First, whether boys or girls are in love, don't completely expose their shortcomings to both sides. Whether you are in love for three or five years, you should keep the mentality of just being together for three months. Don't be too hard on girls, boys are still gentle and considerate, and their image and respect are still there. The most common mistake we make in love is that after being together for a long time, we begin to completely expose our shortcomings to both sides, and we don't care much about each other's feelings at first, and our demands on each other are getting higher and higher. The way two people get along has lost the feeling of love. Just like an old couple who have been together for 20 years, this easy-going model makes their feelings dull, so why do many couples fail to enter the marriage hall after being together for six or seven years? In the end, we are strangers, because we have been together for a long time, and we have no scruples about each other, and we have shown too much to both sides, so that both sides have lost interest in getting to know each other, and married life is endless. And go their separate ways. Second, both men and women in love should constantly improve themselves, make progress and surprise each other. Learn to bake, rest on weekends or bake a bun at night after work to improve the fun of life. Even if the baking fails in the end, it is a process that makes the lives of two people more interesting, rather than you coming and going after work. We have nothing to do. Feelings need to be managed, and the joy of life needs to be created by two people together. In your spare time, we will go to the supermarket to buy food together, come back to study new recipes together, experience the fun of life together, make progress together and surprise each other every day. If you get along like this, you will not feel dull and stand the test of time. Third, we should adapt to each other, not unilaterally demand. For example, on this rest day, you accompany me to go shopping, watch movies and eat, and on the next rest day, I will accompany you to play games and video games. You give me points, everyone gives each other some space and tries to adapt to each other's preferences, instead of blindly asking others to pay unilaterally. You are not allowed to play games, and I am not going out with you. Feelings are really mutual, and everyone understands each other. There will be a lot more things to do together, and life will naturally be less boring. Fourth, put yourself in the shoes. Let's sit down and talk about something calmly. Don't hide our dissatisfaction with each other. Let's talk openly, improve together and work together for each other, so that both sides can feel concerned about each other instead of sulking. Then let the other person guess that if you want a long-term relationship, the problems between two people should be spoken out and solved together, so as to enhance each other's feelings. You know what I am unhappy about, and I also know what I am not doing well enough. Fifth, there are regular activities for two people. For example, going out once a month, climbing mountains and playing with water everywhere, two people carrying schoolbags together, experiencing the fun of being alone, and going out to play together can actually enhance the feelings of two people. You don't have to go too far, even if it's just near a small scenic spot. The important thing is that two people feel the breath of life together, let them feel the feeling of being together, let everyone feel the fun together, and add something. How can we keep it fresh? 2 To keep the freshness of long-distance love, you must learn 5 tricks. Long-distance love itself is a kind of freshness for love, but if two people are in different places for a long time and have little chance to meet each other, they can only maintain their feelings through communication tools, and such freshness will become a sense of alienation from each other. Therefore, to maintain the freshness of long-distance love, we must start from these five aspects. First, surprise each other at the right time, and don't let love turn into affection. Second, keep learning about each other's lives through communication, and don't fade out from each other's lives. Third, the video is far from enough. Try to see each other as much as possible, not just boys and girls. Fourth, share interesting things around you. Fifth, promise the other party not to let the long-distance relationship be in the foreseeable future. Other tricks to keep the long-distance relationship fresh 1, and have the opportunity to attend each other's friends' parties. This can expand the social circle and increase many common topics between long-distance lovers. One to two, it is not only conducive to the stability of feelings, but also makes the chat topic full of freshness, instead of simply saying, do you miss me? Woman: I miss you. M: I miss you too. Woman: Yeah. 2. When a person talks about the other half, it is also to really integrate the other person into his heart. From a long time ago, "we" appeared more in conversations than "I". 4. In front of the woman you love, the meaner you are, the happier you are! This is also the spice to keep love fresh. If you have time, you might as well know about the other half's work, such as helping to find information and organize things online. On the one hand, two people can cooperate to do some things, on the other hand, knowing the other half's work can increase many topics. 6. If there is a conversation between two people or something interesting, you might as well record it. After a long time, turn them out every six months or a year to see them together and relive the happy time. This is very interesting. 7. Actively communicate things in life. The way to make the other person feel familiar with you is to let her know more about your life, what interesting things you met, what you ate, where you and your buddies went to play, and what you plan to do during the holiday. The more detailed, the closer I am to you. How can we keep it fresh? Three little things to keep fresh 1. Give him some afternoon tea at work to make him feel your concern. 2. Eat watermelon to see who spits seeds further. 3. Visit every city and experience different local folk customs, so that every corner of every city has our footprints. Some anniversaries and festivals can take a group of photos to accumulate some memories for each other. 5. The mayor should also prepare some small surprises, such as buying quietly, his favorite gift recently, and the process of preparing surprises is also very happy. 6. I am timid, try not to let me walk alone at night and always make phone calls. 7. Go to the Furniture City and buy new things for your family. The curtains and sheets at home are all chosen by ourselves, full of happiness. 8. Let's learn idol drama. Couples kiss very gently. 9. If two people can keep a pet together, record the growth of the pet and us. 10. Changing the pattern at home often will make the other person feel brand-new. 1 1. I secretly stuffed two packs of food into his bag this morning. 12. No matter how late it is, leave a lamp and drink a cup of warm water until he comes back. 13. Attend a friend's wedding together, witness the happiness of others and cherish your own happiness. 14. Find a small bar to drink and chat, run to the viaduct or the seaside and shout loudly. 15. Accompany him to do what he likes and use the annual leave to help him finish it. This is a very happy and happy process. Seductive little love story 1. Old, can't stand fierce! I just want to be spoiled as a three-year-old child, and the child should be placed in my arms at any time. I want to give you a super cute gift, but the courier won't let me into the box. If we are lucky enough to be together in the future, we must have a clear division of housework. You clean the house and I'll clean you up. I miss you very much, especially now. It's windy outside. I really want to jump into your arms and kiss you. I always feel that one head is not enough. What happened? I miss you every day, which is not enough. 6. Come and look at my eyes. There seems to be something in my eye. Where is it? This is sheer nonsense. There are obviously people you like. 7. If I have super power, I will light up the dark corner of your heart, drive away monsters and sneak some candy in. 8. I am very sweet, soft and easy to pinch, but I occasionally add a little acid, nothing else, because I am a rainbow candy with many flavors. The freshness of love 1. Pay attention to your image. Don't think that just because he loves you, he will love everything about you. Even if you have been in love with him for a long time, don't be too lax. Dress up beautifully. 2. Keep the distance between two people, leave enough time and space for two people, and don't stick together too much, otherwise it will lose its original freshness. 3. Establish your own personality. Anyway, keep an independent self, he will never love you in the dust. 4. Create a small romantic life, be romantic once in a while, and care more about each other, which will be very touching.