▲ Our baby is 3 years old and has not yet gone to kindergarten. I think the biggest change after becoming a mother is that there is no time, let alone shopping, but sleeping all night is a luxury. I really hope that after she goes to kindergarten, I can be a little more liberated.

▲ No money, and my husband doesn't earn much. My mother-in-law doesn't want to take care of the children. I quit my job to take care of the children. Now the family depends on her husband's salary to eat and drink, and lives a tight life. Now I'm afraid that my child will get sick or something. Now I have no money to go to the hospital. It's really expensive! In the past, two people were paid and only supported two mouths. They think it's enough. Having children has changed everything.

▲ I have been a mother for more than 2 years, and I am not fat. My stomach is also a thousand ditches. I can't bear to watch it myself. All tears.

▲ The biggest change is that I always think about my children when I do things. For example, on Sunday, I once thought about relaxing, shopping, traveling and watching movies again ..... Now I think I can finally spend time with my children.

No matter what the predecessors say about their troubles, if you ask her: Do you regret having children? I'm sure her answer must be: no regrets! Because, they are mothers! After becoming a mother, I found that the things that have changed are really not a little bit, and you are still willing, and the source of all this is because of love!

Things change because of love: 1, before becoming a mother, clothes are very different after becoming a mother.

I have loved skirts since I was a child. I have more than 20 clothes of various colors and styles. I may have a classical complex. I always feel that wearing a skirt is particularly beautiful for a lady. I like pink skirts best. In short, except in winter, most of the time is skirts. High heels are also my favorite. Wearing them always makes me feel confident. Even if my tired heel hurts, I don't want to take it off. When I became a mother, it was inconvenient to wear a skirt to feed, and I always squatted when playing with my baby, so I bid farewell to my beloved skirt and high heels for the time being. Put on flat shoes and sportswear, and you can enjoy playing with your baby.

Things that change for love: 2. I can cook.

? Although she was in her twenties before she became pregnant, she was still a good girl in the eyes of her mother. She has never cooked before and can do some simple housework. I don't understand many dishes, and I have made many jokes. After having a baby, I didn't start to add complementary food until the baby grew two small white teeth at six months. In order for my son to have a good figure, I look at complementary food recipes. Constantly failing, constantly exploring, constantly hitting a wall, getting more frustrated and more brave, I can finally make various nutritious meals for my baby, and I won't take the same samples for a few days! This makes both husband and mother-in-law sit up and take notice and make them look good.

Things that change for love: 3. Or continue to buy it at buy buy.

? Before giving birth to a baby, I will go to buy buy to buy it when I get paid. I will go shopping with my girlfriends, see the new styles of the merchants and consider which ones are better. When I was pregnant, I passed a clothing store. There is a dress that stands out. As soon as I asked for more than 300 yuan, I immediately put it back. Facing the enthusiasm of the salesman, I gave it a try. It will look good on you! At that time, I was thinking that more than 300 yuan could give my baby several sets of toys. It's getting cold, so I'd better buy more clothes for my baby. The shopping cart is full of baby or dad's things, and it is not my own world anymore.

Things that change for love: 4. A great change in temperament

? Before giving birth to the baby, I was impatient and said I had to do something at once, and I didn't want to delay for a moment. After having a baby, everything is baby first, and I am second. I can postpone my plan indefinitely. I can take my baby to watch cartoons that adults are bored with in a good temper. I can play with my baby all afternoon. I can patiently accompany my baby to draw. I can paddle with my son for two hours ... I gave up my favorite uncle and Oba, and gradually began to pay attention to parenting knowledge and gradually became a "parenting expert".

Life will inevitably be bumpy, it can't be smooth sailing forever, and it can't be static. These quiet changes are all gifts of life, and for mothers, they are also gifts of children. Maybe every baby is God's best gift to his mother. This gift is unique. It will always touch your heart, make you selfless and give him all your love.

Finally, I wish the baby a happy growth!