2. Understand some habits and hobbies between ex-husband (or ex-wife) and children, and take care of children with the same love. Pay more attention to some small things and subtle changes, so that they feel that everything is still the same as when their biological father (mother) is present or better and more comfortable than before. There should be no distinction between relatives and friends. Respect children's original good habits.
3. Pay attention to use your own words, images, habits and hobbies to set an example for stepchildren. It is necessary to show respect to the ex-husband, allow the stepson (daughter) to miss, mourn or visit the biological father (mother), and allow the child to associate with the original relatives and friends. However, if this kind of communication will affect the growth of children and family harmony, it is necessary to limit it appropriately. Communicate with stepson (daughter) frequently. Open-minded, able to put yourself in the child's shoes.
4. Create a beautiful living environment for stepchildren and provide all necessary conditions and help for their healthy physical and mental growth.
Even if the child still can't accept it to a great extent, we should believe that sincerity will definitely impress the child and don't exclude him because of his alienation, which has a great influence on family relations.