1. At that time, the salary of newcomers was only a few hundred dollars. At that time, the boss's career had just started, which was more than ten years ago. Most of the companies are young, in their early twenties, and young, and hundreds of wages have been met. The key is that the salary is a little higher than other companies.
The proprietress invites everyone to dinner every once in a while. Lobster, abalone, shark's fin and other foods that young people have never eaten will also buy hundreds of pieces of clothes, which is almost a month's salary at that time. Everyone feels lucky to have such a proprietress, and she works hard after being grateful.
Wages have been rising with the rise of prices, and the workload is larger than that of peer companies, but the welfare benefits are also better than other peer companies. After more than ten years, these guys have reached middle age, the company has grown, and the boss and proprietress have made a lot of money.
Xiao Liu is my friend. After several years of hard work, he has achieved the position of an executive in a company from the grassroots level, which can be described as an expert in this industry. The boss attaches great importance to him and has frequent contacts in private. Recently, the boss was on a business trip, and the proprietress invited Xiao Liu to dinner almost every day. Xiao Liu is puzzled.
Although the proprietress is more than ten years older than him, she is still attractive. Xiao Liu was once energetic and wondered if it would be an affair. Recently, a headhunter contacted Xiao Liu and offered a position in the same industry. The salary is a little higher than Xiao Liu's present salary. Xiao Liu hesitated to ask me what to do.
On the one hand, it is the esteem and cultivation of the boss's proprietress, on the other hand, it is a better opportunity. After the struggle, Xiao Liu decided to stay. He felt that there was not much difference in treatment, and he was grateful that the boss and his wife were kind to him.
Zhu Ge's point of view: the proprietress has wisdom and means to become the proprietress, and her rank and realm are much higher than that of employees. It is the cleverest to invite you to dinner, to keep your feelings and talents.
The proprietress invites you to dinner every day. There are basically three kinds of psychology. First, your job is very important, and the boss is afraid that you will jump ship and win over you. It's that the proprietress is not easy to see you and has compassion. The third possibility is that the proprietress secretly loves you and wants to have sex with you, but this situation is rarely discussed.
I used to be a chef in a restaurant, and I often had fun and flirted with my boss's wife. Every time there is a wedding reception, I am so busy and tired that I sweat. Sometimes the proprietress will sneak a hundred or two hundred dollars into my pocket. At this time, I will take the opportunity to hijack and eat the tofu of the proprietress, and both my wife and proprietress will laugh.
Later, the proprietress saw that I was spending a lot of money, deliberately refused to pay me, said that she would save money for my wife, and deliberately controlled my expenses. Every month, the proprietress will help me send back the money for my parents. Later, I wanted to leave to learn to cook, and the proprietress hugged me and cried. In fact, this relationship is not that complicated. In my eyes, the proprietress is a good sister in good sister-in-law. If there are other wild desires, am I still human?
The proprietress invites you to dinner every day. I think you can accept it gladly, don't think too much, just work hard for others in the future. Don't live up to people's hopes for you.
It seems that your peach blossoms are in full bloom, and the proprietress invites you to dinner every day after work. She either likes you or has something to ask you to do, but the probability of liking you is higher, because it is impossible to ask you something every day. If she likes you, you can feel that it is very clear whether a woman, especially an older woman, likes an employee. If you are sure to come, just find a suitable opportunity to say so. It depends. There are couples with a big age gap now. This is not something you can't accept. If you like it, you can go further with a little feeling. If you don't like it, you can't accept it. You can talk about it. It's nothing. Be decisive and save yourself.
But there is one more thing that needs your attention. Isn't it a bit exaggerated that the proprietress invites you to dinner every day after work? A person, especially the boss, invites employees to dinner every day, which is nothing. No matter how red it is, there is no need to be so comforted, so the proprietress must have her intentions. She still likes your talent. Let's separate, it's not her, it's your attitude. Just be careful.
Question: What should the proprietress do if she invites me to dinner after work every day?
When I saw your question, my first feeling was envy and jealousy. I can't help feeling: Why are you so lucky? I step on shit every day, but I'm not so lucky. Except for the smell of shit, I am still the ugly and ordinary me!
Ridicule is ridiculous, business should still be put in the first place, and it should be solved seriously! Now I will sort out your troubles under the peach blossom luck, help you analyze, give you advice, give you advice and solve your pain and doubts!
Knock on the blackboard and underline the key points.
This question is super easy to solve and answer. A fool can see that the proprietress is so diligent and expensive that she either wants something from you or has a crush on you!
The possibility of the proprietress begging you is slim and can be ignored. Besides, she invites you to dinner every day. If she really wanted to ask you something, she would have said it long ago, so she wouldn't be slow to speak. Unless she's going to let you do something pillaging, tell me what you think early, please help!
