. It is better to get used to the real' you' slowly. Of course, you can focus on showing your charm.

Routine is like a cookbook. With it, you may not be able to cook delicious food, but without you, you will be blind. The most important thing is to pay attention to her. The dishes cooked sincerely are not much different. People who really communicate will not be disgusted.

How do girls take the initiative to chat with boys? 1. What topics should they talk about?

If you don't know each other very well, it's best not to talk about gender relations or "what do you think of me" at once, because it will make the other person understand you at once. Don't have a whim to enliven the atmosphere, and then play a joke on the other party, because you don't know under what circumstances the other party read your information. Most of the time, the embarrassing chat starts with Party B's casual joke, and the other party hasn't understood the meaning after reading it several times.

You can try to talk from the comments of WeChat friends circle. Once the topic is settled, the content will be much easier to talk about. You should choose topics that are easy to answer, such as:

Question (Do you know how to erase your memory? /Have you written your paper? ) or interest issues (photography, movies, etc. Of course, they actually include but are not limited to these two kinds. If you are familiar with each other, such as colleagues, there will be more opening remarks.

Note: Don't have too much information about girls, it can't be clearly stated in a few words, and it can't be expressed without feelings, such as "hahaha", which is doomed to be single.

Many people will make this small mistake and add many words "hahaha" to the topic, such as: Did you eat hahaha? /Your expression is very interesting, hahaha and so on. Maybe you think onomatopoeia expresses cute or active atmosphere. But have you ever thought that the topic and specific content you speak are suitable for this atmosphere?

Let me give an example of an offline scene. For example, when you are reading and drinking coffee at Starbucks, two girls next to you are gossiping and laughing loudly. Would you be disgusted?

Because the relationship is unfamiliar, the scene is inappropriate, but the expression of excessive emotions. It's easy to feel abrupt. In terms of information, once he can't get your emotions or change the subject, you will easily become a topic terminator.

If the WeChat message is the standard, it is enough to keep the first message within three lines, because the other party is easy to understand and the reply is smooth. Because sending messages is different from speaking, speaking is generally sentence by sentence. If the other party doesn't understand, you can add it. However, when sending information, if you see that the other party has sent you a bunch of long speeches, it is difficult for you to capture effective information and it is easy to cause cognitive burden to the other party.

Second, let the other party associate:

People with high status can often give people with low status an imagination.

If you give the two people chatting a high and low position, I believe no one wants to be that low role. Because low status means paying, flattering, even at the beginning of the relationship between men and women,

If you have the mentality that I just want to chat with him and be happy, then nothing can be discussed. You just need to pay attention to one thing. He thinks it's his and I'll be mine. In fact, it is not difficult for men to create imagination. Play more light jokes in the topic, or use some expression packs that boys will often use (dirty).

But don't say it directly. If the other person is very direct, you should ignore it. In a word, you are at arm's length.

Third, some people are curious about a question. If the woman is not very pretty, will the probability of rejection be high?

This is a Schrodinger question, because you don't take the initiative, how do you know that the other party will refuse? So there is no need to consider the influence of ugliness on the result. Comfort is more important in the early stage of chatting.

If you are in a bad mood, you can develop in many ways: when you chat with many younger brothers at the same time, your younger brother is your spare tire.