On the occasion of the wedding, the main family hosted more than one meal. Or do it at noon and night that day, or do it several times before and after the ceremony, each with its own name, which varies from place to place.
On the night of the wedding, there are "noisy bridal chambers" in most places (that is, "noisy bridal chambers" and "noisy bridal chambers"), where newlyweds frolic and joke. Because of the habit of teasing the bride as the main object, it is also called "seeing the bride" and "disturbing the bride". When the room is noisy, guests, relatives and friends often try their best to find excuses and plan various humorous and interesting programs for the bride and groom to perform and cope with embarrassment. For example, "give tea to the elders and light a cigarette" (saying: when you are newly married, the new generation is the lowest. The bride and groom invite noisy guests to tea and smoke. When they meet their peers, they should be called "uncle" and "aunt", and when they meet their elders, they should be called "grandfather" and "grandmother" with a loud voice and a kind tone. When the bride lights a cigarette for a noisy person, the other person often blows out the match intentionally, forcing the bride to light it three or four times), "crossing the bridge" (when the bride and groom pass a bench, they should hug each other and turn around slowly, so that they can pass, and if they accidentally fall down, they have to start from the beginning), "Jiang Taigong fishing" (a noisy person is standing on a high place with a bamboo pole in his hand and tied with one. Another way is: the bride stands on a high stool, holding a fishing rod and tying a red rope with lit incense; The groom stood on the ground, holding a washbasin full of water, in which floated a small wooden board with a small firecracker, and the two of them cooperated with each other to light the firecrackers), "catching butterflies" (people who had sex with each other cut out a male butterfly and a female butterfly from paper, and one left it high and let it float down, asking a couple to catch it separately. The groom wants to catch the male butterfly, and if he catches it wrong or empty, the bride wants to catch the female butterfly again. In a few places, when having sex, there are sometimes rude and vulgar behaviors that insult the bride. However, no matter what the troublemaker asks, the bride and groom will try their best to comply, so as not to turn their faces and get angry.
After marriage, the bride who has just passed the door must go back to her family to visit her relatives another day. This is also called "returning home", also called "visiting", "returning love", "turning over and dismounting" and "turning back". Custom: Once a woman is married, she is no longer a member of the family, and the bride only returns as a guest after marriage. So there are such sayings as "being a guest", "being a guest for the first time", "being a guest for three days", "being a guest for the bride" and "being invited to the head". Usually, the groom goes back with the bride, which means being lucky in pairs, so it is also called "double return" and "double return". This is the first time that the groom has officially visited his parents-in-law and other family members as a son-in-law. Therefore, some people call it "returning home", "returning gifts", "taking a wife" and "recruiting a son-in-law".
Jinhua also has the custom of robbing wedding shoes. The bride was robbed when she got off at the groom's house. But we don't have to wrap red envelopes here, but we exchange cigarettes and sugar. The groom and his father bargain with others. In addition, in some places, not only the wedding shoes were robbed, but also the pillows on the bed were robbed.