Can I be lazy when I am a mother? In fact, I can't be a very capable and comprehensive super mother, so I want to learn to be a "lazy mother". How to become smart and lazy?

First, learn to grasp the big and let go of the small

It must be admitted that my children can't do everything well, so I only need to do four things to cultivate children.

1, shaping values

2. The habit of reading

3, the ability of time management

4. Exercise habits

Second, some things don't need much effort.

1, there is no need for a mother who cares and takes care of everything. Most children have no future.

2, less reasonable, you can set an example, then you don't have to nag.

What do you want your children to do? You have to do it yourself first.

It must be remembered

A third-rate child who is a nanny.

A second-rate nanny as a coach

A first-class nanny is a role model.

Third, don't fight alone.

1. Get the other half involved.

Let him know his specific responsibility first, instead of complaining that he didn't help you. There is no need to force him to take care of the children like you.

Step 2 find a circle of neighbors and friends

Ask neighbors for help, grow up with several children of the same age in the community, and help each other when something goes wrong.