So what should parents pay attention to when choosing a school at the beginning of Xiaosheng? Here, I want to share some suggestions for parents who are about to enter junior high school:
1, learn about the local policy of Xiaoshengchu.
At present, most parts of the country have implemented the policy of citizens recruiting together, but the differences between different cities are still quite large, so you need to implement this problem. This year's junior high school policy has not yet come out, so you can learn about last year's first.
2. The distance factor must be considered.
Try to choose a school close to home.
If the school is far from home, it is recommended to change rooms or rent a house if possible.
3. Public or private
Generally speaking, it is difficult to bypass the question of whether to go to public or private schools when choosing schools in junior and senior high schools.
This matter also depends on your local situation-whether the local senior high school entrance examination results are private or public, after all, not all regions are private.
It's not too complicated. Just compare the best private ones with the public ones you can sign up for.
Ask more about the teaching characteristics and styles of these schools, as well as the students' learning status and homework.
It is also necessary to understand the management characteristics of these schools, from whether there are school buses, breakfast, lunch and dinner, to whether there are "classes" or "hierarchical teaching". Generally speaking, these things will be promoted by schools. Try to listen to them and ask them directly if you have any questions.
4. Talk to senior parents more.
Ask for the opinions of senior parents, listen to the opinions of different parents, and be sure to listen more, because different people have different views on the same thing. Don't be afraid to have too many opinions. In fact, diversified views are more helpful to us-there will be problems that we can't consider.
5. Respect children's opinions to a limited extent.
What I'm talking about here is "limited", because many children's views are bound to be one-sided or even extreme, so they can't fully respect their choices.
However, if the child's opposition is very fierce, for example, you just want your child to go to a private school, but the child knows that the school is too hard and doesn't want to go at all. In this case, you can't force the child to go regardless of his thoughts. In this case, we should first solve the problem of children's understanding and guide them to see if they can change their views. If they can't, we suggest following their wishes.
6. It is up to the individual to lead the master into the door for practice.
Don't pin all your hopes on schools or teachers. If children don't have a positive learning attitude and refuse to suffer hardships, it is useless to go to a good school.
It is often difficult to solve this problem effectively by teachers alone.
Whether the problem can be solved is only one aspect, and what attitude is the most critical. After all, one solution has failed, we can change it to another, and we can continue to think of ways, but if the attitude is wrong, it is completely uncontrollable whether this matter can be solved.
So it is very important to choose a good school, but what is more important than this is the children's own understanding and attitude towards learning. In fact, as we can see, even the best junior high schools have students with very poor academic performance, and even the worst schools have students with very good academic performance.