Excluding the first possibility, the rest is the peach blossom robbery that men dream of, and the temptation of beauty under the food color! I think your left eyelid must be jumping constantly recently, and your heart is crazy and confused!
The left eyelid is jumping, and good things are coming. It is an ironclad fact that the proprietress has a crush on you. In fact, you know it, but you just don't want to admit it. You just don't know what to do, do you?
Below, I will cut the crap and make a move directly for your reference and consideration!
This situation is easy to handle! In line with the principle that it is better to tear down the temple than to tear down the marriage and not destroy the happiness of others' families, you should take the initiative to refuse and you'd better leave. What do you mean?
In other words: don't eat and drink her for nothing, and don't fight a protracted war with her: she invites you every day, and you eat every day. It's boring, and it's easy to attract her husband's hatred and even bloody revenge. You certainly don't want to see this result! It's harmful to yourself, to her and to your family!
At this point, your wisest choice is to leave her and resign. Only if you are out of sight, you will be absent-minded; Only when you can't see it, there will be no intersection, no entanglement, and you will forget this feeling!
Let's go, this is the best way out and the only solution!
There are two situations:
(1) You like this lady.
If she has feelings for you and you are interested in her, but you are unmarried, she is unmarried and two lovers are not married, then what are you waiting for?
At this time, because most women are shy and embarrassed, as long as you take the initiative to pierce this piece of paper and say that you have her in your eyes, then you can immediately change from a superior-subordinate leadership relationship to a loving lover relationship, which is a matter of course!
As long as you take the initiative to say "I like you" first, you will certainly receive a fairy-tale happy ending: the prince and princess live happily ever after!
If you act immediately, the happy prince will be you!
(2) You don't like this lady.
You are the bright moon, and you don't like her irradiation. What are you going to do with it?
Simple! Indirectly show her that you already have a girlfriend and you are very loving! Warmly remind those upright straight dogs: even if you are still matches, sticks and bachelors, you should talk like this, give up for her and get away for you! )
If, at this time, she is still pestering you, not letting go, eating wine and eating meat, please! I will hit you with sugar-coated cannonballs, intoxicate your heart with wine, and make you fall at her feet and become a captive of her love. What should you do with her food?
Don't play with her! In this way, although you picked up a bargain for nothing, you got beauty and tasted the sweetness! But this will bring you a lifetime of entanglement and regret!
Real men are loyal! Give love only to the people you love, and the people you love deserve to enjoy your own soul and flesh, and deserve your true love! You are a gentleman, are you a loyal person? If the answer is yes! Then I will tell you what to do next.
Give you a peach and a pear. Do you know what this means?
Yes, run! Only when you leave her, can you get rid of her, can she forget you, can you get rid of this peach blossom luck and escape this peach blossom robbery! Isn't it?
The above is my analysis and suggestion, I hope it will be useful to my brother! Finally, I want to sincerely say to all the male compatriots in the world: Peach blossoms are coming, so we should treat them cautiously and rationally!
Don't make it a disaster just because of greed!
Don't let peach blossom luck turn into peach blossom robbery! Smart, single-minded men do it! Are you a smart person?
What does the proprietress mean by inviting you to dinner every day?
In the first case, you have a good relationship with the boss's boss's wife, and there is a big age gap, which does not constitute the risk of cheating. In other words, the boss's wife treats you as a relative, so just face this situation calmly and have a chance to repay them in the future.
In the second case, the age gap between the boss's wife and you is not too big. Do you have wild desires with her? I advise you to stop here and don't mistake others for yourself. This kind of thing goes against morality and conscience. If we only seek temporary pleasure, it may lead to great disaster and leave lifelong regret.
In the third case, the age gap between the proprietress and you is not too big, and the proprietress is not interested in you. At first, she just regarded you as her family. Don't accept this situation, because things may be out of your control in the future. The best choice is to keep your distance and communicate with each other at a certain distance.
When I was young, I worked in a clothing factory. The proprietress of a clothing factory is a woman with a lingering charm, commonly known as semi-old Xu Niang. At that time, he took special care of me, often sent me something to eat, and sometimes he took me when he went out to talk about business, but I was a designer, so what's the use of taking me? I didn't think much when I was young until I was called on a business trip.
I really regret it. I almost made a big mistake, because I lost my job, too. Of course, all this is another story. As for whether the things that netizens care about have happened, I can only tell you that what happened has happened.
If you just exchange recent work progress, or the project you are currently responsible for is an important profit-making project in the company, then you should learn from your boss's wife and don't think too much. When people master the progress of the project you are responsible for, they won't invite you to dinner every day.
For example, it is obvious that you have physical contact intentionally or unintentionally, whether your body leans forward in your direction when you speak, and whether your legs are particularly close to you. If these details exist, you should be careful. This is a prelude to teasing you, because human bodies are far more honest than human words.
