As a national lingua franca, Putonghua involves all aspects of culture and life, shaping the expression and understanding of contemporary China people. The love stories, emotional bridges and love presentations you see are all displayed with the help of Putonghua, a commonly used style. As a symbol and medium, Mandarin actually "defines" your understanding of many things. Especially in the intimate scene of falling in love, it is difficult to give and accept experience in life, and only through books, networks and other media with Mandarin as the language medium. The consequence of this is that although you live in the world of dialects, you are not familiar with "dialect love" and you don't know how to express your personal feelings in dialects.

Language is a power, a qualification to explain the world and express emotions. The current situation is that dialects, including Henan dialect, are facing the reality of marginalization or extinction to varying degrees, and the number of people using them is decreasing, let alone standardized people.

Answer: I am from Henan. When I went back from the living environment at that time for a long time, I obviously felt that there was a language barrier, because dialects themselves were changing, and some of what they said had never been heard, and some of what I was familiar with had died out. And I can imagine that if I use those words again, even if I can understand them, my fellow villagers will think I'm old-fashioned.

I still remember what my grandmother said to me when I was a child. As the language environment changes, these things will disappear.

Language ability is a cultural and educational topic, not to say that Henan dialect is not suitable for expressing love. After being familiar with the rhetoric and application of Henan dialect, you can also express something tall and not contradictory.