Going home is also called going home in northern China. This is a unique custom of China 18 years old. Every year, on the second and third day of the first month, daughters married by compatriots all over the country have to go back to their parents' homes, and husbands have to go with them, so it is commonly known as Wedding Day. Take a present when you go home. This is called holding hands or accompanying hands. A big bag of biscuits and candy must be arranged by the mother and distributed to the neighbors, just like the scene of the New Year. If there are many daughters at home, and these daughters don't come back on the same day, then we must share one at a time. The gift is quite thin, just four biscuits. However, it reflects a strong feeling. What is the real "courtesy is light and affection is heavy", which expresses the girl's yearning for the villagers.
When the girl goes home, if there is a nephew at home, menstruation has to pay again. Although she gave lucky money on New Year's Day, this time it had a different meaning. In addition, when the girl and son-in-law leave, the bride's family should return the gift money, but they can't receive all the gift money. They should return two pieces and take them back. These customs, in a concrete way, show people's ethical affection of reunion, harmony, etiquette and filial piety, and show that the Chinese nation is a nation that values affection and righteousness, and is a country of civilization and etiquette.