At work, there was an executive who asked a person to eat every day. The frequency was unimaginable. Later, it was confirmed that through this person, the executive conducted a thorough investigation of the personnel movements and production situation within the company, and there was no indescribable relationship between men and women and superior relations.
To sum up; I often invite you to dinner, either because I need to know details at work or because I need some emotional support in my life. You need to be careful what you say and do, report your work well, and don't let her misunderstand that you are interested in her. This is the best choice.
Optimists are always young. Optimists are always young-Byron
This problem has to be analyzed in detail, with different premises and different conclusions.
1. If the proprietress is single, so are you, and she invites you to dinner alone every day, drinks with you while eating, and jokes with you. Congratulations, nine times out of ten, the proprietress has a crush on you.
Second, if the boss's wife is married and you are single, she will invite you to dinner every day (not alone) and talk more about work when eating. When you drink, it's not just you two, or you drink alone, and she doesn't drink. You can also feel that her behavior is concerned by her elders or leaders, so it's mostly because you have excellent work ability and want to win you over.
If the proprietress is married and you are married, but she still invites you to eat and drink alone every day, congratulations, your wife will definitely give you trouble in less than a week.
4. If the boss's wife is married and you are married, I invite you to dinner every day (not alone). This situation is mostly because you have excellent working ability and want to win you over.
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Well, there are many situations anyway, which need to be analyzed in detail.
On the other hand, I haven't met such a proprietress, unless it is the following:
The boss's wife is your biological mother. Every day after work, of course your mother will cook dinner for you! In this case, what do you ask? You should call her mom kindly!
The proprietress invites me to dinner every day after work. What should I do? Sister Cui sees this problem this way. Say it out and let's discuss whether the communication is correct.
First, the proprietress invites her to dinner after work every day, in order to get involved in your working relationship.
The proprietress invites her to dinner every day after work. Under normal circumstances, it is the proprietress who wants to intervene in the work of employees. Talk about work while eating and exchange views on some problems of the company. This situation is normal. The boss's wife can invite her as many times as she wants. In a popular phrase, it is to give face to the proprietress. Explain your importance in your work.
Under normal circumstances, a proprietress will not invite employees to dinner every day. Only when your work is particularly important and really hard can the proprietress invite you to dinner every day. If not, it is possible that the proprietress likes you, or that the proprietress regards you as a substitute for someone. If so, you should think it over when you attend the dinner party.
Whatever the reason, it is not normal for the proprietress to invite her to dinner after work every day. If the proprietress is divorced, she may want to get some comfort in the crowded communication. If the proprietress hadn't divorced. If the boss is not around often, you should learn to refuse skillfully. You don't have to face the difficult situation of eating.
Hello, the proprietress invites you to dinner after work every day. What are you asking now? I feel that your boss's wife invited you to dinner after work, which has somewhat disturbed your normal life, so what should I do if I need to take time off? When should I start talking to you?
First: first of all, you have to find out what the boss really wants to invite you to dinner. There may be several reasons why the company's top management invites its subordinates to dinner, including 1, affirmation of your work (in general, you don't invite them to dinner every day), 2, the boss's wife has emotional problems and seeks comfort from you (you can perceive this from your dinner chat), 3, the boss wants to please you and keep working hard, and you should not think about jumping ship (this is a way to keep people). The above three points are probably the boss's mind, but you are an excellent person and you can feel what the purpose is.
Second: If you have a family or a girlfriend, this situation will definitely affect your life, then you can make a stand directly with the boss's wife, and you will make persistent efforts to do your job well and won't jump ship for other things. If the boss's wife has emotional problems, you can persuade her once or twice. If she continues like this, no one will stand it. You can also make excuses not to go, and people should learn to refuse.
Third: If your boss knows this situation, do you think you can still stay in the company? I suggest you keep a good relationship with your boss and communicate with him more. Communicate more, even if one day your boss knows that his boss invites you to dinner every day, your performance will not get you into trouble.
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So, remember one sentence: "There is nothing worth pursuing, either rape or theft." Take care of yourself. This is my opinion, and I believe you can judge for yourself.
What can you do after what she did? Forget it, don't say these useless things. What should I do? Don't you have a little bit in your heart? Isn't this where you are angry with us? You are very popular with women. I'm afraid this piece of bacon is yours.
Why invite you to dinner for no reason? Still invited every day, why? How much money is there to spend? It doesn't make sense. It's bad to be afraid of yourself outside. That makes sense. I'll supplement your nutrition. I'm afraid your nutrition can't keep up. I'll fatten you up first and then suck you dry.
Just ask her, what do you want? Can we play tonight? I believe your boss's wife has been waiting for a long time, just waiting for you to draw your gun. Go ahead, young man. Consider it a gift from the boss.
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