I don't care much about myself, and I overdraw my physical pain.

When we were young, we always didn't take our health seriously, and once we worked, we couldn't take care of anything. In order to win a list, if you are uncomfortable, you will be forced to socialize; In order to complete the task better, I hold coffee and work overtime until late at night every day; For performance, it is more common to skip the last meal. Anyway, I'm still young. What are you afraid of?

After work comes to an end, I always eat, drink and have fun all night, not only to maintain my feelings with my friends, but also to relax myself. However, the consumption of the two aspects is superimposed, and the body is overdrawn, and various diseases will soon follow.

You always think that you are still young, and you can do whatever you want. But the body is not a credit card. Once overdrawn, it will collapse. Even if it costs ten times or a hundred times, it is almost impossible to recover.

People don't have to live in a big house and drive a luxury car all their lives, but they must have a good body. Otherwise, no matter how much money you earn, it's no use lying in a hospital bed without eating delicious food and playing fun.

Therefore, it is good for a woman to suffer any hardship, and she must not overdraw.

Too considerate of others, wronged the pain in my heart.

Do you often have this experience:

Go out for dinner together, and be considerate of friends who are short of money. Many times, you pay your own bill and go back to eat instant noodles for a long time. My husband always says that work is too busy, and you are the only one who cares about home decoration and children going to school. Although you are wronged, you don't say much about his hard work. Relatives at home always ask you for help. Although you are embarrassed, you should think about being relatives and ask for help yourself.

A woman who thinks too much about others always thinks others more important than herself.

Although every concession seems trivial, it is true that you are wronged. If such little things accumulate, you will gradually lose yourself completely, as if you were living for others. Sadly, the other party may not appreciate it. Even if one day you are tired and can't persist, he won't have the slightest love for you.

Therefore, women should never eat the sufferings of others who always wronged themselves.

Too frugal and casual, mistreating the hardships of life.

In life, extravagance and waste are really wrong, but some people are too frugal and too casual.

I have been shivering with cold and have a fever, but in order to save ten or twenty dollars for taking a taxi, I still grit my teeth and wait for the bus in the cold wind; After working for many days, I always wanted to have a good meal, but I didn't want to go in after walking around the door for a few times at the weekend. I looked at a dress for a long time, but I still couldn't bear to put it in the shopping cart until it was taken off the shelf. I'm still wearing clothes from a few years ago.

You always say save it, there are many places to spend money in the future, so make do with it now. However, woman, you work so hard just to avoid going to work when you are uncomfortable, go immediately if you want to eat well, and buy whatever clothes you want, instead of embarrassing yourself at the same time.

If you don't spend your hard-earned money on yourself, where will you spend it? Therefore, women must not suffer the hardships of life.

They say you have to suffer to be a master. However, life is only a few decades, and not all suffering is worth eating.

Some bitterness, we don't have to eat it, it is our most precious thing, even if we get it, it will eventually be a loss and we must not eat it.