If the mother-in-law is ill at this time, if she is a daughter-in-law, she will have a problem with her daughter-in-law even though her son doesn't say anything. After all, the mother-in-law is her own mother, and it is easy to intensify family conflicts at this time. As a man, she is sandwiched between two women, one is her mother and the other is her wife. She is the most important person, and it is not good to take one side.
Filial piety is the first virtue in China tradition. As long as you get married and have a family, both your parents-in-law and your daughter-in-law should be filial. Even if you meet an evil mother-in-law, you should not leave the old people in the hospital bed when they are sick. If you ignore her at this time, it is easy for relatives and friends to make irresponsible remarks and carry out moral kidnapping, which will make your husband and children look bad. Therefore, even for them, you should put aside personal grievances for the time being and tell your mother-in-law about things between them when she is well.
In fact, for this kind of family contradiction, it can be said that it is difficult for honest officials to break housework, let alone the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. If neither side will give in, the hardest thing to do is the man caught in the middle. If the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law affects the feelings of two people, it will be a bit of a loss, so we should take good care of our sick mother-in-law for the sake of family happiness.