In the countryside, do you think it's uncle or uncle? When I was a child, my mother told me that my uncle was the oldest of all relatives, and she also told me an old saying, "My mother's uncle is older." At that time, I was still young and didn't understand much. I just heard my mother explain that when I hold a banquet at home, my uncle always sits in a chair, and my uncle often sits in the main seat. Later, I also ate a lot of banquets in the countryside. I really found that if most people hold banquets at home, as long as my uncle is present, most of them are accompanied by my uncle. This is a rule in the countryside. At that time, I thought that 99 should be the closest.

When I grow up, I have a different understanding and understanding of these things, and I gradually feel that my uncle is the closest person. Because according to the ancient division of relatives, "relatives" are actually composed of internal relatives and consorts. In other words, "relatives" refer to relatives within the family, and "relatives" refer to relatives outside the family. Among them, uncles are in-laws and uncles are consorts. So judging from the ancient people's division of relatives, it is obvious that in-laws are more intimate than consorts.

But in real life, there is no specific answer to whether it is an uncle or an uncle. Because the situation of different families is different, and whether relatives are close is also affected by many factors. For example, some families have many brothers and sisters, among which I have frequent contact with my uncle's house and often walk around. But you will have less contact with your uncles because of conflicts of interest, so you will get closer to your uncles. On the other hand, I don't have much contact with my uncles, but if I have always had a good relationship with my uncles, it is natural for my uncles to be closer.

Therefore, the farmer thinks this is like: a thousand readers have a thousand Hamlets, and there is no standard answer. If I say uncle, some people will think they have a "fake uncle". When it comes to uncles and relatives, some people will say the same thing. Feelings are well maintained and handled, even people who are not related by blood will be very close. If you don't handle it well, even your own brothers may not be close.