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Xiao Liu was introduced by a powerful relative and married her husband. At that time, everyone envied Xiao Liu because she married into a rich family (in her eyes, a net worth of 50 million is a rich family). Serina Liu Jr. married into a rich family. Her husband's family has a company, real estate and land, and a nanny and driver at home, so there is no need to worry about life. Liu Ye Jr. is glad that he married her husband. Xiao Liu often thinks, what is the blessing of marrying into a rich family? Therefore, Xiao Liu cherishes the title of rich woman. She tries to be a good daughter-in-law according to the requirements of her mother-in-law's family, for fear of making her mother-in-law's family angry. My mother-in-law was quite satisfied with her, too. She thought her cooking was delicious, so she quit her nanny.
In fact, it is not easy to be a rich daughter-in-law. Although Xiao Liu's mother-in-law is rich, she is very stingy with Xiao Liu. They don't want Xiao Liu to participate in company affairs, and only give Xiao Liu 20 thousand living expenses every month. Xiao Liu didn't want to at first, but because the family had no money and no right, he had to accept it. Unexpectedly, the cost of living is just the tip of the iceberg, and the real problem is yet to come.
It turned out that Xiao Liu's mother-in-law stipulated that Xiao Liu must have a son and a daughter and always be a son. The first child was a daughter, and it was only after two or three children that it was discovered that it was a daughter. The mother-in-law simply asked Xiao Liu to abort the child. Xiao Liu cried and begged her husband, hoping that he could speak for himself, but Xiao Liu's husband dared not go against his mother's words and had to let Xiao Liu hit the child. In this way, Xiao Liu has been pregnant and finally gave birth to a son to satisfy her mother-in-law.
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Xiao Liu fell ill for this reason and has been in poor health. My husband is inconsiderate of Xiao Liu and often goes out to drink. Xiao Liu once quarreled with her husband. Xiao Liu's mother-in-law reprimanded Xiao Liu and said that men should stay out of it. Since then, when did Xiao Liu's husband go out, when did he go home and where did he go? Xiao Liu didn't dare to ask for fear of angering her mother-in-law.
The mother-in-law also stipulated that Xiao Liu should not disturb her husband when he was socializing, so that Xiao Liu could only take care of the children alone. Because my husband often goes out to have fun in the name of entertainment. Xiao Liu is very upset, but she dare not divorce. Many people say that if Xiao Liu marries a rich family, even if his life is not good in the future, he will not lose money in divorce. When the couple's property was divided, Xiao still took away a large sum of money. Is it really that simple? Xiao Liu signed a property agreement before she got married. Although her mother-in-law has tens of millions of assets, not a penny belongs to Xiao Liu. When Xiao Liu divorced, he was left alone and couldn't take anything with him. So Xiao Liu dare not. The life of her mother-in-law who is afraid to leave is a problem.
However, living in her mother-in-law's house for a day made Xiao Liu feel very tired. Because she must not only obey her husband, but also be filial to her mother-in-law to massage her feet and rub her father-in-law's back every night. When all this was done, it was already eight or nine o'clock. Xiao Liu has to look after the children and has no time of his own. Xiao Liu knows that although she looks very photogenic, only she knows whether she is doing well or not.
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After seven years of marriage, I have nothing but 1 living expenses and 20 thousand yuan a month. I live in this family like an outsider and send her some money every month. At the same time, she is like a nanny, taking on big and small things at home. Xiao Liu began to wonder, is the life of the giants that others dream of worth it? This is not like a kind of love at all, but more like a humiliation. She is not like her husband's wife, nor like a daughter-in-law at home, but more like a paid employee. Does this carefree life really make you feel happy? Not exactly.
After so many years of marriage, I haven't bought any luxury goods or given my parents much subsidies. The only pocket money is for children and husbands. Sometimes I want to buy myself a decent dress, but I still think for a long time. Like their friends, they are not married to a rich family, but they are very happy. Don't bother to please your in-laws and don't focus on your husband. He has the final say in everything at home, and her husband is considerate of himself. This kind of life is what women really want. What is her own life like?
Conclusion: Many girls will say, "I'd rather cry in a BMW than laugh on a bicycle". Although it sounds ironic, it is true. Money and power tempt the hearts of many girls, so when they see the superficial scenery of the giants, they will blend in at all costs. In their view, entering the giants means having a life guarantee, and they can have food and clothing from now on. Although you don't have to worry about life when you marry a giant, is the life of a giant really that simple? Since ancient times, people often say that the door is right. When your ability and family can't match, you will walk on thin ice if you barely enter the life of a rich family. Not only always facing the criticism of in-laws, but also worrying about her husband's derailment. Therefore, the title of rich woman is more like a shackle, which brings you happiness and also fetters your freedom. Just like Xiao Liu in the article, although his family is rich, he can only receive living expenses every month. Is such a rich life really what you want?