A mourner cannot fall behind. A funeral usually takes three days. If he doesn't show up for three days because he doesn't know, he won't follow. According to custom, there is no compensation for funeral expenses.
Accompanying gifts is also called escorting members, and collecting money. Marriage customs, manners and customs. When giving gifts, we share money in a collective way. Before men and women get married, relatives and friends pay the money according to the agreed amount, and then make a gift for each man and woman who are going to get married. In the past, gifts were limited to the relatives and friends of the man's family, but the relatives and friends of the modern woman's family have since become vulgar.
In rural areas, the custom of marrying members, and finally, in rural areas where the most traditional wedding customs are preserved, the gift-giving style here is more distinctive. The young man in the village is going to get married, and he may invite a representative from every household in the village to have a running mat. The whole village will take this opportunity to enjoy themselves. According to the words of the city people, it is a bit like the rural version of the "party", and many people can't talk about giving red envelopes. Even if there is, it is not too little to give twenty or fifty, and it is not too much to give 100, but most simple villagers will give some homemade ones. Have fun together.