How long to return to your parents' home after giving birth depends on the customs of different places. If you care about the family, you should abide by the customs. If you don't care, you can go back to your parents' home after confinement.

Tell me about myself

I had my confinement period at my parents’ home, and even stayed at my parents’ home during the entire pregnancy. There is no custom in our country about when a daughter can return home after she gets married. My natal family, when can I not go back to my natal family? During the two confinement periods at my mother's house, I waited until the child was 3 months old before returning to my mother-in-law's house. Because my mother-in-law didn't know how to take care of others, I would only go hungry every day if I went back too early.

In fact, this is also true. I remember that when my second baby was almost 5 months old, I went back to my in-laws’ house. Because I didn’t get home until after 1 o’clock in the middle of the night, I slept a little longer the next day until 10 o’clock. I got up and walked out of the room to find that my mother-in-law was not there. There were two steamed buns on the table, and there was not even a drink. After eating 2 steamed buns, I wasn’t full at all. My mother-in-law hadn’t come back until around 11 o’clock. I was so hungry that my chest pressed against my back. I wanted to go out to buy food and cook and my child was crying, so I could only eat instant noodles. My mother-in-law didn't come back until 6pm.

Later I found out that my mother-in-law didn’t want to cook, and she wasn’t very hungry, so she spent the day playing at a relative’s house. Every time I think about this, I feel very aggrieved. I was treated like this on my first day home. Fortunately, Yuezi didn't let her take care of me.

Talk about friends around you

1. There is a friend who went back to her parents’ home after her confinement period because her mother-in-law didn’t like her going back to her parents’ home to have her confinement period, so she stayed at her mother-in-law’s house. After confinement, I finally finished the confinement and served the wine and hurried back to my parents' house.

2. A friend wanted to go back to her parents’ home for confinement, but her mother didn’t agree, saying that there was a custom not to go back to her parents’ home for confinement, and she couldn’t go back too soon. Therefore, she waited until the baby was 3 months old before returning to her parents' home.

3. My sister-in-law gave birth to a child in other places. After the confinement period, no one helped to take care of the child. She also returned to her parents' home after the full moon was over. However, it made no difference whether she returned or not, and my mother-in-law didn't take much care of her. she.

Summary

When the baby is still young, you must pay attention to keeping warm and safe. If the journey is inconvenient, try not to go back. Wait until the baby is a little older and has stronger resistance. It's not too late to go back to your parents' home when you're done.