Life is one day at a time, so we don't have to avoid such festivals. On the contrary, we can tell our children what kind of jokes are appropriate and will not make their parents angry.
I remember that a top student in Xiamen, Xiong Haizi, pretended to be a teacher and produced a set of simulated test papers. He actually lied to a large group of students, both in format and content, and almost lied to the teacher.
If you want your children to experience the joy of April Fool's Day, you might as well live like this:
1.diy tips, moderate jokes
There are many prank toys on April Fool's Day. Might as well buy it for children to play with, but parents must first look at the degree of danger and the ability of the deceived object. Parents with hands-on ability can make a prank toy with their children, which can not only narrow the distance between them, but also improve their hands-on ability.
For a simple example, we can ask children to add some "spices" to a bottle of drinks. When a child says something inappropriate, such as "ink", we can remind him of the danger of doing so. And told him that he could put things like "sugar" and "vinegar". In this way, children not only master this degree, but also enjoy it.
Little lies that cater to the festive atmosphere are allowed.
Guiding a child to lie can actually cultivate his imagination to a certain extent. Mothers can ask the baby to make a prank call and let dad go somewhere to find his mother. Don't tell dad the truth until he is fooled. In this process, you must clearly tell your child that the purpose of lying is to cater to the festive atmosphere, and you can't make excessive jokes, such as what happened. When you see that the client has been cheated, you should prick the lie in time.
Tell classic fairy tales
I believe everyone has heard of the story of "Wolf Coming". You can tell this story to your child on this day and tell him that the meaning of April Fool's Day exists to create happiness without hurting others, not because lies are good things.
So why do children usually lie?
Imperfect cognition: Preschool children are still one-sided, so sometimes it is not difficult to tell whether it is their own imagination or reality.
Competitive spirit: The indomitable competitive spirit may make children exaggerate some facts when chatting with you. For example, in today's competition, your child actually jumped 20 times, but it was worse than the first time 1 time, so when the child came home, he told you that he jumped 20 times and won the first place. Parents who know the truth should tell their children that the process is more important than the result. The first place is valuable, but the child who fails to win the first place is also great.
Escape from punishment: Some parents may make many rules. After children know that they have made a mistake, they will lie in order to escape punishment. At this time, parents should consider whether the rules are agreed by both children and parents, whether the punishment method is reasonable and so on. Just find the problem and solve it in time.
Pillow parenting information:
As the saying goes, "Fiona Fang can't be made without rules". Children who lie are not terrible. The terrible thing is that no one understands them, and this lie is getting bigger and bigger. Moral education is far more important than other education, and its influence is far more profound than other education. How did your family spend April Fool's Day this year?