How to become a professional
1. Speak appropriately and express accurately.
This can help you build relationships and impress others. Learning this skill well will allow you to exchange ideas freely and communicate with others. The key to practicing expression ability is to dare to speak. You can try to talk to strangers, talk to your neighbors on the train, get in touch with your first love you haven't met for a long time, and chat with people who need courage to talk to them, all of which can force you to express your ideas clearly. Go out and start talking to others. Release yourself and express yourself.
2. The ability to be alone
You can be very happy when you are alone. If you master this skill, no one can take away your happiness. Be your best friend, enjoy your company and enjoy a happy time alone. If you master this skill, you will begin to appreciate the people and things around you. No matter how complicated the workplace environment is, you can stick to your principles and do your job well.
3. Self-sublimation
It is also an ability to break away from the herd effect. Someone once did an experiment. Put a fence in front of a flock of sheep. After the leader jumps over the fence, the sheep behind him will jump one by one. This seems reasonable, doesn't it? But let the fence suddenly be torn down and the sheep behind continue to jump, as if the fence still exists. We also have this "herd effect": we often learn things quickly, but sometimes many things we learn are wrong. Learning not to be a sheep that imitates others may be the most important lesson in our life. Especially in the workplace, innovation and creativity can only be realized if people don't follow the trend.
4. Adjustment ability
Life is the toughness of life. Stand up again and again from the crushing defeat, even if you encounter a plane crash, you can return to the infinite scenery; Even after repeated experiments failed, I never gave up and set sail again. You must work hard to cultivate this ability, so that you can stand up again and go forward when you encounter setbacks. Both life and work are essential!
5. Have a suitable choice
You can start with the following things: give up all material greed, throw away or donate all clothes you don't wear, stop waiting for comments and praises from friends, stop hating the girl you were dead set on, stop regretting the missed opportunity, give up trying to make people who don't love you love you ... Learning to let go is a sign of maturity, although it is not easy. This skill is more important at work and can make your career path smoother.