Newborn children are pure white paper, spotless. What the children will become when they grow up, and whether they will be successful or not, depends on how their parents educate them. It can be said that the education method of parents has a high probability to determine the life of the child. The kind of person the parents are will largely determine the kind of person the child will be in the future.

A bowl of "beef noodles" identifies three "levels" of parents

1. Third-level parents

Xiaomei takes her son to a restaurant to eat and orders I ordered a large bowl of beef noodles. As soon as the beef noodles were served, Xiaomei immediately picked up the chopsticks and fed her son one bite at a time. The few pieces of beef went into her son's stomach. Xiaomei was very happy to see her son eating well. It wasn't until her son was full and tired of playing that she picked up the cold noodles and ate them hungrily. From beginning to end, my son didn't feel anything was wrong.

2. Second-class parents

Aya also took her daughter to eat beef noodles, but after the beef noodles were served, Aya ordered two bowls and then evened out some of the beef noodles. The noodles and beef were put into another small bowl, and then the mother and daughter ate and finished together. From the beginning to the end, Aya's daughter ate by herself without her mother's help, which is commendable.

3. First-class parents

At lunch time, Lingling and her daughter walked into a beef noodle restaurant and ordered a bowl of beef noodles. When the noodles were served, Lingling also brought two bowls, placed them in front of her daughter, and then asked her daughter to divide the lunch portions between mother and daughter.

The little girl thought for a moment, then put only a small amount of noodles into the bowl in front of her. As for the beef, she didn't touch it at all. Lingling asked the reason, and her daughter said: "Mom has a hard time working to make money. She should eat more and eat more meat to keep her healthy." Lingling was deeply moved by her daughter's words.

From the three practices of the above three parents, it is not difficult to find that the education method of the third parent Lingling is undoubtedly the most correct and appropriate, and it is easier for the child to become a good and sensible child. Secondly, what the second mother does is not bad, at least she won’t spoil her child too much, and she can also cultivate her child’s independence and self-care ability. As for the first type of parent, I won’t comment...

"First-class" parents should have these characteristics

1. Work hard and strive for self-improvement

Parents are their children's best role models and their children's best teachers. For their children, To become a better person, parents must lead by example and become a guiding light for their children.

In other words, parents must strive to make progress, constantly strive for self-improvement, and improve and improve themselves. Under the subtle influence, children will also work hard. On the contrary, if parents are content with the status quo and refuse to fight, their children will also be affected and dragged down.

2. Have correct three views and understand right and wrong

No matter how knowledgeable you are and how smart your brain is, if you don’t have moral character and morality, you will sooner or later be defeated by reality. Therefore, first-class parents must maintain correct three views, know right from wrong, and understand right and wrong. At the same time, the same is true for the requirements and education of children, which must not be vague.

3. Be kind to others and repay kindness

A kind and grateful child will often be welcomed by more people. On the contrary, a child who is sarcastic and selfish will be welcomed by more people. Children who are easy to get tripped up by others will not be likely to succeed in the future.

So, if you want to be an excellent and competent parent, you must understand this, and you must let your children understand this, and you must not slack off.

4. Clear rewards and punishments, prohibit pampering

Parents’ pampering is the main culprit that causes many children to be abandoned. Although parents have good intentions, the fact is that parents He did bad things with good intentions and ruined the child's life.

Wise parents should always remember that spoiling a child is like killing a child. Only by enduring hardship can one become a superior person. If they want their children to become dragons among men, parents must be strict with their children and pamper them appropriately. Once a child makes a mistake, the first thing a parent should do is not to condone and make excuses for the child, but to promptly correct the child's mistake and provide clear rewards and punishments. Only in this way will the child correct himself and not do it again.

Are your children over-spoiled?