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When you are "looked down upon" by others, it is useless to explain more. How to fight back more effectively? 1. Nine times out of ten, if you care about everything, you will be in a bad mood every day, and your temper will become more and more violent, and there will be more and more negative emotions. You wanted to do a lot of things, but you found yourself unable to do it, and all your energy was consumed by these mentality.

If someone next to you looks down on you, no matter how much you say, it won't help, so why not just smile indifferently, try to do everything you can now, and calm down and continue to go your own way. Because you have to understand that it is not easy for people to be at a low ebb all the time. As long as you want to be diligent, as soon as you show off, all the people who looked down on you before will immediately shut him up.

2. Think about what this is all about. There are various reasons for being looked down upon. For example, your family is not particularly good, or you may have some shortcomings, or you are particularly fat ... In short, there are many reasons. You can take advantage of others' contempt, realize your own shortcomings, and then correct them in time to make yourself better.

A friend of mine, not only has a particularly good figure, but also has a smooth job, and also married a particularly beautiful wife. It can be said that everyone is particularly envious, but you will never remember that he was often looked down upon many years ago. Because there was nothing before, my level was not particularly good and my figure was relatively poor. He is a big fat man weighing 200 kilograms, and his working ability is very average. But suddenly one day he made up his mind to change all this and began to lose weight. Running at first was a particularly difficult thing for him, so he gradually improved the specific content of the exercise and often read some books on physical fitness. In just half a year, he lost nearly 60 pounds, and now his figure is enviable. If you are looked down upon by others, you don't have to defend yourself too much, because it will only consume your saliva. It is better to spend more time and energy to develop your ability, make yourself stronger and punch the person who once looked down on you in the face.

If you don't want to be looked down upon, try to make yourself better. Ma Yun's father was looked down upon by many people at the beginning of his business. Yao Ming, the star of basketball, was despised and looked down upon at the beginning, and was attacked with words. Everyone will be angry in this situation, but they suppress their inner anger and even turn it into a driving force to work harder. Finally, they shut everyone up with a particularly beautiful report card.

My dear friend, remember Pushkin's words: "Keep calm in depressed days, believe in it, and happy days will come." Learning is like duck swimming. It's clear on the surface, Wan Li. Work hard underwater, and then tell those who look down on you to shut up.