Since their 1995 divorce, they have accumulated grievances for many years. 20 1 1, Song Dandan also scolded Ying Da in Weibo because he didn't like to show the affection between father and son on the screen: "False loving father, non-human, 14 ignored his eldest son Batu", and then the two men scolded each other from a distance, causing widespread media concern.
Not long after, Song Dandan told Ying Da frankly: I was having an affair. Let's divorce! And Ying Da simply replied: Good! I proposed. At that time, I fell in love with another man, which was my first extramarital affair in ten years of marriage. Before the divorce, Song Dandan asked Ying Da if he had a sweetheart, but Ying Da denied it on the spot. Unexpectedly, just when they got the divorce certificate, Song Dandan found Ying Da's pager in the car, which was full of ambiguous messages from Liang Huan to Ying Da. It turns out that Ying Da has had an affair with his present wife Liang Huan. This incident has done great harm to Song Dandan. Song Dandan was hurt by Ying Da's deliberate deception, and she later wrote about it in her book, only to arouse Ying Da's extreme dissatisfaction.
Song Dandan's public divorce agreement angered Britain and criticized Song Dandan for being "naked". In his new autobiography "Happy Life", Song Dandan revealed the truth of his divorce from his ex-husband Ying Da, because they both had "extramarital affairs". However, Ying Da denounced Song Dandan's "extramarital affairs" as "nudism" in the interview, which completely angered Song Dandan. Reporter Miao Ye broke the news in his blog that Ying Da was so angry mainly because Ying Da and Song Dandan had an agreement when they divorced, that is, not to tell anyone the reason for the divorce, especially the media. In view of the divorce, everyone is actually afraid of the truth. There are some things you can do but you can't say. Whoever says it will have a bad character.