First, godson educates people first
1, teach children to be polite.
Since Shi Yu was two years old, I whispered to remind her to say hello when she saw her neighbors because of her introverted personality. After half a year, she finally took the initiative to say hello!
2. Teach children to care about their parents and elders.
On holidays or elders' birthdays, I will ask my children to take out lucky money to buy gifts for us, and take the opportunity to guide her to learn to care for and honor her elders.
Second, let children form good habits.
1. Educate children to have a sense of time
Many of our children have the habit of fooling around because their parents have too many things to arrange. At first, my family Shiyu got up in the morning and dawdled. I stipulate that she must get dressed in five minutes, otherwise there will be no hot water for brushing her teeth and washing her face, so that the children can quickly develop the good habit of dressing and washing.
Every night, as long as children finish school homework, they are unwilling to practice the piano and do other homework. (Fan www.fwsir.com) In order to make children have a sense of time, we have made a system together: every time you finish an assignment every day, draw a smiling face, and get 20 smiling faces in a week, you can satisfy your child's reasonable wish. After a period of training, the child gradually developed a good habit of arranging time reasonably.
2. Cultivate children's independence and improve their self-care ability.
From the age of four, I let my children go downstairs to buy daily necessities at home and exercise their independence. For example, I have asked my children to take the empty wine bottles at home to small department stores to sell and save their income for later study. Up to now, my children have never squandered a penny. Another example is reading. I haven't been with her since the second grade, but the child still has a strong interest in reading. I think this has a lot to do with our teacher. Now she can read the whole book "Fairy Tales" by herself in one night.
3. Develop the habit of active exercise.
Health is the foundation of all life. So I attach great importance to children's physical exercise. Shi Yu began to learn roller skating at the age of three and a half, riding a bike at the age of five and swimming at the age of six. Now I let my children run home from school every afternoon after school, and often accompany them to participate in outdoor activities and public welfare activities organized by the school on Saturday, Sunday and holidays.
4. Pay attention to children's mental health.
In order to pay attention to children's hearts, I always spend at least half an hour communicating with them every day. Talk about what happened in school and the problems in class like friends, so as to know the children's ideological trends in time and guide them with the lens.
The above is my parenting experience. Please criticize and correct my shortcomings. To tell the truth, our parents do very little, and the growth of children cannot be separated from the common training of teachers, classmates and schools. Here, I want to say to my child's tutor again: thank you!